Catholics Trapped by Feminism

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Okay.

Why the quotation marks? (That doesn’t count as a response or refutation, by the way.)

The validity of an argument is not determined by the response to it. It is true or false on its own. You’ve committed a fallacy here - please name it.

Again, you are imputing things to me that should not be. This is what I was talking about: you are overly concerned with my views on the subject, and, by how you’ve phrased things above, it’s clear you’ve chosen a position for me.

Okay, I responded to a comment just like this in the earlier thread. Briefly: where is the dividing line between your views (and interpretation) and reality (for others, esp.)? How did you get from one to the other? You make a few ‘logical leaps’ in the above.

Do you know what the original arguments were for having women in higher education?

Others have mentioned education for its own sake earlier in this thread. In light of your arguments in your post, what do you make of that?

Are you making a descriptive or normative claim here?

Name the fallacy.

What’s your point, besides the fact that people with more education, on average, make more money*?

*Not by a lot, actually (remember: debt and opportunity cost).
Name the fallacy…how am I to do that? You won’t pay for me to take Philosophy 101!!

I tell you what, “Dad”, I’m getting really sick of your patronizing and pedantic “name your fallacy” non-answers to my responses. I use quotes around “points” because I don’t think too much of what you are saying, to be blunt. You are making excuses for why my B-average brother is going to get his tuition paid for while his more-capable and harder-working sister has to go it alone. To h&%$ with your “points,” and I think you know what you can do with your fallacies, too. Before the GI Bill, the argument was that most people didn’t need higher education, because most people didn’t. Don’t act as if higher education for every son has been some kind of birthright through the ages. The vast majority of sons have not been expecting this help from their parents for much longer than the daughters have. Over the vast majority of economic history, there was no need for it!!

You seem to forget that I, the woman, the daughter, the student, do not have to convince you of the value of giving me an education that I believe is in keeping with my aptitude and my economic prospects. You have to convince me why I shouldn’t pursue it, with or without your help. If you don’t want to pay for it, well, it is your money and I can’t force you to do it. If you send my less-capable brothers to college, though, and withhold the same support from me, do not expect that I will be all that impressed with your “reasoning”. I’m not buying it, and most women in my position won’t. If you do not have a college-age daughter yet, well, you’ve been warned.
 
I quote Jesus" where the mind is there lies your treasure". If your love is money by all means think first of yourself. If your mind is on God and a loving family then run to God.
I do agree with you on this but…and this us a big but…keep in mind that the argument made by Fix the Family has nothing, absolutely NOTHING to do with keeping your mind in God. Instead all his argument comes from a sincretism that is departed from catholic doctrine.
 
I quote Jesus" where the mind is there lies your treasure". If your love is money by all means think first of yourself. If your mind is on God and a loving family then run to God.
It isn’t a love of money to want a roof over your family.
 
Excellent, I appreciate it.

Well, addressing both articles would be fine, but the “6 Reasons” article is the one I address in another thread: forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=823388. I would certainly recommend reading through that thread first.

Also, please publish it off of CAF, though, in order to not stifle discussion. Thanks.
I think you misunderstood me, I meant to write up a reply to the article here for the sake of furthering the current discussion.

I have now twice started writing up a long response, going through the points in the article one by one, but finally realized that honestly, what all of the arguments boil down to is the idea that women going to college will lead to a family structure with two working parents and that since said structure is to be avoided at all costs women should not go to college.

Would you agree that this is a fair summary of the arguments?
 
My response to this guy, is the same as the last time this came up:

If being married, having a career requiring advanced education and being a good Catholic are oh-so-incompatible, why oh why did we canonize a working mother as a Saint? 😉 Heck, we’ve canonized female heads of state! With children! This sort of thinking betrays a lack of knowledge of Church history, and seems to have inhaled influences from our Protestant brothers, who are, naturally, misguided persons.
 
I think you misunderstood me, I meant to write up a reply to the article here for the sake of furthering the current discussion.

I have now twice started writing up a long response, going through the points in the article one by one, but finally realized that honestly, what all of the arguments boil down to is the idea that women going to college will lead to a family structure with two working parents and that since said structure is to be avoided at all costs women should not go to college.

Would you agree that this is a fair summary of the arguments?
Be careful, he’ll accuse you of a strawman and then refuse to explain the ways in which you have allegedly misrepresented the argument.
 
I think you misunderstood me, I meant to write up a reply to the article here for the sake of furthering the current discussion.

I have now twice started writing up a long response, going through the points in the article one by one, but finally realized that honestly, what all of the arguments boil down to is the idea that women going to college will lead to a family structure with two working parents and that since said structure is to be avoided at all costs women should not go to college.

