With regards to inkaneer’s post on Mary’s Queenship, here are some other threads exploring the same topic:
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=688732
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=712528
forums.catholic-questions.org/showthread.php?t=699815
As you can see, and as is pointed out, God didn’t put a reference to the queen-mother in the Old Testament multiple times for no reason. Jesus is a Davidic king, and the mother of the king is the queen…hence “queen-mother.” Mary, being the mother of the king of heaven, is thus the queen of heaven. She is in a high place, and we honor her. I’m certain it has been pointed out that Mary has been highly honored in the Bible. There’s the angel Gabriel, Elizabeth, the woman in the crowd {I forget what verse this is, sorry!}, etc. “Henceforth all generation shall call me blessed.”
Mary’s words are recorded only on four occasions in the Gospels: The Annunciation, The Visitation, The Finding of the Child Jesus in the Temple, and The Wedding Feast at Cana.
Does this make her any less important? No, it does not. God speaks some of the most {if not
the most} beautiful things in silence. {Just a quick example:} The first man, Adam, was created in silence. The first woman, Eve, was created in silence. For most everything else, God spoke it into existence. {Heaven, the earth, and the Sabbath also do not have any recorded word of God for their creations.} For man, God fashioned it into existence in silence like a potter fashioning a clay vessel. {And yes, that was a reference to Isaiah; again, I forget the exact verse, sorry!}
Mary, who sits at the right hand of Jesus, always leads us to Him. She is our mother, given to us by Jesus her son. In that same passage, Jesus calls his mother “woman,” which leads all the way back to Genesis 3:15: “I will put enmities between you and the woman, and your seed and her seed: she shall crush your head, and you shall lie in wait for her heel.” {Taken from
newadvent.org.} Mary fulfills this by being the Mother of our Savior…the new Eve.
The Church always has and always will honor her.
{Please, note, that honor does not equal worship. The Church does not and never will worship Mary.}
EDIT; I’ll be praying for you that you can come to accept all of the teachings of the Catholic Church.