Catholic royals won't have to raise kids Catholic [CNAU]

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My understanding is that this is a different situation. In this case, what seems to be stated is that parents do not have to raise their child as Catholic because it might prevent them from being in the line of succession for the throne of England. I don’t see anything which suggests parents at odds with one another. Even if that were the case, and they were married in the Catholic Church, the parent who is not Catholic would have promised to raise the children which result from that marriage as Catholic.
See the real choice was to avoid the issue altogether before kids: Catholics shouldn’t marry future Anglican kings.
 
And as for the idea that these things can be changed in their understanding over time:
First Vatican Council:
  1. For the doctrine of the faith which God has revealed is put forward not as some philosophical discovery capable of being perfected by human intelligence, but as a divine deposit committed to the spouse of Christ to be faithfully protected and infallibly promulgated.
  2. Hence, too, that meaning of the sacred dogmas is ever to be maintained which has once been declared by Holy mother Church, and there must never be any abandonment of this sense under the pretext or in the name of a more profound understanding.
May understanding, knowledge and wisdom increase as ages and centuries roll along, and greatly and vigorously flourish, in each and all, in the individual and the whole Church: but this only in its own proper kind, that is to say, in the same doctrine, the same sense, and the same understanding.
First Vatican Council:
  1. If anyone says that it is possible that at some time, given the advancement of knowledge, a sense may be assigned to the dogmas propounded by the Church which is different from that which the Church has understood and understands: let him be anathema.
 
We’re not going around in circles here too much are we? 😉 You can cling to your quotes written during a time when there were no Christian denominations, and I’ll go ahead and stick with the Catechism, because it’s a sure norm for Catholic teaching and designed to give us a better understanding of the Faith. I’m sure if we do our best, we’ll get where we need to be in the end 🙂
Again, “can” be saved (which is what the Catechism states) does not equal “will”. You talk as if non-catholics going to heaven is a rule rather than an exception…which is incorrect and misleading.
 
Thank you for point out one last point I should have made earlier.

It says the local bishop should not allow the marriage unless both parties agree to raise the children Catholic.

So in this case the local bishop should not allow a Catholic to marry the English monarch if that monarch is adamant about raising the children Anglican.

There it is. That’s the Church’s teaching.
I see no such requirements in the Canon you quoted. I see a requirement for the Catholic spouse to promise and the non-Catholic spouse merely to be made aware of that promise. The non-Catholic can be fully aware and still not agree or consent one iota. That lack of agreement or consent will not in itself affect the validity of the marriage.

Of course the non-Catholic spouse, while neither agreeing nor consenting to raise the children Catholic, may make it impossible in a practical sense for the Catholic spouse to fulfil their duties.
 
we are not specifically talking about children though; we are talking about non-catholics who know that the church teaches that she is the only means of salvation and yet still do not believe. This would encompass a large swath of Anglicans, protestants, muslims, etc. At what point does someone go from being ‘inculpably ignorant’ and enter into the realm of rejecting the one true faith?
That’s just it. We don’t know. People who LEAVE the Church or become excommunicated do it usually through their own choice. Their chances of salvation are probably slim, unless they repent at the last minute. Those who are born into whatever denomination their parents or friends bring them into may not know that the Catholic faith is the one true religion. They might have heard about it but I wouldn’t want to judge whether they KNOW it to be true.
 
That’s just it. We don’t know. People who LEAVE the Church or become excommunicated do it usually through their own choice. Their chances of salvation are probably slim, unless they repent at the last minute. Those who are born into whatever denomination their parents or friends bring them into may not know that the Catholic faith is the one true religion. **They might have heard about it **but I wouldn’t want to judge whether they KNOW it to be true.
And my argument is that I don’t think they have even heard about it. So if they haven’t even heard about it…
 
That’s just it. We don’t know. People who LEAVE the Church or become excommunicated do it usually through their own choice. Their chances of salvation are probably slim, unless they repent at the last minute. Those who are born into whatever denomination their parents or friends bring them into may not know that the Catholic faith is the one true religion. They might have heard about it but I wouldn’t want to judge whether they KNOW it to be true.
But again-I don’t know how much that ignorance works in westernized culture anymore. For one, a higher percentage of non-catholic denominations and other pagan & religious backgrounds say it is permissible to have an abortion, engage in premarital acts, or a myriad of things that are against natural law-the law written on man’s heart. Even if these people are truly unaware of the status of the Catholic faith, they still may be raised to believe that these acts are fine and in accordance with God’s laws in their belief system.

