Well, unfortunately you are going to get all kinds of hate on any kind of forum. We actually have a share of it here at CAF. I see a lot of derogatory remarks about protestants, it seems. Not always directly blatant, but the intent is there, no doubt about it.
I notice you are “back”. I know you wrote a post a few days ago that you were leaving this forum. Glad you didn’t. We’ve had a few other people post they were leaving lately. One reply I made was that some people don’t understand a few things. One this is a Catholic forum, those who label themselves as something other than Catholic, often post things that are “adversarial” (do not read, antagonistic). When one does so, one is going to get replies that uphold and defend Catholic teaching and practice. Some take it well, others think they are bring “hated.” Not true although some are not as “sensitive” in their wording of their posts. Not everyone is a diplomat.
Secondly, something that I wonder is, do people not realize that men and women are different in their manner of thinking and posting. Women tend to be more collaborative, seeking to find either common ground or a sensitively stated reply/rebuttal. Men tend to be different, zeroing in on a counter argument, often, not quite so diplomatically stated. It helps to understand that.
I am a writer, I have written dialogue with women as the speaker, and my content editors have often said that the manner in which I have phrased something is not how a woman would speak. Unfortunately, content on this forum is “edited” only to the extent it is flagged for violation of forum rules, and not for diplomacy.
Nice to see you didn’t totally leave.
Edited to say. And remember, posts that are “contrarian” attack something that is both intellectually and emotionally precious to some Catholics. I imagine some posts are “fired off” without a whole lot of “internal editing.”