Most heterosexuals do this all the time. They
Yes the world does try to squeeze everyone into it’s mold, and define ourselves by something other than what God intends for us. But it is more problematic for LBGTQ persons because heterosexuals do not need to think about their sexuality. They are immersed in a culture that is dominant and centered around them. Those who are not heterosexual are forced to face the fact that they do not fit into the majority, and thus, must grapple with questions of identity that heterosexuals do not.
How many threads do we have on here about the role of a woman as mother, or the father as head of the family.
A lot, but I don’t see what this has to do with sexual orientation.
How many discussions are there about how men and women are equal yet different?
Plenty, but I don’t see what this has to do with sexual orientation either. Gender is about societal/cultural norms and expectations.
That is because straight people tend to assume all people are straight.
Exactly! This is one reason non-heterosexual persons have struggles that heteros do not! They are already in a minority, already a victim of assumptions.
Can you imaging going through life like that as a gay person? Having to constantly let people know the discussion is going down an irrelevant path because they are gay?
No need for that. Why would it be necessary to let people know that? But I do take your point. It is much more frustrating to live in a culture where one is always opposite the “norm”.
If I say that I like mafia movies, am I making others view me through just that lens?
Not at all. But then, you don’t put this forward as the main lens through which you identify yourself or through which others should identify you. Although, I have to say that there are some Star Trek fans who may be in this state.
The fact is that people stereotype people who call themselves “gay”. That’s the problem of the people doing the stereotyping, not the people who use the word.
I think it is both. The victims of stereotyping suffer as much or more than the perpetrators.
Is it wise, spiritually, to use the word? That’s an important question for the individual to answer.
Yes. And since this is not part of the teaching of Christ, one should use great caution.