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The same can also go for the Eucharist and the Real Presence. Trying to explain why I genuflect in front of the tabernacle and why only Catholics can receive the Eucharist to my parents was like pulling teeth (see my previous post about smacking someone over the head with a Catechism). Luckily they believe in a spiritual presence of Christ in the communion, and that it’s not just a symbol, so at least I got to the point of “I understand what you’re saying, and I won’t take Catholic Communion, but I still won’t genuflect”… it’s a start though.First, apologetics for Protestant Christians: The Assumption of Mary, the Coronation of Mary, and intercession through Mary.
I do believe all of these are defensible, not only by tradition but also by scripture. At least these things can be shown not to be contrary to Scripture. HOWEVER–speaking from experience–for many Protestants these are just really, really hard to accept. Not only do they not see them in the scriptures, they also find them difficult to understand. For example, why the importance of them, why the stress on Mary, etc. This is where I see a lot of Catholics and Protestants “talking past” each other: Catholics honestly cannot understand the Protestant problem with Mary, and Protestants honestly cannot understand the Catholic “obsession” (as they see it) with Mary.
Second, apologetics for non-Christians: it seems for many non-Christians it is a long, hard trek from believing in God (okay, let’s say we defend God’s existence reasonably well) to becoming a Christian (okay, let’s say we defend the claims of Christ pretty well) to becoming a Catholic. That is, for a lot of people it is difficult to go from non-belief in God, to belief in God, to belief in Christianity, to belief in the Catholic Church.
Usually I don’t try to get non-believers from A to Z all at once. Usually I try to get them from A to about D. Then we pick up from there.
As far as the conversion of an atheist versus a non-Catholic Christian, I’ve personally seen a former atheist go from believing in God and Christ and join the CC within a year. Non-Catholic Christians will sometimes have to “undo” their faith formation from other denominations, and that can be a really unnerving situation, especially coming from denominations that aren’t very happy with the Catholic Church (I converted from Presbyterianism myself, and I can attest to this). The first Hail Mary I said with some duress since I heard many times in my 20 years as a Presbyterian that it was a vain, repetious prayer, and Mary, though virgin when she conceived Jesus through the Holy Spirit, was a sinner just like everyone else (although now I LOVE to say the rosary as often as I can). I can’t tell you how long it took me to pray through the Saints. I sometimes will slip and debt instead of trespass for the Our Father, and I have to really watch that I don’t add the doxology at the end. I was also taught that Catholics were cannibals for believing in the Real Presence, that the reason Protestantism and Reformation was needed was because the Catholic Church had underwent a great “bastardization” over the course of the centuries and Martin Luther, John Calvin, and John Knox were needed to save the faithful. It’s a wonder I converted at all, and it’s no wonder that it took me 5 years after the start of my learning about the Catholic faith to finally convert. I just wanted to share some of my own personal experiences to let others know some of the obstacles that may be faced in speaking with others from ecumenical bodies.
The former atheists (or Christians who never went to church) I’ve personally encountered usually didn’t have such prejudices either for or against Catholicism once they renewed their belief in the Holy Trinity. A good defense for Apostolic Succession, Sacred Tradition and a history lesson is sometimes the miniminum that’s needed for that person to decide to convert.
Of course, since we all are individuals, it’s not always so cut and dried. That’s where I encourage others to see where the other person is coming from and take care of those misconceptions before moving onto the more indepth topics. I know in my case, I needed to start with the milk (maybe even water) before I could even think about moving on to vegetables (and I’m now hopefully working up to meat).
God Bless!
Ericka