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As you know, we as catholics should forgive our enemies. But what if your enemy is Satan? Should we forgive him?
If we cannot forgive him doesn’t it means the same as we hate him?Thus, we cannot forgive him.
This is a good discipline, to pay attention and be watchful when we hate. The antidote for hate is forgiveness.We hate what he does but he is still a creation of God. Hate, in any form, for any creature can fester and effect other areas of our life.
Do you find it difficult, as we all do, to forgive people who do not repent?Forgiveness, however, is a different topic. He has made his choice and revels in it. Angels do not have the continuous free will that we do. They simply decide at their creation to follow God’s will or not. Satan decided to rebel. Forgiveness implies repentance. He will never repent. He no longer has the opportunity. Thus, we cannot forgive him.
Yes or like a doctor who doesn’t hate his patient, but hates the cancer that is killing his patient.Personally, I don’t hate Satan. I hate his work, but I don’t hate him as an individual. His choice to oppose God’s will invokes a deep sadness within me, that one of the most beautiful of the angels, he who was destined to bring light to the world (Lucifer) so adamantly opposed his Creator. I liken it to a child throwing a destructive tantrum. You hate that he destroys everything in his path and attempt to halt any damage that he does, but you don’t necessarily hate the child.
Personal forgiveness does not absolve sins. Only God can do that. As such, personal forgiveness addresses our own inadequacies. Personal forgiveness confronts our own ill will or hatred, our negative reactions, against someone who has sinned against us. It is not for the other person’s benefit (unless they come seeking forgiveness in repentance) but our own.Do you find it difficult, as we all do, to forgive people who do not repent?
If we only forgive those who repent, then are we trapped in the hatred that “can fester and effect other areas of our life.”?
True, but I do feel better when someone has forgiven me for something I have done wrong. Is this your experience also?Personal forgiveness does not absolve sins. Only God can do that. As such, personal forgiveness addresses our own inadequacies. Personal forgiveness confronts our own ill will or hatred, our negative reactions, against someone who has sinned against us. It is not for the other person’s benefit (unless they come seeking forgiveness in repentance) but our own.
Hmmm. Are you pushing away empathy? Isn’t that sort of “throwing the baby out with the bath water”?I do find it hard many times to forgive people who do not repent but I force myself to address those issues which are only within my purview to forgive. If it is a sin against another, I must force myself to not allow myself to be affected by it.
If I am angry at whomever hurt my friend Sam, that is “spiritual gossip”?To do so would be a form of spiritual gossip.
We are to forgive anyone we “hold something against”, right? If I hold something against a politician, I am called to forgive, correct?Personal forgiveness is an antidote to personal hatred
Perhaps.“We cannot forgive Satan.”’
It should be:
“Satan cannot be forgiven. He would accept no forgiveness even if God would offer it to him. Thus for us to forgive him would be skewing and distorting the reality of the situation.”
Yes. I added an edit to the post answering addressing this topic. It may have only been updated after you began the reply.True, but I do feel better when someone has forgiven me for something I have done wrong. Is this your experience also?
Forgiveness can be give for the consolation of the repentant sinner.If there is no hatred in the first place, there is nothing to forgive on a personal level unless it is for the consolation of one who is seeking forgiveness.
I wasn’t speaking of being affected by the sin itself, but rather allowing that sin against someone else to cause me to judge the sinner. You can empathize with your hurt friend Sam, but you must not allow that empathy to cause you to judge.Hmmm. Are you pushing away empathy? Isn’t that sort of “throwing the baby out with the bath water”?![]()
Yes. Pope Francis once called gossip “terrorism”. You hurl a bomb at that person’s reputation without them being able to defend themselves. Even in your own mind, you can tear down someone’s spiritual dignity and do spiritual violence towards them.If I am angry at whomever hurt my friend Sam, that is “spiritual gossip”?
If that politician does something against you directly, yes. We must remember, however, that no forgiveness is actually being granted and that it is purely aimed at purifying your own intentions.We are to forgive anyone we “hold something against”, right? If I hold something against a politician, I am called to forgive, correct?
Our understanding of Satan’s works really stops at mankind’s history of encounters with Satan. Unless a mystic is granted private revelation, our understanding can only be derived through the temporal and physical context of our senses. We can’t truly pierce Satan’s works with understanding. The action of the rebellion takes place outside of the world we know. As such, it is outside of our understanding.However, if a deeper forgiveness involves understanding, can we come understand satan’s works?
