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My own Priest has stated that “Confessions to the entire Congregation” was a norm for a while, but the fact that some people like to gossip and that some people are not so forgiving as according to scripture, made that go away. Some things are better left confidential…
 
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JoeyWarren:
My own Priest has stated that “Confessions to the entire Congregation” was a norm for a while, but the fact that some people like to gossip and that some people are not so forgiving as according to scripture, made that go away. Some things are better left confidential…
As I understand this was the norm only in the early development of the Church…of course, I’m no Church historian so I’m sure someone more learned will be able to tell us more detailed information.

God Bless,
Bill
 
Ok, I will try to explain as I was taught.
Emad,
As Catholics, we believe sin has a social aspect to it. Only God forgives, but He has chosen to do so through the instrument of the priest. You are right that the priest is a human being like the penitant, but because he is ordained, he is also the representative of the faith community he leads (usually a parish). Since he is that representative, when we confess THROUGH him to God we obey Christ’s command in Mt 5:23-24 to reconcile with our brother before making offerings to God. If having God forgive us was all that is required, why would Jesus command this? Because sin injuries more than our relationship with God – it hurts our relationship with other human beings.
 
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Emad:
I was taught by a catholic ( a vey strong one) that sometimes in church you can confess in front of everyone. Also if God was Merciful enough to hide your sins from the sight of others, why reveal it to them? It is more like humiliating yourself instead of humbling yourself. Also if I understand correctly, confession has nothing to do with repentance or forgiveness of sins, rite?
At each Mass we do confess aloud our sinfulness in the Pentitential Rite but we don’t confess our individual sins aloud to each other…maybe this is what your friend meant?

Blessings,
Bill
 
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bbira:
At each Mass we do confess aloud our sinfulness in the Pentitential Rite but we don’t confess our individual sins aloud to each other…maybe this is what your friend meant?

Blessings,
Bill
Well the extent of that ‘confession’ at the most is to say ‘I have sinned through my own fault in my thoughts and in my words, in what I have done and what I have failed to do’ (the exact words don’t vary from mass to mass).

I think God requires a little more of us than this.
 
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bbira:
At each Mass we do confess aloud our sinfulness in the Pentitential Rite but we don’t confess our individual sins aloud to each other…maybe this is what your friend meant?

Blessings,
Bill
Perhaps it was this what they meant.
 
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Faith101:
dear Subrosa

The reason why Muslims have a hard time understanding the concept of Confession is because we believe that only God is capable of forgiving sins. All humans are on the same playing field, and the best amongst us are the ones who are greater in piety. The most pious person can be that beggar that searches the trash for food, not neccesarily a priest or an imam.

The other thing is that we believe we have an open and direct connection with God. He asks us to pray to Him, to call on Him…and He will answer those prayers. Also, read my signature, its a verse in the Quran where God says that through repentence (basically this 3 step process, if your interested we can get into it later), God promises to forgive us our sins, and never does God break His promises.

But i realize that the way we see our relationship with God is different. And i do understand your point of view (i think 🙂 )
Thank you for this explanation, very much Faith101! It is very enlightening.

I am pulling this quote from your response…
…we believe we have an open and direct connection with God.
This is also a Christian belief, but we add ministers to this, originally with the followers of Christ, which He gave the ministries, and thier successors who carry on thier ministries.

The short of it is that by these ministries, God, through Christ is active in the world. The ministers are bishops, priests and deacons. None of these men have any authority without that of the Holy Spirit which resides within them.

Why don’t you go right ahead and expound on the 3 part process that the Quran teaches on repentence, which is a Christian teaching, although I would assume differs from that in the Quran. I think it is appropriate on this thread. And it would be great to compare teachings. I know that I would certainly be interested.

God be with you,
Subrosa
 
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Emad:
All priests are sinners in one way or another. So why confess to any of them when they may make the same exact mistakes as you? Why not go straight to God?
Hi Edam -

There is something that you should keep in mind. Catholics do not confess their sins to a Priest instead of God. We confess to a Priest representing God, as a minister of God. The prayer of absolution which the Priest prays while administering the Sacrament says, “I absolve you from your sins in the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.” It is in God’s name that the Priest forgives, not his own. At the conclusion of the ritual, the priest acts as spiritual advisor, explaining how to correct our actions and giving us penetential actions to take. These vary according to the sin involved during the confession.

