I really appreciated your point by point rebuttal, that said things in a much kinder way than I probably would have.
One point I would like to add to the general conversation is this: we should be very careful when we assert that there can never be any kind of ‘change’ to what the church teaches.
Before Vatican II, there were good Catholics who said the same thing. After Vatican II many of the same Catholics abandoned the church because they believed that change and error had indeed crept into the church.
“Doctrine cannot change” is a standard maxim, but when we put the saying under the microscope, it falls apart, because–what IS “change?”
Usually when we say “doctrine can’t change,” we really mean that the core truth of the gospel will not change, and that is good and right and true. But some people take “doctrine can’t change” to mean that the way doctrine is formulated, expressed, taught, or implemented can never change, either–which is false. As our understanding of doctrine evolves with our collective experiences, we often come to see new possibilities and directions that we had not before considered–such as Chaput’s recent suggestion that we decouple civil and sacramental marriage. That is a potential “change” to the way sacramental doctrine is applied, and it is only one recent example.
Telling people that change can never happen is setting them up for disappointment.
Great conversation taking place here, thanks for letting me be a part–I joined the Catholic Church, in part, because I realized that the Church was not the backwards conservative sinkhole that I had been led to think. The Catholic Church has a bright future, and I feel blessed to be a part of the Church.