Bachelor Party

[Island_Oak]

OldStNick:

Actually I don’t think he’s abusing her but they do have an unusual relationship. From things they have said before, I get the feeling that she is attracted to women as well and that he gets some kind of kick out of that. In fact, he has once boasted about how at a party while she was drunk, she “made out” with another woman.

You think it would be right to just tell them I can’t be in the wedding at this point?

A wedding in the midst of all this absurdity? Why would a couple who are so clearly bent on appearing hip to all the smut the world has to offer have any interest in doing something as banal and trite as taking marrige vows in a (snore) church?! Perhaps a weekend in Sin City (Las Vegas) is more appropriate–they’ll enjoy it more and avoid giving the erroneous impression that they are ready or understand what it means to be married.

 

[bjorn]

Island Oak:

Why would a couple who are so clearly bent on appearing hip to all the smut the world has to offer have any interest in doing something as banal and trite as taking marrige vows in a (snore) church?! Perhaps a weekend in Sin City (Las Vegas) is more appropriate

i dont think marriage vows are banal or trite

 

[Timidity]

bjorn:

i dont think marriage vows are banal or trite

I think you missed the sarcasm.

 

[bigdawg]

Corinthians:

Marriage is all about trust and if she trusts him enough to be OK with him going to a place like that, that says a lot.

A bouncer? Can Catholics be bouncers?

I was an atheist.

 

[Corinthians]

jlw:

I was in a similar situation when my best man wanted to throw me a shin-dig with dancers etc.

I wasn’t even Catholic then, and I still knew, I KNEW it wasn’t right.

I insisted on an alternative. Instead we all went to a baseball game, and had a huge dinner afterwards. Plenty of wine (beer) and song, but no women.

I regretted the hangover, but nothing else. Even then, still imersed in mainstream culture, I knew the importance of fidelity!

A party with women doesn’t necessarily mean infidelity.

 

[Sylvia22]

I used to be a dancer at a club like this and I’m a little offended that people would be so quick to judge us. Most of the dancers were girls just trying to work their way through college. It’s not a bad job.

 

[Genesis315]

Sylvia22:

I used to be a dancer at a club like this and I’m a little offended that people would be so quick to judge us. Most of the dancers were girls just trying to work their way through college. It’s not a bad job.

It is a bad job. You’re cashing in purely on the sins of others (and your own).

 

[Sylvia22]

Genesis315:

It is a bad job. You’re cashing in purely on the sins of others (and your own).

At least we dont give it out for free like some girls.