Interpersonal forgiveness and reconciliation are part of the hoped-for outcomes of this sacrament. Christianity stresses the relation of the “horizontal” and the “vertical”—interpersonal forgiveness and divine forgiveness. “Therefore, if you bring your gift to the altar, and there recall that your brother has anything against you, leave your gift there at the altar, go first and be reconciled with your brother, and then come and offer your gift” (Mt 5:23-24).

The most important thing that happens in the Sacrament of Reconciliation is what Jesus does. While the examination of conscience, sorrow for sin, telling the sins to the priest and acts of satisfaction are all important elements on our part, the key to understanding the sacrament today is to focus on God’s part. The Sacrament celebrates God’s gift of reconciliation and peace.

Here is part of what happens during the ritual of Confession…

After hearing the confession, the priest assigns a penance, and the penitent accepts the penance with the following prayer:
Act of Contrition
“O my God, I am heartily sorry for having offended thee, and I detest all my sins because of thy just punishment, but most of all because they offend Thee, my God, who art all-good and deserving of all my love. I firmly resolve, with the help of thy grace, to sin no more and to avoid the near occasion of sin. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.”

The priest then extends his hands in blessing over the penitent, and prays the prayer of absolution:

Prayer of Absolution"God, the Father of mercies, through the death and resurrection of His Son
has reconciled the world to Himself and sent the Holy Spirit among us
for the forgiveness of sins;
Through the ministry of the Church may God give you pardon and peace,
and I absolve you from your sins in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit."

Blessings,
Subrosa
 
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Subrosa:
Hi Edam -

There is something that you should keep in mind. Catholics do not confess their sins to a Priest instead of God. We confess to a Priest representing God, as a minister of God. The prayer of absolution which the Priest prays while administering the Sacrament says, “I absolve you from your sins in the Name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.” It is in God’s name that the Priest forgives, not his own. At the conclusion of the ritual, the priest acts as spiritual advisor, explaining how to correct our actions and giving us penetential actions to take. These vary according to the sin involved during the confession.
This is the whole part I don’t understand. How can someone who may be evil be a representative of God? Do you really believe that someone who may be evil be a representative of God? Also the priest can’t absolve you of your sins, because for sure, no one knows if God really forgave you or not.

ps: My name is Emad not Edam.
 
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Emad:
This is the whole part I don’t understand. How can someone who may be evil be a representative of God? Do you really believe that someone who may be evil be a representative of God? Also the priest can’t absolve you of your sins, because for sure, no one knows if God really forgave you or not.

ps: My name is Emad not Edam.
Question? How do you know that Allah forgives you when you ask him? I am going to guess that the Koran tell you that this is the case.

Ok, how do I know that a priest can forgive sins…the Bible tells me so.

shalom alekum
 
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sadie2723:
Question? How do you know that Allah forgives you when you ask him? I am going to guess that the Koran tell you that this is the case.

Ok, how do I know that a priest can forgive sins…the Bible tells me so.

shalom alekum
God tells us a general rule (that anyone who sincerely repents will be forgiven). However no one really knows for sure if they were forgiven or not. Also how can a priest who can be evil be a representative of God? If you had a business, would you hire bad representatives? Would you hire someone who is on drugs, molests children, and spends his nights with prostitutes?

Why don’t prostestants confess? Don’t they believe in the same Bible? What do they interpret that verse to mean?
 
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Emad:
God tells us a general rule (that anyone who sincerely repents will be forgiven). However no one really knows for sure if they were forgiven or not. Also how can a priest who can be evil be a representative of God? If you had a business, would you hire bad representatives? Would you hire someone who is on drugs, molests children, and spends his nights with prostitutes?

Why don’t prostestants confess? Don’t they believe in the same Bible? What do they interpret that verse to mean?
Well, that last part is a whole new pile of fish, so I am going to save that one for a moment.

First, just because a person has fallen victim to sin, does not mean that he cannot be a representative of God. As Catholics, we have countless saints that did not always live perfect lives, but they eventually got it together. Bottom line is that it comes down to faith on either end (yours or mine). We both believe that if we confess (either to God or a Priest depending on if we are talking about you or me) we are forgiven.

Protestants. I can go on for days on this one. Somewhere along the line of things, the Protastant churches (well some of them) decided that the sacrament of reconciliation did not was not necessary. I really am not qualified to interpret what they believe, as there are about 30,000 protestant denominations. So, that makes it a little tough. I can comment on my Dad’s belief (Dad is a Protestant) and he thinks just like you do. But, he can’t tell me why the scripture in John does not convince him. Again, it comes down to faith. He has faith that when he talks to God direct, that God forgives him. I respect his belief, as I do yours, but I am a person who goes to the Church first, the Scriture second, and at least in this case…the confessional third.

shalom alekum.
 
