Building a Bridge Between the Church and the LBGT Community

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An Interview with Father James Martin on the Instituional Church and the LBGT community. Based in part on his newest book on the subject.
Cardinal Kevin Farrell, Prefect of the Vatican’s Dicastery for Laity, Family and Life, called it “a welcome and much-needed book that will help bishops, priests, pastoral associates, and all church leaders, more compassionately minister to the LGBT community.” Bishop Robert McElroy of San Diego said it “provides us the language, perspective, and sense of urgency to undertake the arduous but monumentally Christlike task of replacing a culture of alienation with a culture of merciful inclusion.”
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Merciful inclusion? Jesus alienates someone on every page of the gospels. If everyone (or more accurately, everyTHING) was so “mercifully included”, He never would have been crucified. Where do these insane ideas come from? Seminaries? Who decided that “alienation” was the greatest evil?
 
It can build a bridge to its own members and allow them to build a bridge to it, then they and it can build bridges to all other individuals of whatever sort, who can bring their communities with them if they want.

It only works when all four sides are present in sequence.
 
Merciful inclusion? Jesus alienates someone on every page of the gospels. If everyone (or more accurately, everyTHING) was so “mercifully included”, He never would have been crucified. Where do these insane ideas come from? Seminaries? Who decided that “alienation” was the greatest evil?
He alienated the dogmatic and legalistic religious and secular power structures at the time. Not the average joes just trying to live their lives.
 
People who persist in committing mortal sins make it difficult to “build a bridge”.

They need to repent and to change their behavior.

We can pray for them to repent and change their behavior.

And that’s about it.
 
People who persist in committing mortal sins make it difficult to “build a bridge”.

They need to repent and to change their behavior.

We can pray for them to repent and change their behavior.

And that’s about it.
The point is though, that some of these people might not be living in sin after having gotten surgery, if they have gone that far. Your post seems absolute when applied to those who dress up but have not had surgery. Building bridges without inviting sin. I understand the need for compassion but the need to apply without renouncing our own faith at the same time.
 
Compassion and inclusion are always good things. The only people Jesus went around “alienating” on a regular basis were the uncharitable persons and the hypocrites who liked to point out how everybody else was more sinful than themselves.
 
People who persist in committing mortal sins make it difficult to “build a bridge”.

They need to repent and to change their behavior.

We can pray for them to repent and change their behavior.

And that’s about it.
For a sin to be “mortal” requires grave matter, full knowledge, and full consent of the will. A member of the LGBGQT community that is not and has never been Catholic can not even remotely have “full knowledge”. Full knowledge does not only require knowing that this is what the Church teaches, he or she has to understand why. In other words, that person needs catechesis. How one is to catechize a non-Catholic from one’s high mountain remains a mystery to me.

The Church is not a resort for the righteous but a hospital for sick souls. All of our souls are sick since the Original Sin. If we are to close the door to the hospital, how can we ever hope to put the LGBQT on the path of God and righteousness?

Monastics know that embarking on the monastic life does not mean they have found sanctity. They embark on it to find sanctity and the Church is no different. As one monk put it to an oblate “I didn’t enter the monastery because I am perfect; I entered because I am such a terrible sinner that without the structure of monastic life, I would never be able to reach God”.

Of course they should repent. But they need to know why they should do so, and to know that, they need to be evangelized and catechized. It’s a long journey started by throwing open the doors to the Church and making them just as welcome in the pew as the next sinner, be it a tax cheat, a thief, a philanderer, an alcoholic, a porn addict, a masturbator or whatever, in other words, as welcome as all of us who are sinners. Open the doors to the beauty of sacramental grace and then, perhaps, they will have a real chance at healing and repentance. Telling them to “straighten up” before allowing them in ensures that they will always be left on the outside and never have a chance at tasting God.

And if we do that, then the stain of turning away a soul from God rests as much, if not more, on our own soul than on the soul of the rejected sinner.
 
