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Allegra
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That sounds pretty extreme to me. When we were expecting my son, I was quite concerned over whether or not to have a circumcision done. My husband was adamant that it was for the best, but based on the unbiased information I could find (the kind where people refrained from calling one another “idiots”, “sheeple”, “child abusers” or telling them that they needed to “do their research” because they came to a different conclusion then they did.) there really doesn’t seem to be any real harm in doing it, or really any real benefit either. (At least not a benefit that couldn’t be reached in other ways.) I discussed the procedure with my OBGYN, who is NAPRO trained, doesn’t prescribe contraceptives electively, and has no problem being counter-cultural if he feels it is in the best interest of his patients. The main points of his perspective were…
a) that there was a hygienic benefit to the procedure, but provided the parents were prepared to provide and teach appropriate hygiene to their son, it was far from necessary.
b) there was very little risk involved in the procedure and in over three decades of practice, he had never had a report of a circumcision injury or complication from any of the doctors in his practice.
c) that in the state where I live, circumcisions are performed by the OBGYN and not the pediatrician and that arrangement is preferable because the OB has significantly more training and experience in surgical procedure.
d) The procedure is not painful when done with proper local anesthesia and he doesn’t do any procedures on any of his patients in ways that cause unnecessary suffering unless they are hell-bent on it. (Only some of his adult patients insist on medical procedures without pain management.)
e) He has four sons that he loves dearly, all of which have been circumcised and he would never do anything to his children that he did not think was ultimately in their best interest.
Based on that conversation, I stopped arguing with my husband about the procedure, though I would have been just as happy to forgo it if it was left up to me.
a) that there was a hygienic benefit to the procedure, but provided the parents were prepared to provide and teach appropriate hygiene to their son, it was far from necessary.
b) there was very little risk involved in the procedure and in over three decades of practice, he had never had a report of a circumcision injury or complication from any of the doctors in his practice.
c) that in the state where I live, circumcisions are performed by the OBGYN and not the pediatrician and that arrangement is preferable because the OB has significantly more training and experience in surgical procedure.
d) The procedure is not painful when done with proper local anesthesia and he doesn’t do any procedures on any of his patients in ways that cause unnecessary suffering unless they are hell-bent on it. (Only some of his adult patients insist on medical procedures without pain management.)
e) He has four sons that he loves dearly, all of which have been circumcised and he would never do anything to his children that he did not think was ultimately in their best interest.
Based on that conversation, I stopped arguing with my husband about the procedure, though I would have been just as happy to forgo it if it was left up to me.