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Emad:
God tells us a general rule (that anyone who sincerely repents will be forgiven). However no one really knows for sure if they were forgiven or not. Also how can a priest who can be evil be a representative of God? If you had a business, would you hire bad representatives? Would you hire someone who is on drugs, molests children, and spends his nights with prostitutes?

Why don’t prostestants confess? Don’t they believe in the same Bible? What do they interpret that verse to mean?
How can my husband still be my husband even if he does something wrong? Firstly because I chose him to be my husband, secondly because he also chooses to stay with me, thirdly because I forgive him if he’s sorry for doing something wrong.

Jesus chooses priests, they choose also to at least try to serve him, and he forgives them if they do something wrong. Aren’t your religious leaders still your leaders, and able to do things like marry you even if they’re not perfect (because you KNOW no-one is)?
 
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LilyM:
How can my husband still be my husband even if he does something wrong? Firstly because I chose him to be my husband, secondly because he also chooses to stay with me, thirdly because I forgive him if he’s sorry for doing something wrong.

Jesus chooses priests, they choose also to at least try to serve him, and he forgives them if they do something wrong. Aren’t your religious leaders still your leaders, and able to do things like marry you even if they’re not perfect (because you KNOW no-one is)?
Surely if I find out my religous leader did any major sin regularly, he will no longer be my religous leader. Never would I follow a man who is a drug dealer, sleeps with prostitutes, and steals peoples money. In fact even if he is one of the best Muslims on earth, I still don’t say he is representing God on earth. I am not speaking about priests with minor sins, such as something almost all normal people may do. I am speaking about priests who do things that not even non-religous people will do. Such as steal peoples money, molest children of the same sex, homosexuals etc. Can such a person really be chosen by God? Couldn’t God find someone better?
 
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Emad:
Surely if I find out my religous leader did any major sin regularly, he will no longer be my religous leader. Never would I follow a man who is a drug dealer, sleeps with prostitutes, and steals peoples money. In fact even if he is one of the best Muslims on earth, I still don’t say he is representing God on earth. I am not speaking about priests with minor sins, such as something almost all normal people may do. I am speaking about priests who do things that not even non-religous people will do. Such as steal peoples money, molest children of the same sex, homosexuals etc. Can such a person really be chosen by God? Couldn’t God find someone better?
For us as Christians it’s a central component of our religious thought that our salvation or going to heaven depends much less on anything we do, be it good or bad, than on God’s goodness and mercy.This is shown in God’s ability to use even sinful people to help save others.

We have to believe that God can use sinful people as well, otherwise he can’t use anyone because we’re all sinners, and even minor sin is quite a big offence in God’s eyes. Certainly we’re both cynical and realistic enough not to believe that someone who preaches to us will necessarily live up to everything they say, but everyone who preaches falls short of their preaching.

If a sinner isn’t repentant and isn’t at least trying to overcome their sin, of course we won’t stand for it either (assuming that we know the priest is a bad person), and no sane person would. For example we wouldn’t condone a priest who is not only a pedophile but refuses counselling or is a member of organisations like NAMBLA that promote pedophilia as normal or acceptable.

And of course there are practical considerations - no parent would leave their child alone with someone they know is a pedophile, priest or not, or trust someone they know is a thief with money. But these are only small parts of the job of a priest, and it may be they can perform other functions instead.

Otherwise we try not to presume to know the state of that person’s soul and their relationship with God. Only God knows whether that person is sorry and has confessed and been forgiven, or maybe is doing what they do because of some mental disorder that needs sympathy and treatment and not just condemnation.
 
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Emad:
I never understood confession. What is the point of it? Let’s assume the priest was a child molestor, drug dealer, theif, adulterer, and bisexual. Why should someone confess to him and what power does he have to forgive you? I know not all priests are anything like that, but let’s just assume that the one you confess to is. I would never confess to such a person. Also do you believe that those who don’t confess go to hell? Thus protestants go to hell?
Even if the priest is a child molestor, drug dealer, theif, adulterer, and bisexual he is the representative of Christ. We are all sinners, so we are not confessing to the priest but to God. I guess it is sort of like you Muslims facing east when you pray, you know God would hear your prayer if you were facing west of south or north but you believe He hears them better when you follow your tradition. In order for our sins to be forgiven we not only have to confess them but do the pennance the priest gives us, also the fact that I know I must go tell someone my sins helps keep me from committing some of them in the first place. Just as Muslims believe we can not say who is or is not saved, so we don’t know who is or is not going to Hell.
 
