Where did I say that?
Answer: nowhere, you are trying to put words into my mouth.
Multiple functions for body parts invalidates the naive and simplistic ‘natural law’ argument that just because you have identified
one use for a body part, any other use is therefore ‘disordered’.
For example, how many uses are there for the mouth:
eating
drinking
breathing
speaking
tasting (even when not eating the thing being tasted)
feeling the shape or texture of something
blowing or sucking
holding something
visual gestures such as smiling or snarling
tactile gestures such as kissing
biting, offensive or defensive or in order to shape something
spitting (ever seen a camel take out a fly?)
…and so on.
Given such a plethora of uses, how can a similair naive ‘natural law’ argument hold that oral sex is wrong because it is not the
one correct use of the mouth?
Drinking gasoline is not wrong
because “it is not the
one correct use of the mouth,” it is wrong because of other considerations.
It may, also, still be true that there exist legitimate and illegitimate uses for body organs and systems. Merely because more than one legitimate use exists does not, thereby, mean any use is legitimate.
If, for example, one particular alternative use completely nullifies or compromises a legitimate or important use, that might be a good reason for disqualifying the alternative use as illegitimate.
Thus, exclusive same sex “orientation” that renders null legitimate procreative “purposes” for reproductive organs and systems for individuals so affected may be sufficient reason for calling exclusive same sex purposing of reproductive systems morally illegitimate.
Further arguments may be necessary to make a completely compelling case, but it need not be true if one argument does not suffice to make a case that several arguments together are, thereby, not permitted to do so.
What is interesting, in an eerily discomforting sort of way, are the results of John Calhoun’s experiments with mice and rats back about fifty years ago. The term “behavioral sink” was coined to describe the breakdown of social order among mice when overcrowding made social roles impossible to maintain.
These two links describe the findings of Calhoun and others.
mostlyodd.com/death-by-utopia/
cabinetmagazine.org/issues/42/wiles.php
From the second article…
Mice found themselves born into a world that was more crowded every day, and there were far more mice than meaningful social roles. With more and more peers to defend against, males found it difficult and stressful to defend their territory, so they abandoned the activity. Normal social discourse within the mouse community broke down, and with it the ability of mice to form social bonds. The failures and dropouts congregated in large groups in the middle of the enclosure, their listless withdrawal occasionally interrupted by spasms and waves of pointless violence. The victims of these random attacks became attackers. Left on their own in nests subject to invasion, nursing females attacked their own young. Procreation slumped, infant abandonment and mortality soared. Lone females retreated to isolated nesting boxes on penthouse levels. Other males, a group Calhoun termed “the beautiful ones,” never sought sex and never fought—they just ate, slept, and groomed, wrapped in narcissistic introspection. Elsewhere, cannibalism, pansexualism, and violence became endemic. Mouse society had collapsed.
What is disturbing is that the “behavioral sink” aptly describes the rising tide of aberrant behaviour quite noticeable in modern western societies. Perhaps instead of accepting and “tolerating” what in less dysfunctional societies would be considered unusual or disordered behaviour, we ought to, minimally, look into to possibility that modern western society is caught in the throes of its own “collapse.” Reading warning signs as warning signs instead of “liberties” to indulge might be a reasonable option, at least until a clear determination is made regarding the social health of modern western culture.
Like the frog in the pot, it is not clear to me that mice in the midst of devolving social order would be astute enough to recognize the danger about to befall them. Likewise, in a human society undergoing a devolving social order that is about to collapse into its own behavioural sink, moral relativism could well be a loss of moral and social compass rather than a positive change.
Contrary to the modern myth of overpopulation and resource scarcity, the underlying issue in Calhoun’s experiments was not a “lack of” anything, but rather that individuals in the social order were overwhelmed by and unable to maintain their social roles, leading to a complete abandonment of any existing social order. It could be argued that such a state is precisely the issue in modern western culture. Social roles have largely been abandoned and the
bold-faced portion describing the breakdown of mice society from the article above aptly depicts the human social order in modern western cultures.
Rather than dismissing questioning and discussion as homophobic or intolerant, perhaps, at least, some openness to the possibility that the overturning of traditional moral values in such a short period of time MIGHT signal some potentially serious issues with regard to human social health.
Killing one’s own offspring, having an aversion to reproducing offspring, pansexualism, lone females raising young, unhealthy preoccupation with appearance and grooming, etc. etc. were hardly signs of healthy mouse society before its extinction, yet are accurate with regard to the current liberal democratic agenda for -]mouse/-] human society.