Thanks for your replies, but for the sake of argument, I’d like to hear what the arguments are if we assumed that there is such a thing as a “gay gene.” In my view, I don’t see how it changes the situation much.
Then why is it so important to be discussing it, since you agree that it doesn’t change the immorality of it?
People are born with all kinds of disordered attractions, tendencies, preferences, and even with organic conditions such as Tourette’s and other conditions that are problematic in terms of interrelationships, socially acceptable behavior, and morality/legality itself. People can discipline themselves, or be trained with certain clinical conditions, not to indulge in the disordered inclination, whatever it is.
However, there is still something very fundamental that you apparently do not understand, and is often dismissed by other posters on CAF who want to narrow it to a “gay gene.” Psychiatrists and psychologists, as a scientific community, agree that sexuality is not a “given” from birth, because we are born essentially asexual beings whose sexuality develops in response to experiences with other people (validation, rejection, invitation, etc) – beginning before we are aware of this, and continuing after we become aware of it. Whatever would be “a” or even “a primary” tendency at birth is affected, molded, modified, by what occurs in our lives, positively and negatively, throughout early childhood and adolesence. Sexuality is a dynamic. It’s not a static, fixed reality. It’s relational. I’ve known plenty of “effeminate” men who are heterosexual and have never had a single homosexual experience, but whose personality tends more to the affective side, and has (by their account) from early childhood: they were always more sensitive, more tender, more giving, etc., than other boys. With different experiences, they might have turned out with a different orientation. Sexuality is not deterministic, no matter what the “genetic predisposition” or cluster is or is not. It evolves, includes learned responses, and is not a data point.