“According to current scientific and professional understanding, the core attractions that form the basis for adult sexual orientation typically emerge between middle childhood and early adolescence. These patterns of emotional, romantic, and sexual attraction may arise without any prior sexual experience. People can be celibate and still know their sexual orientation-–be it lesbian, gay, bisexual, or heterosexual.”
apa.org/helpcenter/sexual-orientation.aspx
Then I don’t want you as a teacher, scoutmaster, sunday school teacher, or anywhere around kids. Sorry.
Or, educate yourself to the reality of the data. Some kids know when they are quite young. The attitude you describe above is the attitude that requires correction.
I apologize if I offend. However, that attitude is the core of the problem. It is irrational. But if it is not pathological, then you’ll get over it.
I hope you get over it before you have a gay child, grandchild, niece of nephew. Although the data show that it is unlikely to change
until you have a primary relationship with someone gay.
Truly. Peace. And blessings.