Would you agree that this is a fair summary of the arguments?
And to further that thought, the next article, “Catholics Trapped by Feminism” appears to continue that thought by claiming that married women who work will necessarily decide career is more important than kids and either use contraception or misuse abstinence.

Again, would you agree 57thDimension?
 
What horrifies me is that these men are actually putting this ahistorical project in practice on their own daughters. And so these young women are likely to grow up with a perverted understanding of what Holy Mother Church teaches in regard to work and family. Ideas have consequences, and bad ideas often have bad consequences.

They seem to take the view of some Evangelicals regarding the meaning of wifely submission, which is condemned in Castii Connubii. Who do they think they are, better than Pius XII?
 
Yes! 😛
Collected Writings and Wisdom of 57D!:
“So I was enormously shocked yesterday to find out from someone (a fellow Catholic) that sex is permitted in marriage in the Catholic view.”

“The one that stands out the most is: “marriage is prostitution” spoken by Tatian.”

“I can agree that seeking pleasure in that fashion is a mortal sin.” (Referring to marital intercourse - Ed.)

“Oh dear, I guess that was just wishful thinking on my part” (When told that St. Thomas Aquinas didn’t agree with him. - Ed.)

“Tatian is very wise person.” (Note the excellent grammar. - Ed.)

“I’ve always found the definitions that the UN uses in their reports to be quite broad (e.g. physical violence includes slapping, and doesn’t indicate whether it was in response to a wife’s violence).” (The usual “she made me do it” excuse of domestic abusers. - Ed.)

“Well, age is linked with attractiveness - the older someone is, the less attractive they are.” (Note: this is accompanied by quotes from studies that explicitly use an atheistic evolutionary model. Also, he’s talking about women in their late 20s and early 30s - Ed.)

And let’s not forget this entire thread

forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?p=11222309

in which a consistently rude and condescending attitude is shown towards women posters.
I don’t think I need to make any further comments. 😃
 
They seem to take the view of some Evangelicals regarding the meaning of wifely submission, which is condemned in Castii Connubii. Who do they think they are, better than Pius XII?
They are drunk on pagan ideas of “masculinity” and “submission” which can be almost as toxic as radical feminism, though in the opposite direction. Think of those two polar extremes as modern day Baals and Astartes and you wouldn’t be too far off the mark. 🙂
 
What horrifies me is that these men are actually putting this ahistorical project in practice on their own daughters. And so these young women are likely to grow up with a perverted understanding of what Holy Mother Church teaches in regard to work and family. Ideas have consequences, and bad ideas often have bad consequences.

They seem to take the view of some Evangelicals regarding the meaning of wifely submission, which is condemned in Castii Connubii. Who do they think they are, better than Pius XII?
Not only that Cojuanco but if you read the entire blog you will notice that they have the notion that men do not have a natural inclination to sin (which against goes against catholic teaching), instead women are ones inclined to sin, women have a purely sinful nature derived from Eve and are the ones who “push” men into sin. That is why is perfectly OK for men to go to college (as they lack inclination to sin) and women must remain home controlled by husband (as purely sinful creatures incapable of taking any good decision their sinful nature must be controlled by the one who does not have a sinful nature). This is a very twisted interpretation of the Genesis that comes from radical Islam and radical evangelicals.
 
They are drunk on pagan ideas of “masculinity” and “submission” which can be almost as toxic as radical feminism, though in the opposite direction. Think of those two polar extremes as modern day Baals and Astartes and you wouldn’t be too far off the mark. 🙂
Actually as I just said to Cojuanco he choose the radical Islamic interpretation of the Genesis in which do not have a sinful nature. Men only sin because women make them sin. He also thinks rape is OK as is a way a controlling the sinful nature of the woman. Very twisted and to me is horrifying that someone is using the name of the catholic church to promote sincretism.
 
Not only that Cojuanco but if you read the entire blog you will notice that they have the notion that men do not have a natural inclination to sin (which against goes against catholic teaching), instead women are ones inclined to sin, women have a purely sinful nature derived from Eve and are the ones who “push” men into sin. That is why is perfectly OK for men to go to college (as they lack inclination to sin) and women must remain home controlled by husband (as purely sinful creatures incapable of taking any good decision their sinful nature must be controlled by the one who does not have a sinful nature). This is a very twisted interpretation of the Genesis that comes from radical Islam and radical evangelicals.
This is heresy. Original Sin applies to all - men and women. All have sinned. All fall short of God’s glory. All of us need a Saviour. If the author of that blog has failed to understand that, he’s headed straight for the cafeteria. 😉
 
This is heresy. Original Sin applies to all - men and women. All have sinned. All fall short of God’s glory. All of us need a Saviour. If the author of that blog has failed to understand that, he’s headed straight for the cafeteria. 😉
Of course it is, read his entire blog and you probably will faint. Oh and this is why I and others on the other thread were mentioning that if he would have said that 6 dangers of College to young people men and women, it would have been a different story. But the blog is only to women, according to that blog men don’t have those problems and when you start digging into his blog you realize is because he thinks men don’t have a sinful nature.
 