For a sin to be “mortal” requires grave matter, full knowledge, and full consent of the will. A member of the LGBGQT community that is not and has never been Catholic can not even remotely have “full knowledge”. Full knowledge does not only require knowing that this is what the Church teaches, he or she has to understand why. In other words, that person needs catechesis. How one is to catechize a non-Catholic from one’s high mountain remains a mystery to me.

The Church is not a resort for the righteous but a hospital for sick souls. All of our souls are sick since the Original Sin. If we are to close the door to the hospital, how can we ever hope to put the LGBQT on the path of God and righteousness?

Monastics know that embarking on the monastic life does not mean they have found sanctity. They embark on it to find sanctity and the Church is no different. As one monk put it to an oblate “I didn’t enter the monastery because I am perfect; I entered because I am such a terrible sinner that without the structure of monastic life, I would never be able to reach God”.

Of course they should repent. But they need to know why they should do so, and to know that, they need to be evangelized and catechized. It’s a long journey started by throwing open the doors to the Church and making them just as welcome in the pew as the next sinner, be it a tax cheat, a thief, a philanderer, an alcoholic, a porn addict, a masturbator or whatever, in other words, as welcome as all of us who are sinners. Open the doors to the beauty of sacramental grace and then, perhaps, they will have a real chance at healing and repentance. Telling them to “straighten up” before allowing them in ensures that they will always be left on the outside and never have a chance at tasting God.

And if we do that, then the stain of turning away a soul from God rests as much, if not more, on our own soul than on the soul of the rejected sinner.
One cannot participate in Sacramental life unless one is in a state of grace or open to the idea of being.
 
One cannot participate in Sacramental life unless one is in a state of grace or open to the idea of being.
Which is why the doors have to be open.

God is realistic. He does not expect perfection, but He expects us to try. Each journey requires a first step.

Again, how do you teach this from one’s righteous high mountain?
 
He alienated the dogmatic and legalistic religious and secular power structures at the time. Not the average joes just trying to live their lives.
He alienated those who couldn’t accept His command to eat His Flesh, and they abandoned Him. He alienated the young man who wanted to follow without renouncing his many possessions. He alienated the one who wanted to bury his father before following. He wasn’t interested in letting average joes live their lives. Joseph was quite literally an average joe trying to live his life, and look at what Jesus did to HIS life. He also ripped the apostles from their average joe lives. He alienated everyone, really. Even the Samaritan woman at the well. The ones who followed Him were the ones who ALLOWED themselves to be alienated, and didn’t set conditions like, “if You mercifully include me and let me do what I want and keep what I want, I’ll follow You.”

You’re describing a fictional Jesus, or at least one from some other source than the four gospels. The bridge between the Church and the contrived and made-up “LGBT community” is the abandonment of sin. It’s actually the same bridge for everyone. It is absolutely outrageous for a PRIEST of all people to not only fail to grasp this, but to spread a false image of what “merciful inclusion” really is. And it’s outrageous for anyone to do anything but denounce him.
 
Compassion and inclusion are always good things. The only people Jesus went around “alienating” on a regular basis were the uncharitable persons and the hypocrites who liked to point out how everybody else was more sinful than themselves.
Wrong. Go back and read the gospels completely, rather than selectively.

“Always good things”? Get serious. If someone wanted to come to your house at noon every day to steal something, how many days would you practice “compassion and inclusion” and accept their behavior before “pointing out how sinful” they were and doing something to stop them? Give me a specific number.
 
He wasn’t interested in letting average joes live their lives. Joseph was quite literally an average joe trying to live his life, and look at what Jesus did to HIS life.
I see no indication that Joseph was forced or “alienated” to take up the life he willingly chose with Mary and Jesus. Furthermore, his actions to the extent they are documented appear to be those of a loving husband and father. Yes, Joseph and Mary’s lives had some upheaval because of Jesus, but you’re speaking about it like their lives were totally wrecked when in fact both of them chose to accept the will of God and were enriched by their role in Jesus’ life and Jesus’ presence in their life.