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Emad:
God tells us a general rule (that anyone who sincerely repents will be forgiven). However no one really knows for sure if they were forgiven or not. Also how can a priest who can be evil be a representative of God? If you had a business, would you hire bad representatives? Would you hire someone who is on drugs, molests children, and spends his nights with prostitutes?
Hi Emad -

The Church works in ministry to God. Priests that are defrocked sre no longer in that service. But the Holy Spirit resides in them, therefore it is the Holy Spirit who forgives. But, you are correct, people stop going to priests who are offenders.

Priests who have sinned gravely are removed from service, in one form or another. There are various consequences that occur. It can range from being silenced, where they are unable to speak about a subject…to being defrocked ( I said disrobed earlier. Dumb…it means taking ones clothes off. duh.) Defrocked means decommissioned. Some priests are monasticized, removed from public service in order to contemplate, meditate and reconcile with God. It may take years for this to occur.
Why don’t prostestants confess? Don’t they believe in the same Bible? What do they interpret that verse to mean?
Ah, the Protestant Reformation. Another topic that would take whole pages! For confession, the short answer is - some do, some don’t. Some confess (Anglicans), some don’t (Baptists, Evangelicals) In interperting scripture, Protestant groups are very fond of picking out specific verses to support thier ideals. In doing so, they ignore others. There are thousands of protestant groups, each with thier own take on scripture. I don’t think they have a leg to stand on, personally. The Catholic Church (along with the Orthodox) are the ORIGINAL churches that gathered the scripture together and recognised them as inspired from God. These churches have practiced the same interpretations of scripture since the very beginning. The Orthodox churches practice various forms of confession, as do the Catholics.
Don’t they believe in the same Bible?
As far as the same Bible, the short answer is…you guessed it! YES and NO! A Catholic Priest in the early 1500’s named Martin Luther decided to go his own way and chose to not accept some of the books that all Christians had been using for 1500 years. He removed several books he didn’t agree with and republished the Bible in his own version. From then on, other Protestant groups have restructured the bible to fit thier own views. They have taken liberties because of the transliteration of Greek, the original language. Greek is difficult to translate into other languages. It takes Greek scholars to do so. Some Protestant groups have sent a few of thier followers to a year of Greek studies in order to translate the Bible for themselves. (Jehovah’s Witnesses)

The Orthodox churches still use the same books (mostly) as the Catholics. No Christian groups has ever had 100% agreement on which books are scriptural, even from the very beginning of Christianity. Keep in mind that 2000 years ago there was no mass media and there were several different groups spreading the faith.
 
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Lance:
Even if the priest is a child molestor, drug dealer, theif, adulterer, and bisexual he is the representative of Christ. We are all sinners, so we are not confessing to the priest but to God. I guess it is sort of like you Muslims facing east when you pray, you know God would hear your prayer if you were facing west of south or north but you believe He hears them better when you follow your tradition. In order for our sins to be forgiven we not only have to confess them but do the pennance the priest gives us, also the fact that I know I must go tell someone my sins helps keep me from committing some of them in the first place. Just as Muslims believe we can not say who is or is not saved, so we don’t know who is or is not going to Hell.
Yes I don’t see symbolism as the problem, however people on this thread have said that the priest is God’s representative on earth. Can an evil person be God’s representative on earth? If so why did God choose them and not someone who isn’t evil?
 
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Emad:
Yes I don’t see symbolism as the problem, however people on this thread have said that the priest is God’s representative on earth. Can an evil person be God’s representative on earth? If so why did God choose them and not someone who isn’t evil?
That is not for you and I to decide. It is God’s decision who he calls to do his good work and why. I am sure of two things.
  1. God calls people to be priests for reasons all his own.
  2. The scripture tells us that for our sins to be forgiven, we must confess to the priests that he calls.
When it comes down to it…that is all I need to know.
 
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Emad:
What if the priest is like the one I listed above? Would you really confess to him?
I might not choose him as a spiritual director, but I would confess to him. The personal sins of the priest (and they all sin) do not prevent them from administering the sacrament of reconciliation. Their authority comes from God, not their own holiness.
 
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