This is not true.
IF you don’t wear your seatbelt, and you and I are involved in a car accident, not necessarily a fiery crash at high speeds, but just a small two-car low-speed crash, and you are killed or left disabled for life because you were were not wearing your seatbelt, and I walk away with a few scratches because I was wearing my seatbelt–
–I can guarantee that I will SUFFER tremendous guilt and sorrow for the REST OF MY LIFE!!! It is possible that I will be so traumatized by my part in killing or maiming you that I won’t be able to drive anymore, and this would make it difficult for me to carry on with my current life (job, church and family activities, hobbies, etc.). It’s possible that I will have nightmares and flashbacks in which i see your mangled body being pried out of the wreckage. And I will probably cry at inopportune times, which will affect other people around me.
Even if the accident was not my fault, even if the police rule that the accident was totally YOUR fault–I will still feel immense guilt and sadness, and I will visit over and over in my mind again how different things would be if you had been wearing your seatbelt.
It is very possible that I will lose my sanity over the accident. Psychosis runs in my family, and several of my family members spent time in various “institutions” and underwent electric shock therapy and other therapies that were supposed to help them be “normal” again.
So I may have to undergo therapy (expensive) to get to a point where I will be able to enjoy some kind of normal life again.
But life will never be “normal” for me again because I killed you, or caused you permanent disability.
If the accident WAS my fault, as ruled by the police, I will have to pay fines and possibly spend some time in jail.
In other words, your unwillingness to wear a seatbelt could destroy my life, or at least up-end it in a major way.
So everyone, PLEASE, do the simple thing–wear your seatbelt.