The Church tells us a lot of things. One thing might be especially easy for one to understand and accept, while the same thing might be a bit more difficult for another to accept. Everyone is different. Like, some may have no difficulty at all with such teachings as the Trinity, Transubstatiation, the Immaculate Conception, Indulgences – or the filioque even. While another person might find say, Indulgences, very difficult to accept. You can’t pound that teaching into a person. They either understand and/or accept it or they don’t. It might take some time for them to understand and accept it…or they may never will.
So if it’s this Church that tells you we must forgive our neighbors, one set of persons might agree with that teaching, but another set of persons might have the neighbors from hell and have trouble accepting that teaching, but they trust the Church in other teachings because they can understand and accept those teachings.
I think it would be very rare for two people to share the same thoughts, values and beliefs about the same topic that the Church teaches, especially those topics that affect our lives more than others, because we’re all different, and we’re all in different stages of development spiritually. Spirituality is a lifelong journey and I don’t find it’s something that can be forced or rushed. Some people might accept each and every sentence coming from the Church without question and without another thought. Others aren’t like that and have questions that need answers that make sense.
God knows this. He made us this way. Otherwise we would be the same on the day we are born as the day we die, with no growth or development or anything different on all the days between. If God wanted drones and robots, he would have populated the world with drones and robots. But he didn’t. He gave us the capacity to think and use our conscience rather than follow a leader blindly for each and every thing under the sun.