Emad:
All priests are sinners in one way or another. So why confess to any of them when they may make the same exact mistakes as you? Why not go straight to God?
Hi Edam -
There is something that you should keep in mind. Catholics do not confess their sins to a Priest instead of God. We confess to a Priest representing God, as a minister of God. The prayer of absolution which the Priest prays while administering the Sacrament says, “I absolve you from your sins in the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.” It is in God’s name that the Priest forgives, not his own. At the conclusion of the ritual, the priest acts as spiritual advisor, explaining how to correct our actions and giving us penetential actions to take. These vary according to the sin involved during the confession.
Interpersonal forgiveness and reconciliation are part of the hoped-for outcomes of this sacrament. Christianity stresses the relation of the “horizontal” and the “vertical”—interpersonal forgiveness and divine forgiveness. “Therefore, if you bring your gift to the altar, and there recall that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there at the altar, go first and be reconciled with your brother, and then come and offer your gift” (Mt 5:23-24).
The most important thing that happens in the Sacrament of Reconciliation is what Jesus does. While the examination of conscience, sorrow for sin, telling the sins to the priest and acts of satisfaction are all important elements on our part, the key to understanding the sacrament today is to focus on God’s part. The Sacrament celebrates God’s gift of reconciliation and peace.
Here is part of what happens during the ritual of Confession…
After hearing the confession, the priest assigns a penance, and the penitent accepts the penance with the following prayer:
Act of Contrition
“O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended thee, and I detest all my sins because of thy just punishment, but most of all because they offend Thee, my God, who art all-good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve, with the help of thy grace, to sin no more and to avoid the near occasion of sin. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.”
The priest then extends his hands in blessing over the penitent, and prays the prayer of absolution:
Prayer of Absolution"God, the Father of mercies, through the death and resurrection of His Son
has reconciled the world to Himself and sent the Holy Spirit among us
for the forgiveness of sins;
Through the ministry of the Church may God give you pardon and peace,
and I absolve you from your sins in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit."
Blessings,
Subrosa