IMHO, evil is, a husband with HIV not using a condom during sex with his wife. and visa versa, a wife with HIV, who does not insist her husband use a condom during sex.
If the couple is “married”…and one, or the other has HIV, to risk “infecting” and death of their spouse and bringing an HIV positive child into the mix, when it could have been prevented, is promoting evil upon the “innocent”…that being the spouse and the child.
The church should recognize “this” circumstance. To ask a “married” couple to “abstain” from sexual relations IMHO is against natural law and totally absurd.
In the case of casual sex outside of marriage…there is no arguement…you shouldn’t be doing it outside of sacramental marriage. But again, that goes on deaf ears.
And that assumes that the condom will not break or spill or slip off.
I can’t figure out too can’t figure out why a husband would want to take a chance of infecting his wife. And that includes ANY type of sex with her.
There really is no such thing a ‘safe sex’ when you’re HIV infected. There is only ‘reduced chance of infection’ sex.
It’s still Russian Roullette, only with 1 bullet in the revolver instead of 5.
And that is still 1 bullet too many.
And no, abstinence in this situation in not agains the Natural Law, in fact, it is the fullest practice of the Natural Law. One does not willing place their spouse in such danger.
Why is it so hard to belive that humans can actually controll their passions when safety is a concern?
Julianna, I find your sig line really ironic in light of your post. Would it not be more benefical on a man’s children to take what ever steps are necessary to insure that their mother does not become infected? Even if it means celibacy.
Would not a loving father, who knows he is infected and will probably die, what to make absolutly, 100% certain that the children will still have a mother.
Or would he place his trust in his children’s future in a condom that might slip off or break.