Name the fallacy…how am I to do that? You won’t pay for me to take Philosophy 101!!
You don’t need to take a course to know something about logic. The irony of college-educated people utilizing logical fallacies to defend the usefulness/benefit/etc of college education is quite apparent.
I tell you what, “Dad”, I’m getting really sick of your patronizing and pedantic “name your fallacy” non-answers to my responses.
They are “patronizing” only insofar as the fact that you aren’t able or willing to identify the fallacies that you’ve used. I’ll give you a hint: most of the fallacies you use are ‘fallacies of relevance.’ How can I respond to fallacious arguments? Why spend time on it?
I use quotes around “points” because I don’t think too much of what you are saying, to be blunt.
Yes, it is clear that you disagree.
You are making excuses for why my B-average brother is going to get his tuition paid for while his more-capable and harder-working sister has to go it alone.
I’m not, and you know it. I haven’t stated that that should be the case, and you know it (and if you somehow don’t, you have issues with reading comprehension). You’ve tried to suck me into your own pet example more than once - why are continuing? Why are you so obsessed with pushing me into a position that I’ve never stated that I oppose or support?
To h&%$ with your “points,” and I think you know what you can do with your fallacies, too.
They aren’t my fallacies. If anything, they are yours (regardless of whether you recognize them or not).
Don’t act as if higher education for every son has been some kind of birthright through the ages.
I haven’t. (I’d be interested in seeing your basis for making your above statement…)
You seem to forget that I, the woman, the daughter, the student, do not have to convince you of the value of giving me an education that I believe is in keeping with my aptitude and my economic prospects.
Okay. You seem to think that I’ve said otherwise, no?
You have to convince me why I shouldn’t pursue it, with or without your help.
… Then again, perhaps you’ve just misread what I’ve written. No, it’s almost as if you’re responding to something else (not what I’ve written).
If you don’t want to pay for it, well, it is your money and I can’t force you to do it. If you send my less-capable brothers to college, though, and withhold the same support from me, do not expect that I will be all that impressed with your “reasoning”. I’m not buying it, and most women in my position won’t. If you do not have a college-age daughter yet, well, you’ve been warned.
Again, the pet example (and a very narrow one at that). If you are suggesting that I’m actually saying those things (e.g. not the generic “you”), then you are actively and deliberately misrepresenting what I’ve said.
Does it scare you that much to hear a view opposite of yours? Now that is offensive. No argument, no comeback?
Seemingly.
I think you misunderstood me, I meant to write up a reply to the article here for the sake of furthering the current discussion.
My arguments in that thread backed up some of the points in the article which you are interested in writing a reply to. It would likely be a good idea to see further evidence before writing in opposition, no?
I have now twice started writing up a long response, going through the points in the article one by one, but finally realized that honestly, what all of the arguments boil down to is the idea that women going to college will lead to a family structure with two working parents and that since said structure is to be avoided at all costs women should not go to college.
Would you agree that this is a fair summary of the arguments?
That seems like a fair summary.
My response to this guy, is the same as the last time this came up:

If being married, having a career requiring advanced education and being a good Catholic are oh-so-incompatible, why oh why did we canonize a working mother as a Saint? 😉 Heck, we’ve canonized female heads of state! With children! This sort of thinking betrays a lack of knowledge of Church history, and seems to have inhaled influences from our Protestant brothers, who are, naturally, misguided persons.
Are you familiar with the “nihil obstat”?
Be careful, he’ll accuse you of a strawman and then refuse to explain the ways in which you have allegedly misrepresented the argument.
Well, let’s see the benefits of a college education. Let’s see you identify the plainly visible fallacies that you used in your comments. (Try to resist the cognitive biases opposing such a goal.)

Did you not read my reply to you? Why not respond to my points there? Is it easier to say the above to deflect from having to respond to those points? Do I have to demonstrate the value of a college education by explaining basic logic to a graduate?
 
