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Rozellelily
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I don’t want to derail the thread but how does conversion change the persons internal state,if you wouldn’t mind?
Adultery is an evil action but silence is not intrinsically evil per se.The difference is because you know that Isis is very likely going to harm (kill,decapitate) that person but in the second case “you” yourself have done the hurtful act (infidelity) and are then doing a second wrong by not being honest.
1759 “An evil action cannot be justified by reference to a good intention” (cf. St. Thomas Aquinas, Dec. praec. 6). The end does not justify the means.
The person might have a good intention (not to cause their husband/wife hurt) but they are doing a “bad action” (deceit) to bring this about.
When we talk about the doctrine of the Church, it does not depend on our personal opinion, which sometimes can be wrong. It has to be in accordance with the Church’s teaching. Let that be clear.That’s how I see the first issue but I was told the issue is that lying is never not sin (even to Nazi or Isis)!
That the lie itself is a sin in this situation.
I don’t get this reasoning because doesn’t it have to make sense the reason why sins are sins and this to me makes no sense because Nazi or similar are not owed this truth/this information so which relationship is it harming.
Regarding the adultery issue I understand what you are saying but at the same time,shouldn’t a marriage be built on honesty and trust?
We do have “sins of omission” in the Catholic Church.Understanding the difference between an action and an omission is fundamental to any non-consequentialist ethical system.
This is not quite the same thing.I will tell you from my own experience with a former girlfriend that i cheated on. To be clear, we were not married or engaged, but we had a relationship lasting multiple years.