Communion on the tongue while kneeling

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I do pray that Communion in the hand will cease. I also try to do my part to convince those who do not see a problem with it to change the practice. And it is not a matter of considering others to be “weaker in their faith” or “less holy.” Not at all. Because this has been mandated as “OK” by the Church does not mean it’s right, especially considering the manner in which it came about. Let me ask you, if the Pope tomorrow forbade the practice on Communion in the hand (which will never happen, because the liberal Bishops will not allow it), and for the very reasons that have been presented here, would you then agree with it? Would you not feel even a little remorse for those many times of receiving in the hand?
No, I would feel no remorse because if I can’t trust the Church, then Jesus was a liar.
 
No, I would feel no remorse because if I can’t trust the Church, then Jesus was a liar.

You seem to be trying to justify yourself —by putting it on our Lord Christ. Communion in the hand was not our Lord’s doing. The Pope gave in—when he should have stood firm.
 

You seem to be trying to justify yourself —by putting it on our Lord Christ. Communion in the hand was not our Lord’s doing. The Pope gave in—when he should have stood firm.
I’m not justifying anything- I don’t even receive on the hand. But I feel bad for those who feel like they can’t trust the Church- thats exactly what the protestants do: they think they know better themselves.😉
 
I’m not justifying anything- I don’t even receive on the hand. But I feel bad for those who feel like they can’t trust the Church- thats exactly what the protestants do: they think they know better themselves.😉

Remember-- our Pope is infallible in only certain circumstances. He can make a mistake. We are living thru a time of tormoil—and why—because of wrong decisions.
 
God made my hands. And as God, if He didn’t want to be in my hand, He wouldn’t be there.
You are not being disobedient by receiving Holy Communion in the hand. I am not arguing that those who receive in the hand are wrong to do it. My opinion on the subject is that receiving in the hand should be abolished. However, you’re not doing anything wrong as long as Holy Mother Church gives you permission to do it.
Jesus is in my hands everytime I pick up a child, help my schizophrenic friend, hug someone who is grieving, embrace my husband…He is the One I’m helping, embracing, loving.
Jesus is not present in your hands in the instances you describe above as He is when you receive Holy Communion. Christ is present in many ways but he is only present body, blood, soul, and divinity in the Eucharist. Here is what the Catechism of the Catholic Church says about the real presence of Christ in the Eucharist:
1373 “Christ Jesus, who died, yes, who was raised from the dead, who is at the right hand of God, who indeed intercedes for us,” is present in many ways to his Church:[195] in his word, in his Church’s prayer, “where two or three are gathered in my name,”[196] in the poor, the sick, and the imprisoned,[197] in the sacraments of which he is the author, in the sacrifice of the Mass, and in the person of the minister. But "he is present . . . most especially in the Eucharistic species."[198]
1374 The mode of Christ’s presence under the Eucharistic species is unique. It raises the Eucharist above all the sacraments as “the perfection of the spiritual life and the end to which all the sacraments tend.”[199] In the most blessed sacrament of the Eucharist "the body and blood, together with the soul and divinity, of our Lord Jesus Christ and, therefore, the whole Christ is truly, really, and substantially contained."[200] "This presence is called 'real’ - by which is not intended to exclude the other types of presence as if they could not be ‘real’ too, but because it is presence in the fullest sense: that is to say, it is a substantial presence by which Christ, God and man, makes himself wholly and entirely present."[201] (emphasis mine)
christusrex.org/www1/CDHN/euch2.html#presence
The above quote in blue is by Pope Paul VI in his encyclical *Mysterium Fidei. *papalencyclicals.net/Paul06/p6myster.htm
This whole discussion is silly. The Vatican has OKed it in the U.S. It doesn’t matter what the history was. It’s OK now.
Actually, history does matter. This is one of the main reasons there are so many problems in the Church today. We have forgotten our history. There are many in the Church who would have everyone believe the Church started in 1965. They want to do away with anything that happened prior to Vatican II. We should not abandon our traditions (small t) just because it’s “history.”
Complaints? Talk to the Vatican. Tell them that THEY are promoting abuse of the Lord here in the U.S. Tell them about all the millions of Catholics who are being irreverent in the U.S.
I agree. The Holy See has given permission to receive Holy Communion in the hand. It’s up to the Holy See to change the discipline.
Our bodies are created GOOD by God. When He forgives us our sins, He cleanses us soul and body. When we receive Him, we are dead to our sins and alive to Him. We have offered ourselves to be nailed to the cross with Him.
A wonderful attitude to have when receiving Holy Communion. We not only have to be free of mortal sin and keep the one hour fast, we also have to have the right disposition. We should be dead to ourselves and alive for Christ.
 
