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Well that is good I know how you feel I have also felt that between hispanics in our own parish but some people I guess you just can’t change. I am nice to every one and have always gotten along with everyone.A couple of more comments here…when I was attending ministry classes with my archdiocese, we had a Hispanic woman who headed that ministry in her parish. We got along well and I really enjoyed hearing her share. I later told her of my private study of Catholic history in Mexico as one just usually hears that bad. I was very impressed and appreciated people coming here from that heritage.
Last year I joined a fraternity that meets in a local parish…It has a large Hispanic presence with both Anglo and Hispanic priests. A Hispanic priest is in charge of our group and he wants to build bridges between the two cultures. But the first day I came to start, the woman I had met years ago stomped of the steps. She didn’t say hello or how was I doing, she said, “This is now a Hispanic parish!!” and stormed off.
I asked an Anglo woman in the fraternity awhile later if the parish was now Hispanic, and she gave a puzzled look and replied no.
Then I was at our fraternity meeting picnic. All the Hispanics were there and no Anglos. So I went there and sat with them. A few minutes later, they all started having a conversation in their language excluding me while I am sitting with them at the table. They all dress well and have good jobs … here. I saw this same behavior by some immigrants back home who would talk incessantly on their jobs in front of American workers…and I suggested to one who was defending this behavior that he turn on a radio with a foreign language at the same decibels as they would be talking and see if they could concentrate. It is just plain rude.
So back at the picnic, I said a prayer and then started to ask them spiritual questions reflected in this fraternity, how do they live it out, and then they all stopped and we began to focus on the Lord and our common bond.
There is also a lack of leadership in our culture to help people assimilate because people don’t know what to do in these situations.
As I said before, when I worked overseas, the moment a person came into the room who spoke a different language — we were from different countries, we would all switch to the common language we used in our ministry. I was at an American sisters’ home, and if a sister or visitor came into the room, the topic immediately stopped and a new one started to include the newcomer…
We need to work on our common etiquette in this melting pot America.
So I am sorry if I took that comment that I quoted you on a little to the extreme or if i made it seem like that. We both have a common belief and our backgrounds shouldn’t be much of a factor because we have the universal belief.

God Bless