However as I understand it, they would still be held accountable in such a case as these issues are not merely over divine revelation, but over natural law. So if their faith is teaching them things contrary to the law written on their hearts and they persist in error, where does that leave them? They may even know that the Catholic faith is against contraception etc. but feel that it’s okay. As I understand, this would fall under the guise of rejecting the natural law, and rendering one incapable of qualifying as someone who is ‘inculpably ignorant’
 
This is not a situation where someone is truly unable to comply with Church law. In a scenario where someone was going to be killed, a family member hurt, their kids taken away from them, etc. that would be true. And to be fair, given the history in the UK, that might have been the case at one time. This however, is a situation where if someone is being told that it is OK to not raise their kids in the truth Church, where they will have valid sacraments and a true priesthood, so that they can be in line for some sort of earthly office. In essence, assuming Brother JR’s interpretation is correct, they are being told by Catholic bishops that it is OK to choose an earthly kingdom over the Heavenly kingdom for their children.

Call me crazy, but I still have a problem with that.
When it comes to monarchs and dignitaries, the Church has always dealt with them differently, because she can’t always apply canon law to them. This goes back for centuries. It’s not new.

What is new here is that for the first time in centuries, the English Parliament is allowing royals to marry outside of the Church of England. The Catholic bishops have had to pull out some old, but very traditional pastoral practices that had fallen into disuse, because monarchies of this type have almost disappeared. I guess this would also apply if a Jordanian royal were to marry a Catholic, which I highly doubt. But let’s say so, just for the sake of hypothesis. The Church would not bind the Catholic under canon law to that which he cannot do, because civil law prohibits it.

In the case of the UK, civil law does not prohibit that the princess be Catholic; however, the prohibition is implied in the law. The law is very clear that the heir to the throne must be Anglican. It may as well come out and say that the heir to the throne may not be raised Catholic.

The difference between UK and Jordan is that Jordan is very transparent in its laws. The monarch must be Muslim. The UK is less transparent, but the end is the same. The heir to the throne must belong to the state religion or forfeit his right. The Church is also very concerned about the young heir here. She does not put children in such positions that are beyond their control and which impose an incredible amount of pressure on them. Royal children don’t grow up like other kids who are oblivious to the world of the adults. These kids are programmed from the time they are born. In the case of the UK, you could potentially have a royal Catholic parent raising a child Catholic and the royal Anglican parent programming his or her child to be monarch and the head of the Anglican Church. What happens to this kid’s childhood? How fair is this to this child?

The Catholic Church is not in the business of placing kids in such difficult positions. They can always become Catholic later and voluntarily abdicate. It has happened. Queen Elizabeth’s sister became a Catholic. I may be mistaken, but isn’t Princess Anne also a Catholic? Once they do so, they are no longer in the line of succession, no matter how remote. But they are adults making a choice, not children caught between two powerful forces.
 
. Queen Elizabeth’s sister became a Catholic. I may be mistaken, but isn’t Princess Anne also a Catholic?
I think you are mistaken on both counts.

I’m ashamed of what appears to be prevarication on the part of the hierarchy of our Church on this. I don’t see a whole lot of difference between this and the days when the Church appeared to dish out annulments like confetti to the rich whilst the poor were left to stew.
 
What would be a really difficult position for the children of the royal couple is for them to be burning in Hell some day. I’d hate for the Church or anybody else to put them in that position.
 
Ave Marie, Brother.

Brother, can you show me sources for this claim please? From my (rather limited) knowledge of history, where this has been the case it has always been a scandal.
I think what is being said is that the Catholic parent still has an obligation to do their best, no?
Not according to Brother JR… and it’s been this way for centuries.
The problem with your argument is that the Catholic *does *have a choice. It’s just unfair.

They have to choose between giving their child rule of a little island in Europe or a decent shot at salvation. It stinks that they have to choose but the only option for a good Catholic in their situation is to hand down the Faith, not the royal succession. Even this peasant understands that.
I think everyone is overreacting here. I may have not been clear enough.

For centuries, the Church has made all kinds of exceptions to law when the cases involve monarchs and heads of state. Is that clearer?

I don’t have to show you folks, because you can find them in any history book. I’m not about to do high school homework for people. That’s a waste of my time and your own. You probably studied this in world history.