Replying to the OP, I think much of the lack of belief and/or reverance has to do with 30+ years of weird seminary training which led to bad catechesis and even worse example and finally leads to all those who ‘didn’t’ learn what and how they should, passing along the bad habits and lack of understanding to the next generation … and on …and on…and on…

and here we are…:mad:
 
I agree with dailymass. How can anyone not see the connection between the Modernism and novelties that are rampant since Vatican II, and the lack or ordinations, the drop in mass attendance, and the lack of faith of many high Church leaders?

Look at the state of the Church fifty years ago, and look at it today.

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I agree with dailymass. How can anyone not see the connection between the Modernism and novelties that are rampant since Vatican II, and the lack or ordinations, the drop in mass attendance, and the lack of faith of many high Church leaders?

Look at the state of the Church fifty years ago, and look at it today.

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I honestly don’t understand how people can’t see it, either. But 50 years ago the Church was not in that great shape. The problems that have exploded since VII were fermenting for many years before. I think the infiltration of Communism and Modernism began around the time of the French Revolution. Pope St. Pius X did his level best to stamp it out, but “the foot was in the door” so to speak.
 
I feel both are very sacred.

I love the thought and feel of holding Jesus in my hands. But I cannont do this for physical reasons.

My hands are stiff and shaky. I always fear dropping the Precious Host. This is mostly why I recieve on the tongue, and won’t become an Extrodinary Minister of Communion.

I think both are reverent. As long as you have clean hands and check your palm for and consume any crumbs…it is very beautiful too.
 
It isn’t communion in the hand that causes lack of faith. The two may be correlated, but correlation does not prove causation. It seems to me that those who are more “Mother God” tend to take communion in the hand…and those who are more “Vatican II was evil” take communion on the tongue…

Yet those who are in line with the magesterium do both…with reverence.

I happen to go to a parish that is very traditional and completely aligned with Rome. They are constantly teaching the faithful about the teachings of the Catholic Church and have tons of vocations (I know several people, among them myself, who are considering the religious life because of the witness of this parish). Yet communion in the hand is allowed AND widely practiced.

For me personally, I take communion in the hand for several reasons - none of which are that I don’t believe or am not reverent. It gives me a private moment with Our Lord where I get to hold God - and he allows this! It’s moving. Also, I’ve had times where I tried communion on the tongue and the host was dropped or broken, or my teeth were hit. I also feel really weird sticking my tongue out to God… 😊
Those are some good ponts. My family joined the Catholic Church in '05. In RCIA, we were encouraged to take it by either method. That being the case, we followed the practice our family was accustomed to at the Episcopal and Lutheran churches we had attended in the past, and received in the hand. We recently attended a beatiful in church in another city in which the faithful lined up at the rail and took the Eucharist on the tongue. Fortunately, the priest could see my son was very confused, and he graciously gave it to him in his hand. By the time he reached me, he had figured out that we were newcomers, and placed it immediately in my hand. It was a wonderful service, and I certainly would have no objection to taking the Eucharist kneeling at the rail–in fact I expressed this to our priest when he stopped by the house last week.

