Cleric to marry 7 year old

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… if she’s only 12, or 9, or 7, it’s a matter for the police.
does it mean when a school girl becomes unmarried mom or goes to abortion clinic , police arrest her & her boyfriend ?
 
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does it mean when a school girl becomes unmarried mom or goes to abortion clinic , police arrest her & her boyfriend ?
If her boyfriend is a 50 year old man, yes, they most certainly do arrest him. She will not be arrested because it is recognized that a person under the legal age of consent is not responsible for her actions in cases like this, since pedophiles manipulate their victims so that they can get what they want. She is the VICTIM of his criminality. She will most likely receive counseling or some other sort of victim’s support.
 
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does it mean when a school girl becomes unmarried mom or goes to abortion clinic , police arrest her & her boyfriend ?
dhzeremi answered the question about the law of our land. So, what do muslims do - stone her to death and flog the boyfriend?

It is too bad that since you live under our laws and know what happens under sharia law - you cannot see the difference in the laws. That they have to be explained to you is such a shame.
 
Just think of how many little girls do not do the things that muslim woman suggests - those who go out and get pregnant at an early age. But that does not make any difference to her. Under sharia law, islam, those who wouldn’t do such a thing would still be available to be married off to old men and raped.

What muslim woman is doing is saying that by making it a law that it is ok, and tacking on the label of saying it is a law that their god created - saying that ‘allah said it was ok and their prophet practiced it’ - muslims just blindly accept this. But, because our laws say it isn’t ok - and some little girls stray - and we treat pediphiles as criminals that it isn’t ok. Because we don’t label our laws as ‘Gods laws’! Basically, allah is ok with its children to be raped by old geezers and not to be protected from them.

They point to the bad behavior of children to justify their own perverse laws! Too many of us do not accept abortion - but that is not important to muslim woman. And the ironic thing about abortion is that the ones who do want it are the biggest appeasers of muslims - the left in our country. There is something wrong with this picture of justifying the perversion of sharia laws, but them using the left to their own gain. I guess these same could be considered the ‘useful idiots’.

A quote: 'Islam enjoys a large and influential ally among the non-Muslims: A new generation of “Useful Idiots,” the sort of people Lenin identified living in liberal democracies who furthered the work of communism. This new generation of Useful Idiots also live in liberal democracies, but serves the cause of Islamofascism—another virulent form of totalitarian ideology.'
Useful Idiots
 
Yeah, i have told her before that she needs to copy and paste her answers from Dr Naik and his likes. But the reason she gave was her lack of replying in proper English and also because she does not know much about her own religion. I think she just argues for the sake of it, and maybe learn about her religion at the same time through our discussions and her time spent scouring the internet to respond to us. Sometimes i wonder if she is really here to learn about Catholicism or if she is really doing her da’wah.

As i have asked her; if she would allow the same if it was her very own flesh and blood. How can ANYONE allow this in ANY CULTURE or RELIGION, is beyond me.

By the way, my mother married my father when she was 16 as well. My late father was 28. And even back then, it was very rare for Indian women to be married to someone older - as i learnt from my mother. She did mention that prepubertal arranged engagements between couples were common. But they did not wed and consumate their marriage until they were at least 16. This was only common in rural India but not practiced in the urban areas.
 
Dear all,

One breaking news. That “cleric” on last October 28th, finally agreed to cancel his wedding. Our national commission for children protection approached him, showed him the potential laws he might broke, and gained his word. The wedding was not a scam anyway since preparations were being prepared. The whole thing was done peacefully, anyway.
 
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Followers of Jesus (p) can’t accept lawful marriage ( not the forced one ) but can accept close relationship outside marriage , love child etc etc. I find it strange that what God said immoral / unlawful , so many people support those deeds …don’t understand what’s the basis of their apporval.

To my knowledge , Jesus (p) taught u a lustful look is adultery . Then how come Christians can accept adultery/ fornication ? We must keep in mind that on the last day , we will be judged according to God’s laws . Or may be , Christians think salvation is free & we don’t have to be good in this world ?
We don’t believe in killing women for having babies.
Is not it better if women marry first & then have babies ?
A question - what happens to the children of unmarried mothers in Pakistan then?
Normally in any Muslim majority country , it’s considered as a major sin . Most Muslim parents still are conservative & normally they don’t allow daugthers to have close boyfriends & go to late night parties etc. So , it’s not a big problem for us —yet.