This is a matter of canon law, not a matter of doctrine. What the bishops are saying is that canon law cannot be applied fairly to people whose choices are limited by forces out of their control. This is logical. The Church has never applied canonical penalties to people who have been in situations where they did the best they could, but could do no more.

The issue of raising children Catholic is only the latest of many canonical issues where the Church has taken a pastoral position different from the law in the books when royalty has been concerned. The most common one has been marriage between first degree cousins. Many monarchs were cousins. Much of Europe’s royalty is related by blood. If I’m not mistaken, Philip and Elizabeth are related. The Church let it go, even though Canon Law said that first and second cousins could not marry. The Church does not have to apply canonical penalties when she believes that the best interest of the people involved would not be served or when the individuals involved have reached the limits of their control.

One has to look at both parents, not just the Catholic parent. In this case, the Anglican parent is also under a great deal of pressure. In the end, you have a child in the middle of a pressure cooker.

**The best thing for all involved is for a royal not to marry a Catholic, especially one who is in the direct line of succession. **

There are three things in life that are equally fickle, the weather, children and love. It happens that people of different faiths fall in love. What has often happened is that the Catholic ends up converting in order to marry, because these civil laws, not just in the UK, tend to be very strict and inflexible.

The pastoral question is whether one just let’s the Catholic convert to avoid a problem or whether one accepts that there is only so much that the Catholic can do and leave the rest to the mercy of God’s grace.

If I’m reading this statement correctly, the bishops are not saying that this is ideal. They’re saying that this is possible given the situation. They’re looking for the highest possible good. The operative word here is “possible”. There is always perfect good, but it may not be possible in this situation. Rather than the bishops jumping up and down over something that they cannot control, they can find a response that is legal.

As I said, this is not the first time in Church history where the Church has had to find legal responses to difficult situations concerning royalty. Those responses are not ideal, but they were the best that the Church could offer at the time.

Let’s look at another example among royals. Church law has always said that men and women must enter freely into marriage for validity. Yet, the Church always held that arranged marriages for the royalty were valid. Canon law made the exception for royalty, because it was the best pastoral choice at the time. To declare these marriages null and void was not going to stop arranged marriages. People were betrothed as early as age 5 and married by age 16. This was the case of Catherine of Aragon and Prince Arthur of England. She was betrothed to Arthur at age 3. They were married when Arthur was 15 only two weeks after meeting each other. They had never met. If this were among common folk, this marriage would be annulled in a heartbeat. Because this was a duty of state, the Church rightly assumed that the marriage was valid, because the children were “programmed” to do their duty for the realm. In time, the couple usually grew close.

The point that I’m making is twofold.

a) Canonical penalties cannot be applied to those who cannot comply with the law.

b) The Church recognizes that these children are under an incredible amount of pressure from the time that they are infants. She does not want to put them under more pressure if she can help it.

This is not an easy thing for the bishops of England. It’s easy for us who are across the Atlantic to criticize them. How many here would want their job?

We need to ask ourselves if we’re not too swift in our judgment and condemnation.
 
What would be a really difficult position for the children of the royal couple is for them to be burning in Hell some day. I’d hate for the Church or anybody else to put them in that position.
God does not send children to hell for something that is out of their control.
 
I think you are mistaken on both counts.

I’m ashamed of what appears to be prevarication on the part of the hierarchy of our Church on this. I don’t see a whole lot of difference between this and the days when the Church appeared to dish out annulments like confetti to the rich whilst the poor were left to stew.
That’s actually an exaggeration that people have spread about. Don’t buy into it.

It is true that many wealthy people have received decrees of nullity. It is also very true that many wealthy people have entered into invalid marriages, more than among the working class.
 
That’s actually an exaggeration that people have spread about. Don’t buy into it.

It is true that many wealthy people have received decrees of nullity. It is also very true that many wealthy people have entered into invalid marriages, more than among the working class.
Spare me the platitudes.

I suppose this is a monarchist version of taking the soup, and some English archbishop says it’s ok. There were a few English archbishops who were ok with Henry V111 marrying Anne Boleyn but they were excommunicated. From where I’m sitting, this is the Catholic Church genuflecting to the British parliament for the sake of a circumstance that most likely will never happen. Looks great in Westminster where it won’t bring a single person into the Catholic faith, but it will leave many thousands of Catholics wondering why our Church is One, Holy, Catholic and Apostolic for everyone except those in line for the British throne. What hypocrisy.