So, I can certainly see where Catholics are coming from-- a sense of loss for a beauty of reverence and sacredness. Still, while it may be true to generalize that liberals are inclined to take it in the hand, conservatives like our family also take it in the hand–it does not prove any causation, as the prior poster pointed out. While at our parish only ten percent, or so, take it in the tongue, we have a vibrant and reverent congregation. I also always like to point out James 3: 5-10.

***5Likewise the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. 6The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole person, sets the whole course of his life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell. ***

**7All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and creatures of the sea are being tamed and have been tamed by man, 8but no man can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison. 9With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who have been made in God’s likeness. 10Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers, this should not be.

To me, then, I have a hard time seeing what is inherently more reverent by receiving on the tongue–except perhaps that people see this as one final change from the old traditions which they are not willing to accept. I can sympathize with that, but it’s not an argument that is persuasive to our family–at least, not yet.
 
I love the thought and feel of holding Jesus in my hands. But I cannont do this for physical reasons.
I have a real hard time understanding this. God is Almighty, All Powerful, we are nothing compared to His Presence. We are poor sinners who deserve not His mercy and yet He desires to give us His mercy and forgiveness. In my humble opinion, it is comprehensible to think such lowly creatures as ourselves, would be so bold as to dare to hold Our Lord God Almighty in their hands. I don’t mean to be insensitive to your thoughts, but they seem very “protestantized”.
 
That’s absurd. Even Pope Benedict XVI remarked that if Christians were worthily receiving Communion by hand during the first several hundred years of Christianity, how can it be an unworthy form now?

I used to receive only on the tongue. I realized that I was only doing it that way because it made me FEEL holier. It also made me LOOK DOWN on people who received by hand as people who don’t value the Eucharist. Your intimation that ony those who kneel and/or receive on the tongue recognize the sacredness of Holy Communion can only lead to spiritual pride, which, as the Pharisees found out, isn’t a welcome attribute for a Christian.

On other words, one can’t be holier than the Church. And if the Church says it’s just as well to receive by hand, to infer that this is an inferior method is a matter of pride (“I know better than the Church”)

On the other hand, I sympathizes with the original poster because the priest should not have denied Communion. He’s flat out wrong on that because he’s violating the directives of Rome on the matter of those who choose to kneel.
Most Catholics are unaware that Pope Paul VI **ruled against communion in the hand. This **was stated in 1969 in Memoriale Domini. This was done in response to a group of priests in Holland, I believe, that were giving communion in the hand. Here is an excerpt:
  1. Does it seem that the proposal should be accepted by which, besides the traditional mode, the rite of receiving Holy Communion in the hand would be permitted?
    Yes: 567
    No: 1,233
    Yes, with reservations: 315
    Invalid votes: 20
    2. Should experiments with this new rite first take place in small communities, with the assent of the local Ordinary?
    Yes: 751
    No: 1,215
    Invalid votes: 70
    3. Do you think that the faithful, after a well planned catechetical preparation, would accept this new rite willingly?
    Yes: 835
    No: 1,185
    Invalid votes: 128
    From the responses received it is thus clear that by far the greater number of bishops feel that the present discipline should not be changed at all, indeed that if it were changed, this would be offensive to the sensibilities and spiritual appreciation of these bishops and of most of the faithful.
    After he had considered the observations and the counsel of those whom “the Holy Spirit has placed as bishops to rule” (11) the Churches, **in view of the seriousness of the matter and the importance of the arguments proposed, the Supreme Pontiff judged that the long received manner of ministering Holy Communion to the faithful should not be changed. **
However Pope Paul was weak. In the next line of this document he gave those already reveiving communion in the hand permission to continue to do so. However for everyone else: Communion on the tongue.

catholictradition.org/Eucharist/memoriale.htm
 
I have a real hard time understanding this. God is Almighty, All Powerful, we are nothing compared to His Presence. We are poor sinners who deserve not His mercy and yet He desires to give us His mercy and forgiveness. In my humble opinion, it is comprehensible to think such lowly creatures as ourselves, would be so bold as to dare to hold Our Lord God Almighty in their hands. I don’t mean to be insensitive to your thoughts, but they seem very “protestantized”.
On the contrary, to me I see the sentiment of the prior post in similar light as these words.

