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John_Calvin
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I rather happen to hold a view that we confess to God alone unless we have wronged another. In that case, we confess to the one we wronged. If you feel you must confess something, that is a matter for your own conscience. I’m wondering, however, whether there is a fundamental difference between your views and those of your fiancé. I would consider whether this might cause a problem at a later date.I have a question-
While DH and I were engaged, I attended service with him, before we attended Mass. When I realized it was “Communion” Sunday, I went and hid in the restroom. When I came back, DH had saved the cracker for me (I got back just in time for them to hand out the juice).
I “took” “communion”, but I never felt right about it. When he and I discussed it on our way to Mass, he told me that him saving “communion” for me was a political statement about his feelings regarding my stance as a Christian. Apparently, only those who have received Jesus and their personal Lord and Savior were to receive. And he and MIL had been going round and round as to the stance of Catholics as Christians. I told him “Thanks, but next time (if there is a next time)… NO.”
This was a few months back, but I am feeling like, perhaps I need to confess this? Thoughts?