Dealing with a passive aggressive person

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14 more days left. I am afraid this situation will get more toxic. I will buy the dish-soap by 3 days, she has conveniently used it all. She is intentionally wasting the dish-soap and using my hand washcloth to clean the floor. I just use it to dry my hands. I will hang it up, by the morning, my clean green washcloth is mostly black and on the kitchen floor. I recently had a friend over, she had no problem insulting me in front of him, saying my bedroom smells like sugar honey iced tea. She intentionally a cup I left in the sink. No apology either. I am afraid the situation will just get worse. My mother says just ignore her 14 more days.
 
I would take all of your things and keep them in your room. Let her get her own soap. Keep your towel in your room. Pack up anything you can in anticipation of leaving. Use paper plates and cups.

Anything to get through the next two weeks.
 
Irishmom2 said:
I would take all of your things and keep them in your room. Let her get her own soap. Keep your towel in your room. Pack up anything you can in anticipation of leaving. Use paper plates and cups.

Anything to get through the next two weeks.
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Smart thinking. Thanks.
 
I recently invited my other friend over, out of nowhere, she was like “what b****?” Again, insulting me in front of my guest/friend.Please PRAY FOR ME. I am not kidding. This situation seems to be escalating.
 
She is just making herself look worse to your friends.

Just keep your cool and ignore her comments. It won’t be long now. Continue to pack up your things and get ready to move.

Make sure that when you leave, you have the landlord/ management do a walk through with you to see the apartment conditions. Take pics of your room when it is empty, as you need to document the conditions in case she trashes your room after you leave. (Yeah, I watch Judge Judy;) ) You will have already had the landlord see your space.
 
Irishmom2 said:
She is just making herself look worse to your friends.

Just keep your cool and ignore her comments. It won’t be long now. Continue to pack up your things and get ready to move.

Make sure that when you leave, you have the landlord/ management do a walk through with you to see the apartment conditions. Take pics of your room when it is empty, as you need to document the conditions in case she trashes your room after you leave. (Yeah, I watch Judge Judy;) ) You will have already had the landlord see your space.
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Ok. Alright. Thank You.
 
What an awful situation. She sounds mentally unbalanced to me.

I agree with the poster who said to keep all your belongings in your room. Assuming she either respects your privacy or you have a door that locks with a key.

At this point you’d be totally justified in just leaving, if you have somewhere to go. I’d start packing, anyway, and move anything you value to a safer location.

Keep praying, and I’ll be praying for you. And her for that matter- sounds like she needs prayers as well.
 
AKDee said:
What an awful situation. She sounds mentally unbalanced to me.

I agree with the poster who said to keep all your belongings in your room. Assuming she either respects your privacy or you have a door that locks with a key.

At this point you’d be totally justified in just leaving, if you have somewhere to go. I’d start packing, anyway, and move anything you value to a safer location.

Keep praying, and I’ll be praying for you. And her for that matter- sounds like she needs prayers as well.
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I am moving as soon as possible. She started threatening. I really do not know what I did to this girl.
 
CRATUS said:
I am moving as soon as possible. She started threatening. I really do not know what I did to this girl.
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Depending on the threats, you may have to involve law enforcement. Something is seriously wrong with her. It sounds like the closer you come to moving out, the more unhinged she is becoming. Continued prayers.
 
AKDee said:
Depending on the threats, you may have to involve law enforcement. Something is seriously wrong with her. It sounds like the closer you come to moving out, the more unhinged she is becoming. Continued prayers.
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Yes. Yes. I spoke with a counselor about her behavior. I will pray for us. I do not even know anymore.
 
CRATUS said:
I am moving as soon as possible. She started threatening. I really do not know what I did to this girl.
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Cratus, you need to go now. What is keeping you there? Is it that you are not able to move into your new place until July 1? Can you just get your things into your car and move to a friends or home to your parents until then? This is not a good situation for you. You have tried to stick it out and stay away and still the problem persists.

Prayers offered for you. I hope you can just get out now for the sake of your sanity.

P.S. Dont spend another minute wondering what her problem is. It is not logical and really, at this point, it doesnt even matter what she thinks. I wish you the best.
 
Irishmom2 said:
Cratus, you need to go now. What is keeping you there? Is it that you are not able to move into your new place until July 1? Can you just get your things into your car and move to a friends or home to your parents until then? This is not a good situation for you. You have tried to stick it out and stay away and still the problem persists.

Prayers offered for you. I hope you can just get out now for the sake of your sanity.

P.S. Dont spend another minute wondering what her problem is. It is not logical and really, at this point, it doesnt even matter what she thinks. I wish you the best.
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I agree with this. It sounds like you have family and other friends- surely someone will take you in for a couple of weeks? I am starting to get concerned for your safety. And it’s just not a good place for you right now. See if you can get someone to come over and help you move your stuff, even if it’s to a temporary storage facility, and go.
 
AKDee said:
It sounds like you have family and other friends- surely someone will take you in for a couple of weeks? I am starting to get concerned for your safety. And it’s just not a good place for you right now. See if you can get someone to come over and help you move your stuff, even if it’s to a temporary storage facility, and go.
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I agree.
 
AKDee said:
I agree with this. It sounds like you have family and other friends- surely someone will take you in for a couple of weeks? I am starting to get concerned for your safety. And it’s just not a good place for you right now. See if you can get someone to come over and help you move your stuff, even if it’s to a temporary storage facility, and go.
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Move as soon as you can, even if it means staying on someone’s sofa for a few nights. You need to put your safety first.

Lou
 
Hopefully one of my friends will help me move out today. I am MILES away from home. I will book the next flight and fly home as soon as possible.
 
CRATUS said:
Hopefully one of my friends will help me move out today. I am MILES away from home. I will book the next flight and fly home as soon as possible.
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I hope this can happen for you. I too, will keep you in my prayers. Please keep us posted!
 
Hopefully this thread stays up. This is the only I have a written account of her behavior. I hope it does not go legal. God be with me. Things are thankfully good
 
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