But yes sometimes these cases happen. I read in a daily that there are some clinics where abortions take place secretly . If the news is spread out , local Imam may give fatwa of lashing or even stone to death . I read sometimes after lashing , local Imam asked the unmarried couple to repent & then he arranged their marriage.

If u specifically want to know about Pakistan , I hope if anyone is from there will ans.
 
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Followers of Jesus (p) can’t accept lawful marriage ( not the forced one ) but can accept close relationship outside marriage , love child etc etc.
We can’t accept pedophilic “marriages” (abhorrations to marriage) between old men and little girls, that much is true. Why you think we accept sexual relationships outside of marriage, I don’t know. We most definitely do not. Accepting the reality of the world in which these things happen is not the same as condoning the acts themselves. Pre-marital and extra-marital sex are still sins, and they always will be. Don’t for a second think we believe otherwise.
I find it strange that what God said immoral / unlawful , so many people support those deeds …don’t understand what’s the basis of their apporval.
See above. Nobody SUPPORTS these deeds. We accept them as a reality of life, but they are not excused by any stretch of the imagination. Some individuals who call themselves “Christian” may justify it for themselves, but unfortunately for them and their souls this does NOT justify their acts before God. Nothing will do that.
To my knowledge , Jesus (p) taught u a lustful look is adultery . Then how come Christians can accept adultery/ fornication ? We must keep in mind that on the last day , we will be judged according to God’s laws . Or may be , Christians think salvation is free & we don’t have to be good in this world ?
Is the point of your posts just to repeat the same misunderstandings of Christianity over and over? I repeat: Christianity does NOT condone adultery in any way. Period. It is a sin! A very, very serious sin!
Is not it better if women marry first & then have babies?
Indeed!
But yes sometimes these cases happen. I read in a daily that there are some clinics where abortions take place secretly . If the news is spread out , local Imam may give fatwa of lashing or even stone to death .
Yikes. Every part of this paragraph is horrifying. Abortion is wrong, but does killing TWO people somehow make up for the killing of ONE person?
I read sometimes after lashing , local Imam asked the unmarried couple to repent & then he arranged their marriage.
Hmm…I’m pretty sure all healthy marriages begin with lashings and are forced by local religious authorities. I can’t see how that could ever backfire. No. Not at all. :rolleyes:
 
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We can’t accept pedophilic “marriages”
Bible says God’s son David (p) married a young virgin when he was at death bed. God did not scold him & did not say it’s a pedophilic marriage.
Christianity does NOT condone adultery in any way. Period. It is a sin! A very, very serious sin!
but Christians don’t want to punish the sinners. Thus they encourage sinners to repeat the sins & spread the sins in the society.
Abortion is wrong, but does killing TWO people somehow make up for the killing of ONE person?
stone to death is not prescribed for abortion but for the married person who committed the sin ( regarding hadith). For unmarried persons , punishment is lashing .
 
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Bible says God’s son David (p) married a young virgin when he was at death bed. God did not scold him & did not say it’s a pedophilic marriage.
Okay. Fair enough. Let us then look at Abishag, the wife in question. Here is what is written of her marriage to David, in 1 Kings:1-4
  • 1Now King David was old, advanced in age; and they covered him with clothes, but he could not keep warm.
    2So his servants said to him, “Let them seek a young virgin for my lord the king, and let her attend the king and become his nurse; and let her lie in your bosom, that my lord the king may keep warm.”
3So they searched for a beautiful girl throughout all the territory of Israel, and found Abishag the Shunammite, and brought her to the king.

