adelore,
I really appreciate your comments, especially knowing that you went through a similar period of questioning the celebration of these holidays. As I said, this year I really missed the Christmas tree and decorations. I did, also, feel very sad.
As you and others have pointed out, it is really impossible to eliminate all things pagan, since pagan influences are everywhere.
My questioning of these holidays did not start with any religious group. I was studying the history of Judaism, Christianity, other religions, and the history of paganism. There was a book written by Gnostics, that I found very disturbing. It was a difficult book to get through, mainly because the Gnostic beliefs are so offensive to our Lord. The authors gave a list of all the similarities between Christ and the myths of pagan gods. Dec. 25th was on the list and other things as well.
So, I began to study the history of Christmas, Easter, etc. Thatâs when I learned of the pagan origins of many of our Christian celebrations. When I did research online, I found Christian groups who do not celebrate Christmas, etc. I was actually rather surprised.
I have also had some rather scary experiences with objects I had in my house. I wonât go into all the details. Itâs a long story.
Also, I worked, several years, with Satanic cult survivorsâobjects and symbols were vital to them. Another long, scary story.
Anyway, Iâm still not sure where I stand on this. There are many things to consider. I have found that many Christians criticize those who choose to eliminate the pagan elements in Christmas and Easter. I do think we should respect one another, regardless of our position on the issue.
Again, I appreciate your response.
Anna
Anna,
Iâm glad I could help with at least letting you know someone had âfeltâ the same things you have and that I tooâŚwas trying to please our Lord, with what I thought was the right thing to do. (I think each person can only decide for themselves.)
The Lord will guide you, meanwhile, just keep doing what you doâŚLove the Lord with all your heart and keep praying. Loving our Lord doesnât mean a person has to put up a tree or anything else. Sometimes doing nothing until you know, is the best thing to do.
On my third year of wondering about the Pagan Root of thingsâŚI still did not put up a treeâŚhowever I took the advice of a JW friend of mine, who also donât put up trees and such⌠And she said to me, winter is so blahâŚso she put up lights around the ceiling of her kitchen, around some of her shelvesâŚbut of course no Christmas decorations at all. (she left them up until spring.) Her house looked pretty with the colored mini lights, but not really a Christmas look. I went home and did the same thing, it really perked me up, but I didnât have anything Christmas out.
My grandmother years ago had a salt and pepper collection. She had it in a very large currio cabinet. because it didnât have any lights of any kind, My grandmother took the small mini colored Christmas lights and put them on every shelf inside this cabinet. It was plugged in âEvery Night of the Year.â Talk about pretty. (my cousin now has grandmas salt and pepper currio cabinet and she too lites it year round.)
So I have a Nativatiy that I put up and I leave it up year roundâŚ(Iâm not into the Salt and Pepper thing like Grandma) in my cubboard with glass doors, you know for nick nacks.
On the third year I didnât do the Christmas âtypesâ of things, (trees, stockings ect.) this was the only thing I put up (along with Grandmas idea of lites) and to this day it stays up year round and is pluged in everynight. It does a few things for me. One I think about our Lords birth daily and all that he went through for us. It also catches peoples eyes who visit and it starts wonderful conversations about Our LordâŚYear round.
So maybe you could during the winter months if they are blah for you like most of us who live in Michigan and other cold snowy statesâŚMaybe you could find âwhatever it isâ to perk you up. A candle, a pretty flowering plant, a basket with flowers of some kind, just somethingâŚNot Christmas type, but something to make you smile during this time of year, to get you over the humps, so to speak.
Ok enough of my ramblingâŚ