Obviously, the problem is the fear that, in the future, openly gay leaders will be allowed. Honestly, in this case, it could actually make it HARDER for boys with homosexual attractions. The additional thing is, and this is simply from my own experience, is that girls are much more likely to experiment at an earlier age with same-sex romance than boys are. In essence, most boys who would be declaring themselves “gay” would be pretty close to Eagle Scout level. That’s the problem in and of itself - too much opportunity for these boys to fall into sin. In addition, a lot of people use the term “gay” to mean “in, or actively searching for, a homosexual sexual relationship” - not just meaning “chaste, but physically attracted to people of the same sex”. Are there some people that have homosexual inclinations? Of course - and it’s a cross they have to bear. All of us have our crosses - I personally have a speech impairment and a nervous system tic. It is up to us to accept them and carry them. Obviously, having attractions to people of the same sex is one of the more difficult ones, especially when knowing that it is evil to act on those attractions. But, as St. Paul noted in one of the letters to the Corinthians, “I begged the Lord 3 times to take the thorn away from me, but He refused, replying, ‘My grace is sufficient for you’.”