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Prodigal_Son
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This commitment gets pretty darn theoretical in some cases.I think people on CAF can just sometimes not be aware of how their comments might come across, but from what I have experienced, everyone is at least theoretically committed to treating homosexuals with respect.
A hint for the slow of learning:
(1) Gays and lesbians are everywhere. You can never assume one isn’t in front of you.
Thus
(2) Speaking the truth about homosexuality must ALWAYS be done with consideration of the feelings of gay people.
(3) Speaking the truth plainly isn’t always speaking the truth lovingly. If it was, the qualifier “in love” would be redundant.
(4) When in doubt, be quiet. Saying a clever and incisive thing often only makes our egos grow, and those around us hurt. Evangelism is best done in the context of close friendships.
(5) There are times when the truth must be spoken courageously and well. These are times when we pray that the Holy Spirit guide us to speak lovingly and compassionately, even as we are as accurate as we can be. See Archbishop Cordileone’s recent speech for pointers on this.