The existence of EMHCs (should not) be offensive to anybody (except the most radical traditionalist). The function is clearly called for, on an extraordinary basis,
I think what offends people are abuses that are typically associated with EMHCs.
For example (not an exhaustive list):
- In many places, they are referred to as “eucharistic ministers”. They are not “eucharistic ministers”, they are not “extraordinary eucharistic ministers”, they are “extraordinary ministers of Holy Communion”. There is a difference.
- In many places, they are used at the exclusion of ordinary ministers far too often. For example, in my parish, there are three priests and four permanent deacons. Our sanctuary holds about 500 people We have six masses per weekend, four of which are on Sunday morning. On a typical basis, there is no great need to use EMHCs, with the possible exception of the vigil Mass and the Sunday evening Mass. Four out of the seven ordinary ministers could perform the function with no problems. But EMHCs are used. Every Mass. On weekday Masses, they use two EMHCs (for a total number of less than 50 communicants). If this does not qualify as “habitual use”, I don’t know what does. I list my parish as typical, but I see that as the norm, in virtually every place where I attend Mass.
- Far too often EMHCs are in the habit of giving “blessings” to people in a communion line (for example, blessing infants and children who accompany parents who are receiving communion). To the best of my knowledge, that is a massive no-no. (Can 1169 & Ecclesia de Mysterio Art 6 § 2)
Again, most people I communicate with do not have something against EMHCs in of themselves, rather, they have something against abuses.