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ConstantineTG
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In Orthodoxy everyone is supposed to consult the priest. Reading a Catechism of Canons on your own and making your own conclusion is no better than a sola scriptura Protestant.Hello Constantine - I only know what was said to me. I asked no questions of my friend at the time because I didn’t feel it was my place to question her personal choices.
The wife stated that their reason for stopping at two children was because “our priest told us it was okay”. (I am guessing she brought it up because we were expecting #4 in our early 40’s).
She then made a comment about her resting on Sundays because her priest says she works so much during the week (and she is a very hard working woman and mother) that she can miss sometimes. She would often entertain on the weekends and brought it up at dinner one night.
I know that there are many kinds of priests. Honestly, my questions go back to: where are the teachings to be found in Orthodoxy, does one need to consult a priest on such matters (as opposed to reading a catechism, for example), and by following a priest’s direction on such matters does it make the priest the absolute authority?
As with your story, we don’t know the whole story. Perhaps there are certain items your friend is not willing to share with you. There is just too many unknown variables here to make a conclusion.