I have to agree with you, Parker that having a face-to-face conversation is superior to conversing through the written word! One has to be careful to not misunderstand what is written. That’s one reason why I try to ask questions of thoughtful people like yourself to be sure I understand what you believe and why you believe it.
What you appear to be saying to me is that there is only one way to evangelize, and that is in person. If I had to guess (please correct me if I’m wrong), I suppose you might say that there is only one way to receive the truth, and that is in person. But (and I’m saying *but *not to argue with you, rather to ask you why you believe this and better understand you so that I might believe as you do) do you think there are times when God the Spirit will convince someone of the truth through means other than face-to-face contact?
This example comes to mind (again, I’m not saying this to debate, but to ask your opinion), and I feel led to ask you about Paul’s letters written to the Corinthian Church. In his first epistle written to them, he tries to convince them of a truth:
1It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father’s wife.
2And ye are puffed up, and have not rather mourned, that he that hath done this deed might be taken away from among you.
3For I verily, as absent in body, but present in spirit, have judged already, as though I were present, concerning him that hath so done this deed,
4In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when ye are gathered together, and my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ,
5To deliver such an one unto Satan for the destruction of the flesh, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.
(1 Corinthians 5)
The truth was that they were proud and condoning sin. His method of convincing them of this truth, it seems to me, was not speaking to them in person, but instead speaking to them with written words, and with the assistance gained through much prayer. And when I recall 2 Corinthians, I see that Paul’s method of using the written word and prayer was indeed effective in convincing the Corinthians of the truth of what he was unable to say in person, because distance separated him from the ones he loved.
So (in a spirit of wonder, but not of confrontation) I’d like to ask you this: Do you think it is possible (though not preferable) to try to convince someone of the truth trough written words, as Paul did? If you think it is possible, do you think God approves of such a method when, as in the case of Paul, speaking in person is not an option? I’d like to say, once again, that I agree that speaking in person is more effective than writing a letter or posting a reply on a forum, such as this. I think, however, that a message forum (though inferior to face-to-face communication) is actually superior to a written letter, for it is more like an actual conversation than composing a letter.
Hence, I’m wondering if, even though you are not with me in person, you might be with me in spirit? I’m wondering if you perhaps are willing, though prayer and the power of the Holy Spirit, to try to help me see the truth, as Paul helped the Corinthians to know what was true?
For I verily, as absent in body, but present in spirit… .
(1 Corinthians 5:3)
If you are not willing, that’s OK. No pressure; just asking!