Do I have to say “no” again?
“So I was enormously shocked yesterday to find out from someone (a fellow Catholic) that sex is permitted in marriage in the Catholic view.”
Circumstantial ad hominem (unrelated to the topic at hand).
“The one that stands out the most is: “marriage is prostitution” spoken by Tatian.”
Deliberately taken out of context - circumstantial ad hominem (red herring, too).
“I can agree that seeking pleasure in that fashion is a mortal sin.”
Deliberately taken out of context - circumstantial ad hominem (red herring, too).
“Oh dear, I guess that was just wishful thinking on my part” (When told that St. Thomas Aquinas didn’t agree with him. - Ed.)
Reading comprehension is an issue, I think. That doesn’t back up your original assertion, and thus stands as a clear example of misrepresentation (red herring, too).
(Note the excellent grammar. - Ed.)
Ad hominem (again, please, look it up).
“I’ve always found the definitions that the UN uses in their reports to be quite broad (e.g. physical violence includes slapping, and doesn’t indicate whether it was in response to a wife’s violence).” (The usual “she made me do it” excuse of domestic abusers. - Ed.)
Not only a circumstantial ad hominem, but out of context. Sexist, too (and completely ignorant of the context and research support of the statement). You’re just cherry-picking anything you can find now.
“Well, age is linked with attractiveness - the older someone is, the less attractive they are.”
This is well-demonstrated by multiple studies. The fact that your are so desperate to oppose my points on an unrelated topic does say a lot.
(Note: this is accompanied by quotes from studies that explicitly use an atheistic evolutionary model.
Do you oppose evolution?
Also, he’s talking about women in their late 20s and early 30s - Ed.)
God forbid.

Please look up the term “poisoning the well” (an ad hominem). It is clear, in being unable to respond to my arguments, you resort to fallacies. Your excerpts above represent a very underhanded approach to debate, and don’t reflect well on you.
 
My arguments in that thread backed up some of the points in the article which you are interested in writing a reply to. It would likely be a good idea to see further evidence before writing in opposition, no?
Oh, I can definitely see why that would be helpful, and have looked at some of it, I was referring to the idea of me posting something somewhere else to avoid the current discussion, my intention is not at all to avoid it but to engage in it. As for reading all of it, it is a little too long. If there are any particular points you believe I should be aware of I would appreciate you posting them here where I can easily find them without searching through a ridiculous numbers of posts. I, unfortunately, do not quite have enough leisure time for that.
That seems like a fair summary.
The next question, then, is whether this argument is intended as a universal argument or not. The way it is phrased certainly implies that it is always wrong, or at least ill-advised, for women to go to college.

Do you think that is also a fair summary of said article?
 
They are “patronizing” only insofar as the fact that you aren’t able or willing to identify the fallacies that you’ve used. I’ll give you a hint: most of the fallacies you use are ‘fallacies of relevance.’ How can I respond to fallacious arguments? Why spend time on it?
OK, let’s start over, and let’s talk relevance.

To return to your original points, you wrote:
This is dependent on many factors. However, the typical US public school education is pitiful, and college is definitely needed to make up for it (even if it is just two years). That said, if a person attended a private high school and enrolled in IB (for example), they (in my experience) don’t benefit all that much from college (at least, in terms of getting a B.A. - other degrees will be different).

And:
I don’t see how this couldn’t all be solved by distance education. I mean (besides the debt part) it seems to strike a fairly reasonable balance between both sides.

You put forward arguments about why people shouldn’t go to college, but why do your arguments apply to women only? If you aren’t implying that this applies particularly to women, then it must be fairly asked what relevance your comments have to these threads at all!

So could you just answer the question? Do you think young women ought to be given the same access to higher education by their families or not? Tell us, are you just high-jacking someone else’s threads to push some pet theory that higher education is overrated and overpriced? If so, would you please quit your philosophical quibbling and say so!!
 
The author of Catholics Trapped speaks the truth…kind of.
I am a fifty-something wife, mother and grandmother who consciously has made choices throughout my life to be a full-time wife and mother and now grandmother. Each of these three life changing events required that I make the choice to reject modern feminism and follow God’s call for me to be a domestic at home. In making this choice I have given up many worldly rewards and perks for peace and joy and love. I could go on and on about the temptations I had to be willful but that would require many pages.
Little less ego and willfulness and more obedience is necessary in today’s Catholic woman.
Full-time domestic life requires much interior discipline.
Best of luck finding Catholic men who are suitable to this calling. The author of this article should probably have written more about the scarce number of men willing to step up to bat and afford women full time domestic life.
Women? Anyone want to write an article?
 
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