Joan of Arc is a popular response on CA Forum. No doubt the genius of woman is set free within a Catholic context. That may speak volumes not only about state power in relationship to the nature of The Church and The Magesterium but on the nature of communication from a male or female origin more generally.
Yes, we need to reflect and hear the Word in our lives, in every aspect of our lives. Still living as if God does not exist in action, taking on every task as if we are wholly responsible is rational. If, that is, we pray about each matter, we speak with God knowing His Providence is complete. Praying as if our actions were completely ineffective which in relation to Holiness, to faith and ardent obedience, in what our efforts have nil effect.
Perhaps ponder why God answered our prayer in such a way as we perceive it. Consider your perception as the possible flaw in understanding. Rely upon the saints, thereto acting as if they had no effect for our actions, while praying for them to intercede with Christ whole heartedly, they will.
Consider what call to service God may be presenting with the answer to prayer that seems unfair or unreconcilable with a God of pure love. Consider that some even believe such horrific acts as abortion to be consistent with God’s plan. Surely our ways are not His ways. Is there a false understanding God wants to remove for you to come closer to Him?
God is getting nearer. Open your hand, let go of what holds you back. He is the true King who should be crowned with glory. Let Him love you and let go, let God.