4The girl was very beautiful; and she became the king’s nurse and served him, but the king did not cohabit with her. *

The bolded portion (my emphasis) is very important to our discussion. Obviously, David was not a pedophile as he did not seek to take her virginity. She served him as HIS NURSE, not his sexual partner.
but Christians don’t want to punish the sinners. Thus they encourage sinners to repeat the sins & spread the sins in the society.
I am not going to dignify this with a counter-argument. It is enough that you are showing yourself to be unwilling to understand the simple corrections that I and others have offered to you. You are not interested in the truth of Christian beliefs, so you have no one to blame but yourself for your errors. When you talk about Christians doing this or that, no one will take you seriously, because you don’t know what you are talking about. This is worse for you and the religion you are a representative of than anything I or anyone else could say.
stone to death is not prescribed for abortion but for the married person who committed the sin ( regarding hadith). For unmarried persons , punishment is lashing
So what? You said that the Imams will prescribe stoning themselves sometimes anyway, so I’m not sure what the Quranically prescribed punishment has to do with anything if they are not obligated to follow it. Besides, lashing is bad enough.
 
always ??? why is that ? If parents teach them about religion since childhood , teach them that God is watching u , why should they go for unethical relationships ?
Do you think this is exclusively a Christian problem? I wish you would open your eyes and see this is actually a universal problem. Pre-marital sex is definitely not condoned in Christianity. There are Muslims, despite having taught their religion, are still rebellious enough to have pre-marital relationships and frequently engage in sexual relationships as well. Even the Mufti of Singapore has strongly condemned Muslim youths of having strayed from their beliefs. Priests of our Church also do the same for the Christian youths.

You mock others for simply not having faith yet totally ignore the consequences of your own Muslim youth who are just as human and capable of doing wrong.
 
muslim woman is being hypocritical about this thing that muslims don’t have sex for sex sake! They even created this thing called ‘temporary marriage’, or misyar marriage, just so they can have sex.

misyar marriages

maybe we should just make something up and call it ‘marriage’ and tell muslims to mind their own business.

And then they have this thing called ‘polygamy’ that they practice which is smarmy at best. We see that in Europe these people are mostly on welfare so once again the hypocracy of muslims and their wanton sexual mores are thrusted on others.
 
Its a common tactic they use - to divert attention and hard-to-answer questions. I don’t think she knew of my background, so she thought she could get off with such a lie.
In the late 1920s Besant travelled to the United States with her protégé and adopted son Jiddu Krishnamurti, whom she claimed was the new Messiah and incarnation of Buddha. Krishnamurti rejected these claims in 1929.
Yeah, i see what you mean. This is also a clear example of Taqiyya in Islam. They will do and say anything to fend off questions and difficult situations. Hey, if Mohammad did it, who can stop them?
 
um, nasty, I am glad I live in a country where their is a much lower chance of this stuff happening. Although it can happen sadly.
 
but Christians don’t want to punish the sinners. Thus they encourage sinners to repeat the sins & spread the sins in the society.
Have you heard about the God who love the SINNERS, but hate their Sins. Dzheremi is right it will be hard to make you understand this things if you are a staunch advocate of a controlled society that allows death penalty to redeem “Honor” for self sake.

It would be hard for you to understand, muslim woman, that the Christians specially the Catholics don’t condemned a person to death and gravely pass judgment on any man for committing mistakes. For we believe that every man is made to be inherently good and the God who made man, a patient God. Then who are we to “cast the first stone” if He is this way.
stone to death is not prescribed for abortion but for the married person who committed the sin ( regarding hadith). For unmarried persons , punishment is lashing .
Just the same still an act of heartless, cruel and uncivilized method of correcting people for committing sin.That’s why your society is uncultured (sorry this is the only word that can describe such act) in its traditions for your laws permit such inhumane treatment of the disgraced children of God
 
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yes but it’s not accepted in the Muslim world . Some or many may do it secretly but openly a couple will have kids outside marrriage , it’s not accepted by Muslims as God did not approve it. Western world gave a beautiful name to those children --love childs . Of Coures kids are innocent but we must not encourage people to have kids in this way.
… attacking the traditional Pakistani enemy India via Hinduism
I told u earlier I am not a Pak citizen. I gave some info about Hindu’s arranging marriage of their daughgers before puberty. Few famous Indian Hindu writers such as Sharotchandro , Bhivuti mentioned those in their books. U may ask any Indian who read their books . Why should i lie about Hindus ?
Marriage is between ONE Man and ONE woman
Islam did not introduce polygamy or young marriage. It was common since the time of the Biblical Prophets (p) > Jesus (p) never scolded any of those Prophets (pbut).
but even if EVERY girl was having babies outside marriage the thought of stoning them or lashing them would be repugnant and at odds with Christian thought.
regarding hadith , a woman came to Prophet Muhammed (p) & asked him to punish her as she committed that major sin. Prophet ( p) came to know that she is pregnant . He asked her to return after the baby is born. Later the woman came back & Prophet (p) told her to continue breastfeeding the baby .