Once again, I feel I’m Catholic despite the hierarchy rather than with their help and guidance. Sometimes, our faith would be better served if they were to try biting their tongues.
 
Lucky7;10670473:
Oh I get this, but it’s up to the Church heirarchy (and us) to make it clear that the only sure chance of gettting to Heaven is by being Catholic
. I don’t think we do a good job of that (although one of the Pope’s latest homilies about not finding Jesus outside of Mother Church makes me hopeful).
The hierarchy of the Church does not make it clear because it’s not true.
There are major problems with this post. You probably mean to state that just by being Catholic one is not guaranteed salvation, but I think you fail to make your point altogether and end up implying something much, much different. The fact is that while being called a Catholic won’t necessarily guarantee you are saved, the Catholic faith itself is a sure means of being saved. And it is the only one. If you believe, truly believe, the Catholic faith and live according to that faith, you will be saved. Any failure is not due to an inadequacy in the faith or what the Church teaches, but in us. But, you don’t address this and instead make a rather curt response which leave one with the impression that what you are saying is that there are other faiths equally capable of saving as that of the Church, and this is entirely untrue.
 
Surely it is better for one’s salvation to be raised in the Catholic Faith than in some false religion.
There is no denying that the fullness of Christ’s Church subsists in the Catholic Church. At the same time, we can’t deny that Christ also uses non-Catholic religions to save. It is not as if he totally abandons these people, especially the children.
 
Oh I get this, but it’s up to the Church heirarchy (and us) to make it clear that the only sure chance of gettting to Heaven is by being Catholic. I don’t think we do a good job of that (although one of the Pope’s latest homilies about not finding Jesus outside of Mother Church makes me hopeful).
Be very careful. He’s not excluding salvation. He’s speaking about finding Christ.

However, we must not forget St. Augustine. Christ finds us, even though we may not see him. For this reason the Church teaches that Christ does use non-Catholic religions to save.

As I said above, the fullness of Christ’s Church subsists only in the Catholic Church. However, that is not to say that those outside of the Catholic Church because they were not born into the Catholic Church are deprived of salvation. God’s mercy is not handcuffed. The Holy Father has also said this many times over, as have every pope before him. The Church cannot restrict God’s mercy.

We can only say what has been revealed to us. But we cannot predict what is to happen beyond what has been revealed to us. God has not revealed to us what happens to those who are born outside of the Church other than to tell us that his mercy is infinite and that it tames his justice.
 
An interesting take on the old Baltimore Catechism

Suppose, however, that there is a non-Catholic who firmly believes that the church to which he belongs is the true Church, and who has never—even in the past—had the slightest doubt of that fact—what will become of him?
If he was validly baptized and never committed a mortal sin, he will be saved; because, believing himself a member of the true Church, he was doing all he could to serve God according to his knowledge and the dictates of his conscience. But if ever he committed a mortal sin, his salvation would be very much more difficult. A mortal sin once committed remains on the soul till it is forgiven. Now, how could his mortal sin be forgiven? Not in the Sacrament of Penance, for the Protestant does not go to confession; and if he does, his minister—not being a true priest—has no power to forgive sins. Does he know that without confession it requires an act of perfect contrition to blot out mortal sin, and can he easily make such an act? What we call contrition is often only imperfect contrition—that is, sorrow for our sins because we fear their punishment in Hell or dread the loss of Heaven. If a Catholic—with all the instruction he has received about how to make an act of perfect contrition and all the practice he has had in making such acts—might find it difficult to make an act of perfect contrition after having committed a mortal sin, how much difficulty will not a Protestant have in making an act of perfect contrition, who does not know about this requirement and who has not been taught to make continued acts of perfect contrition all his life. It is to be feared either he would not know of this necessary means of regaining God’s friendship, or he would be unable to elicit the necessary act of perfect contrition, and thus the mortal sin would remain upon his soul and he would die an enemy of God.
If, then, we found a Protestant who never committed a mortal sin after Baptism, and who never had the slightest doubt about the truth of his religion, that person would be saved; because, being baptized, he is a member of the Church, and being free from mortal sin he is a friend of God and could not in justice be condemned to Hell. Such a person would attend Mass and receive the Sacraments if he knew the Catholic Church to be the only true Church…
more at catholicity.elcore.net/SalvationOfNonCatholicsInBaltimoreCatechism.html
 
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