I’m not concerned with Augustine…I’m concerned with what YOU say. As someone living in the 21st century who is reading the two texts, how can one reconcile it?
There is no reconciling the two texts. There is not a single “harmonized” narrative that allows you to (1) create agreement between the events in space-time between the two texts and (2) retain the theological emphases of the authors. In insisting that an empirically-satisfying narrative exists between them is intellectually problematic and possibly dishonest.
Actually, I’ll expand it to five texts, including Mark, Matthew, Luke, John, and 1 Corinthians 15:3-7.
Starting with the earliest, 1 Corinthians 15:3-7 includes no mention of women whatsoever. To me, it’s easy to explain why there’s no mention of women here (though harder to explain why it says that Jesus appeared to “the Twelve” after Judas’ betrayal). That text is written in a stylized, rhythmic Greek that almost certainly came from teaching illiterate people the basic tenets of the faith. That text almost certainly originated around 36-37 AD, where Peter taught it to Paul (or perhaps Paul or James translated it into Greek, since Peter spoke Aramaic and possibly not Greek). The message of that “gospel” was that Jesus was risen, and that he had been witnessed by his disciples.
The next-completed version is the Gospel of Mark. The oldest manuscripts end at 16:8, with the women being afraid and not telling anyone. The “longer” endings, including the “official” one and the “Freer Logion”, I’m not sure are original. There are good editorial reasons within Mark that the gospel might end as it does in 16:8. The irony in Mark of the women being silent about Jesus’ resurrection echoes the nameless woman in 14:1-8, whom Jesus says will be remembered wherever the gospel is proclaimed throughout the world. Also, Jesus tells his disciples many times between Mark 8 and Mark 10 that he needed to die and be raised again. So it’s not as though Mark is written as a “mystery” about what is going to happen to Jesus… he keeps telling his disciples about it all throughout. In a way, the ending of Mark at 16:8 actually harmonizes with 1 Corinthians 15 pretty well, because it attests only to the public witnesses of Jesus’ resurrection, who also happen to be men. Another peculiarity of Mark is the “young man” at the tomb, which echoes back to the “young man” in 14:51-52, who the guards tried to capture but ran off naked after the guards seized the “sindon” (burial cloth) he was wearing. I don’t think it’s coincidental that the “young man” shows up in a different garment.
Within the Synoptic tradition, there is Matthew and Luke. Matthew includes a lot of characteristically Jewish writing styles, including the practice of
midrash. Midrash is a means of understanding scriptures by elaborating on the earlier works. It’s present in many of the Rabbinical works of the time, including the
targumim, in which authors paraphrased and elaborated on the sayings and stories of works of the Old Testament. Targumim appear as early as the middle first century AD, so it appears that Matthew’s midrash fits very well into the
practice of Jewish scriptural exegetes of the time. What that means is that when Matthew adds detail to a narrative from Mark (over 95% of the content of which is in Matthew), it’s done for the purpose of theological explanation. For example, Matthew transforms the “young man” in Mark into an angel.
Luke is interesting, because he also includes the Emmaus Road appearance of Jesus to Cleopas and his companion (wife?). This is a notable placement here, because (1) it reflects an appearance outside of the “empty tomb / women / apostles” continuum as suggested in 1 Corinthians 15:3-7 and (2) it reinforces that Christianity is not a political threat to the Roman empire. On that latter point, Luke 24:21 mentions that “we were hoping that he would be the one to redeem Israel,” and their destination implies what they meant by redemption. Emmaus is the battlefield is where Judas Maccabeus won a pivotal battle against the Seleucid army of Antiochus IV about 150 years earlier, and it was a symbol of Jewish military victory over foreign occupation. Rome was the new occupier, and clearly, from all four gospels, Jesus’ followers were armed (e.g., the cutting of the ear of the high priest’s slave in all four gospels). They thought Jesus was going to be the “redeemer” by restoring the temporal Kingdom of David. Even in Acts 1:6, we see the apostles asking Jesus if he is “going to restore the kingdom to Israel.” Consistently, Luke shows how the disciples just didn’t get it!
John’s resurrection account is interesting, because IMHO it is the most intimate and most human of the resurrection accounts.
Given Matthew’s tendency to elaborate on Mark, the most historically-likely explanation is that the stone rolling away in his account is actually midrash, intended to illustrate the theological point that God is the one who raised Jesus. Mark is a pretty dark story all throughout, and Matthew brings a lot more light. To me, the stone was gone.
I doubt this explanation is satisfactory, but it illustrates the difficulty in trying to force harmony between the gospels.