Later the woman again came & told the Prophet (p) that her baby has started eating food & no more depends on her milk only . She insisted that Prophet (p) should carry on the punishment . After the 3rd time , Prophet (p) ordered to carry on the stoning to death punishmet ( regarding the previous holy book i.e. Torah / Bible ) .

When the woman died & a man made a bad remark of her , Prophet (p) told only one drop blood of her is enough for all citizens of the city to wash their sins …something like that . It means as she wanted to get punishment in this world so that she does not stand in front of God as a sinner on the last day , her sins were forgiven.
I would like to ask what happens to those children actually born to these women?
don’t know any unmarried couple with kids. Normally no one announced that s/he has any kids outside marariage. Sometimes news come in paper that abandon babies found or body of a newborn was found etc etc. Looks like those sinners either killed babies or just left them in the streets. Some may lie that they are married. Sometimes news are like this women filed case for DNA test . Don’t know the follow up stories.
 
yes but it’s not accepted in the Muslim world.
Its not accepted in the Christian world either. And by Christian world, i do not mean nations.
Some or many may do it secretly but openly a couple will have kids outside marrriage , it’s not accepted by Muslims as God did not approve it. Western world gave a beautiful name to those children --love childs . Of Coures kids are innocent but we must not encourage people to have kids in this way.
A love child is still a child loved by God. Even if Muslims or Christians fornicated and created life in the unmarried womb. Its not something that is condoned by society nor religion. But it is tolerated in non-Muslim countries, whereas its the death penalty by stoning in Muslim countries for the unmarried woman.
I told u earlier I am not a Pak citizen.
I hope you know that using the word “Pak” is a derogatory, discriminative word in most countries.
I gave some info about Hindu’s arranging marriage of their daughgers before puberty. Few famous Indian Hindu writers such as Sharotchandro , Bhivuti mentioned those in their books. U may ask any Indian who read their books . Why should i lie about Hindus ?
I think you are referring to engagements, which can be broken off later after they have reached of legal age. They are not legally married, but ceremonially engaged. Even so, this practice is now outlawed in India.
Islam did not introduce polygamy or young marriage. It was common since the time of the Biblical Prophets (p) > Jesus (p) never scolded any of those Prophets (pbut).
Polygamy was tolerated during Biblical times but this practice is no longer applicable in modern times. Do you see Jewish men marrying multiple wives?
regarding hadith , a woman came to Prophet Muhammed (p) & asked him to punish her as she committed that major sin. Prophet ( p) came to know that she is pregnant . He asked her to return after the baby is born. Later the woman came back & Prophet (p) told her to continue breastfeeding the baby .

Later the woman again came & told the Prophet (p) that her baby has started eating food & no more depends on her milk only . She insisted that Prophet (p) should carry on the punishment . After the 3rd time , Prophet (p) ordered to carry on the stoning to death punishmet ( regarding the previous holy book i.e. Torah / Bible ) .

When the woman died & a man made a bad remark of her , Prophet (p) told only one drop blood of her is enough for all citizens of the city to wash their sins …something like that . It means as she wanted to get punishment in this world so that she does not stand in front of God as a sinner on the last day , her sins were forgiven.
Yes, the Prophet is all knowing and merciful that he possibly could not foresee babies need a mother’s nurturing even after completing the dependency of the mother’s milk. Of course, he cannot be blamed for Allah is merciful - only to him.
don’t know any unmarried couple with kids. Normally no one announced that s/he has any kids outside marariage. Sometimes news come in paper that abandon babies found or body of a newborn was found etc etc. Looks like those sinners either killed babies or just left them in the streets. Some may lie that they are married. Sometimes news are like this women filed case for DNA test . Don’t know the follow up stories.
Of course you wouldn’t. Because it would force you to rethink your faith in a religion that does not tolerate sinners.
 
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