I am too. I have discussed with atheists over the last few years, and discovered that despite their self-proclaimed ‘rationality’ a rational discussion is mostly impossible, even though there are exceptions. Then I came to this board, and had hoped that Catholics would be open to reason, but I have discovered that they are mostly – not always – just as impenetrable to reason as the atheists that I had despaired on. I have pretty much given up, my frequency of posting has dropped dramatically for at least two weeks now. And I feel so much better and more balanced. I can now concentrate with much more ease on other important things in life.
The crux of the matter is apparently, usually people do not change their mind. However, the ability and openness to change one’s mind is a prerequsite to be open to reason. I have changed my mind a few times in life, and I have questioned my curent convictions many times, before I settled for accepting that they are probably right – while in the back of my mind there is the awareness that I may be wrong after all, even though at this point I don’t assume the likelihood for that to be high.
I agree with all of that. People are constantly willing to engage in the most absurd contortionist mental gymnastics only to avoid the reasonable conclusion. The general lack of training in philosophical thinking does not help either, which you probably are painfully aware of, given your obvious solid philosophical background.