Christ has no body now on earth but yours, no hands but yours, no feet but yours; yours are the eyes through which to look at Christ’s compassion to the world, yours are the feet with which he is to go about doing good, and yours are the hands with which he is to bless us now." ***
*** - St. Teresa of Avila


It’s not that he can take or hold Christ within the confines of his hands, but it’s that he wants to connect with Christ himself–like taking the hand of a friend.

 
I find that many today have misplaced sentiments.
True enough, but, as former Protestants, the prior post does not sound anything like how our separated bretheren refer to their communion wafer. Remember, except for a minority of confused Episcopalians/Anglicans, the Real Presence is not something they would accept–or even understand. That being the case, they would never refer to holding Christ (just as they would never refer to Mary as the Mother of God). It is an alien way of thinking to them. I simply suggest that we don’t ascribe Protestant attributes to something just because we fail to agree. Protestants fail to appreciate the mystery of the Eucharist, and it’s clear the prior poster understands that it is not a mere symbol, but the body, soul, and divinity of our Lord.
 
True enough, but, as former Protestants, the prior post does not sound anything like how our separated bretheren refer to their communion wafer. Remember, except for a minority of confused Episcopalians/Anglicans, the Real Presence is not something they would accept–or even understand. That being the case, they would never refer to holding Christ (just as they would never refer to Mary as the Mother of God). It is an alien way of thinking to them. I simply suggest that we don’t ascribe Protestant attributes to something just because we fail to agree. Protestants fail to appreciate the mystery of the Eucharist, and it’s clear the prior poster understands that it is not a mere symbol, but the body, soul, and divinity of our Lord.
You have made a good point. Protestant may of not been the right choice of word. In my disagreement it would perhaps of been better to of suggested that it was a “modernist” sentiment. It seems modernist to me to assume and to form one’s own opinion such as that as though there were no traditional teaching on the matter. As though it were open for personal interpretation.
 
I have a real hard time understanding this. God is Almighty, All Powerful, we are nothing compared to His Presence. We are poor sinners who deserve not His mercy and yet He desires to give us His mercy and forgiveness. In my humble opinion, it is incomprehensible to think such lowly creatures as ourselves, would be so bold as to dare to hold Our Lord God Almighty in their hands. I don’t mean to be insensitive to your thoughts, but they seem very “protestantized”.
 
I have a real hard time understanding this. God is Almighty, All Powerful, we are nothing compared to His Presence. We are poor sinners who deserve not His mercy and yet He desires to give us His mercy and forgiveness. In my humble opinion, it is comprehensible to think such lowly creatures as ourselves, would be so bold as to dare to hold Our Lord God Almighty in their hands. I don’t mean to be insensitive to your thoughts, but they seem very “protestantized”.
This should read incomprehensible.
 
I do pray that Communion in the hand will cease. I also try to do my part to convince those who do not see a problem with it to change the practice. And it is not a matter of considering others to be “weaker in their faith” or “less holy.” Not at all. Because this has been mandated as “OK” by the Church does not mean it’s right, especially considering the manner in which it came about. Let me ask you, if the Pope tomorrow forbade the practice on Communion in the hand (which will never happen, because the liberal Bishops will not allow it), and for the very reasons that have been presented here, would you then agree with it? Would you not feel even a little remorse for those many times of receiving in the hand?
If the Pope forbade the practice tomorrow, I would feel no remorse for my actions today since I’ve committed no sin. In obedience I would accept the change in discipline and encourage others to do the same. I could ask you the same question…what if tomorrow the Pope forbade communion on the tongue, would you then agree with communion in the hand?
 
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