Edited to add, same for the Apostles…they CHOSE to be there.
 
I see no indication that Joseph was forced or “alienated” to take up the life he willingly chose with Mary and Jesus. Furthermore, his actions to the extent they are documented appear to be those of a loving husband and father. Yes, Joseph and Mary’s lives had some upheaval because of Jesus, but you’re speaking about it like their lives were totally wrecked when in fact both of them chose to accept the will of God and were enriched by their role in Jesus’ life and Jesus’ presence in their life.

Edited to add, same for the Apostles…they CHOSE to be there.
Exactly. There are those who choose to be there, and those who don’t. Pretending that everyone is on equal footing is just that…pretending. Joseph and Mary’s lives were wrecked because they CHOSE to allow them to be wrecked. That is the awesome gift of freedom that we all have. We are all free to choose to follow Jesus’ way or our own way. And Jesus’ way is quite narrow. It is not all-inclusive, as this wayward traitor priest would have you believe in his interview. Members of the “LGBT community” CHOOSE to be where they are, and there are also those with same sex attraction who CHOOSE to follow Jesus rather than their own attractions. Not all choices are equal and worthy of affirmation.

Edited to add, I find it absolutely hysterical that you have a Chesterton quote in your sig, and you’re here trying to sell the “compassion and inclusion are always good things” fallacy. Maybe it’s time to go back and read “Orthodoxy” and “Heretics”.
 
Christ did not mince words in His discourse on the Eucharist in John 6. Many of His followers were alienated and left Him because of His words, and He did not chase after them.

I do believe that we should go out and preach, as Christ commissioned us to do, and that we should accept as brothers *all *who respond, but I think that watering down Christ’s teaching to bring people in the door has already been condemned in Pope Leo’s Testem benevolentiae.
 
Exactly. There are those who choose to be there, and those who don’t. Pretending that everyone is on equal footing is just that…pretending. Joseph and Mary’s lives were wrecked because they CHOSE to allow them to be wrecked. That is the awesome gift of freedom that we all have. We are all free to choose to follow Jesus’ way or our own way. And Jesus’ way is quite narrow. It is not all-inclusive, as this wayward traitor priest would have you believe in his interview. Members of the “LGBT community” CHOOSE to be where they are, and there are also those with same sex attraction who CHOOSE to follow Jesus rather than their own attractions. Not all choices are equal and worthy of affirmation.

Edited to add, I find it absolutely hysterical that you have a Chesterton quote in your sig, and you’re here trying to sell the “compassion and inclusion are always good things” fallacy. Maybe it’s time to go back and read “Orthodoxy” and “Heretics”.
So how do we get them to want to choose Jesus?
 
So how do we get them to want to choose Jesus?
Step 1: Present an authentic image of Him. Tell the truth. Be clear that the only way to follow Him is to conform ourselves to Him, and cease spreading the gibberish that we can conform HIM to fit ourselves. Stop using the word “compassion” in vain and learn the true meaning of the word.

Step 2: Pray and wait. It may take years and decades for one to be converted. Look at the life of St. Augustine. If he was part of a Church that affirmed his sinful wanderings in the name of “compassion,” would he have ever become a saint? No. He would have become a confused mess. Conversion is not possible if every impulse is followed and affirmed. The “priest” we are discussing is trying to create an environment where there is nothing to convert from, because everything is accepted, “included,” and celebrated. This is nonsense.

The question is simple. Do we want to be saints or don’t we?
 
Merciful inclusion? Jesus alienates someone on every page of the gospels. If everyone (or more accurately, everyTHING) was so “mercifully included”, He never would have been crucified. Where do these insane ideas come from? Seminaries? Who decided that “alienation” was the greatest evil?
Apparently quite a few in the church. The bishop who commented in the OP is the Bishop in charge of CA if I’m not mistaken.
 
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