Yes, I agree, and the ultimate aim is reconciliation, right?Forgiveness can be give for the consolation of the repentant sinner.
Are you saying that empathy causes judging? Isn’t our judging simply a triggered response, caused by our own conscience? Someone does something unconscionable, and I have a gut-level reaction. I don’t really think “I should judge that person”, do you? It just happens, right?I wasn’t speaking of being affected by the sin itself, but rather allowing that sin against someone else to cause me to judge the sinner. You can empathize with your hurt friend Sam, but you must not allow that empathy to cause you to judge.
The best I have been able to do is to realize when I have judged, then work toward understanding and forgiveness. Jesus asked us not to judge, but He was certainly a realist. He spent a lot more breath talking about forgiveness, and if we aren’t judging, when is forgiveness even applicable?“There is one lawgiver and judge who is able to save or to destroy. Who then are you to judge your neighbor?” (James 4:12)
Got it. But I don’t see how Pope Francis’ words show that being angry at someone is “spiritual gossip”. The “bomb” part is definitely applicable, when someone is actually saying something against another’s reputation.Yes. Pope Francis once called gossip “terrorism”. You hurl a bomb at that person’s reputation without them being able to defend themselves.
True, but I don’t see the “gossip” unless someone is “bombing”. I think the anger has more effect on the person being angry than to the person the anger is directed. I think you agree?Even in your own mind, you can tear down someone’s spiritual dignity and do spiritual violence towards them.
Hmmm. Where did you get this? If a person holds something against a politician, are they to simply hang onto the grudge?If that politician does something against you directly, yes.
I don’t get the “directly” part. Where does it come from?#Mark 11:25 New International Version (NIV)
25 And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”
Well, in my experience we can understand. Can you give me an example of something we can’t understand? I’m talking about what happens in the world, mainly.Our understanding of Satan’s works really stops at mankind’s history of encounters with Satan. Unless a mystic is granted private revelation, our understanding can only be derived through the temporal and physical context of our senses. We can’t truly pierce Satan’s works with understanding.
Reconciliation, yes. However reconciliation has a slightly different context than forgiveness. Reconciliation is between two people. It is inherently social. Forgiveness is of an action done against someone. You personally forgive an action done against you. The only time when forgiveness itself is extended to another person is when the knowledge of that forgiveness of an action consoles the one who committed the action.Yes, I agree, and the ultimate aim is reconciliation, right?
No. Empathy is purely an emotional understanding of someone wronged. It has nothing to do with the one who wronged the person (or at least, shouldn’t). Judgement is, in no part, a result of our conscience. Judgement is purely the result of concupiscence. It is taking on the mantle of God and labeling a person as ‘bad’, ‘unworthy’, ‘condemned’ etc. If someone does something horrible, the gut-level reaction is a response to the action, not the person itself. When we speak of sin, we must always separate the sin and the sinner within our own mind. We work against the sin, not the sinner. When I speak of judgement, I mean judgement of the sinner as a person, not judgement of the sin as wrong.Are you saying that empathy causes judging?
Yes. Judgement is a personal condemnation against the sinner. Forgiveness is of the action.…if we aren’t judging, when is forgiveness even applicable?
I was using Pope Francis analogy to drive home a point, although he did go on to link gossip to judgement of brothers and sisters in his address to the gathering of religious at the opening of the Year for Consecrated life.ut I don’t see how Pope Francis’ words show that being angry at someone is “spiritual gossip”.
Nope. The person has to let it go. If they have not harmed the person, then there is nothing to forgive. Again, we must separate the action from the dignity of the person. Work against the action, hate the action, but respect the person as a brother or sister.Hmmm. Where did you get this? If a person holds something against a politician, are they to simply hang onto the grudge?
It comes from the original Greek, the words used to note ‘holding anything against anyone’ are the same as in the Our Father. It is a phrase which is used as a plaintiff holding a case against a defendant. The plaintiff can only bring forth complaint for actions directly committed against them. It is the same context asI don’t get the “directly” part. Where does it come from?
Settle with your opponent quickly while on the way to court with him. Otherwise your opponent will hand you over to the judge, and the judge will hand you over to the guard, and you will be thrown into prison. (Matthew 5:25 NABRE)