Defining your sexuality

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Vico:
I mean the homosexual criterion of attraction of “exclusive or predominant” covers bisexual attraction where opposite sex is not predominant.
I would have thought that a person who calls a bisexual person “homosexual” just doesn’t understand the meaning of the words. 😶
Do you understand what the Catechism is stating about relations, because that is what I am communicating to you.
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2357 Homosexuality refers to relations between men or between women who experience an exclusive or predominant sexual attraction toward persons of the same sex.
 
You might want to close the thread before this turns into a fight. Perhaps the ones with conflicting views can create a different thread if they wish to sort out their disagreements.
 
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Do you understand what the Catechism is stating about relations, because that is what I am communicating to you.
OK, cool – yes, the CCC’s definition of “homosexuality” as “relations” goes directly against common usage. But if we define it that way, then, yes, anyone who actively has sex with the same sex is “acting as a homosexual”. But to use the word as an adjective to describe them is a bridge too far.

The Church is translating a Latin word into English, and it doesn’t work well.
 
Creating a new thread would be more appropriate then potentially derailing a thread.
 
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Perhaps for some. For many “pride” in this sense is more about acceptance, a lack of shame. The LGBT+ movement has helped friends of mine who were close to destroying themselves.
 
It’s all about pride but pride is probably the greatest sin.
This is very important to say. There is a lot of pride – even demonic pride, perhaps – in some individuals pushing for homosexual activity to become as central to our society as marriage and family. But we shouldn’t allow that fact to obscure the many innocent people who just experience attractions, and naturally use the words to describe these attractions that are used in dictionaries.
 
For many “pride” in this sense is more about acceptance, a lack of shame. The LGBT+ movement has helped friends of mine who were close to destroying themselves.
Yes, and this is because the Church offers such young people little or no help. It is an awful reality that the LGBT movement shows more kindness to these children than we do in the Church!
 
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The LGBTQ movement is destroying people
I work in a liberal environment and what I see is that the LGBTQ movement has made the workplace more accepting of everyone, not just LGBTQ. It has raised awareness about prejudices that people didn’t even know they had. It has made our workplace stronger. It keeps us on our toes about the way we treat each other and what we presume about eachother not just based on sexuality, but also on appearance, and religion, and a multitude of other things. I think it is a good thing. It lets people be who they are at their core instead of trying to hide everything around it. I think it will take a full generation of adjusting to this relatively new concept, but I still see it as a good thing. There are a lot of growing pains, to be sure.
 
I work in a liberal environment and what I see is that the LGBTQ movement has made the workplace more accepting of everyone, not just LGBTQ.
Really? I think there’s some of this, but there is also the fact that anyone who opposes liberal orthodoxies has to be afraid of being called a bigot or a hater.

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Is it too much to ask to create a new thread for this debate? It is not that difficult. You can even put a link so the OP can check if she is interested
 
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Really? I think there’s some of this, but there is also the fact that anyone who opposes liberal orthodoxies has to be afraid of being called a bigot or a hater.

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Well, if they feel that someone who is LGBTQ shouldn’t have the same (ETA added to clarify: for the purpose of this discussion, referring to WORKPLACE opportunities) opportunities as straight people, then that does kind of make them a bigot and hater, doesn’t it?

Maybe I am just lucky. Because my environment is liberal, we don’t have a lot of people running around calling each other names like bigot and hater.
 
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This is a tough topic for many. I know that being a homosexual person is not just about sex. I have struggled, been a member of Courage. I know that for myself, loathing that part of me caused depression. As I have come to know and love God and accept myself more, things are better. I am not indulging in carnal desires just trying to be happy. I am pretty sure God still loves me.
 
I guess if you like the advice you are getting you don’t have too.
 
Well, if they feel that someone who is LGBTQ shouldn’t have the same opportunities as straight people, then that does kind of make them a bigot and hater, doesn’t it?
No, not at all. I don’t think blind people should have all the same opportunities as seeing people (e.g. driving), but I’m not a hater of blind people.
Maybe I am just lucky. Because my environment is liberal, we don’t have a lot of people running around calling each other names like bigot and hater.
You don’t know who is biting their tongue. I work entirely among liberals, and I bite my tongue far too much.
 
Most heterosexuals do this all the time. They
Yes the world does try to squeeze everyone into it’s mold, and define ourselves by something other than what God intends for us. But it is more problematic for LBGTQ persons because heterosexuals do not need to think about their sexuality. They are immersed in a culture that is dominant and centered around them. Those who are not heterosexual are forced to face the fact that they do not fit into the majority, and thus, must grapple with questions of identity that heterosexuals do not.
How many threads do we have on here about the role of a woman as mother, or the father as head of the family.
A lot, but I don’t see what this has to do with sexual orientation.
How many discussions are there about how men and women are equal yet different?
Plenty, but I don’t see what this has to do with sexual orientation either. Gender is about societal/cultural norms and expectations.
That is because straight people tend to assume all people are straight.
Exactly! This is one reason non-heterosexual persons have struggles that heteros do not! They are already in a minority, already a victim of assumptions.
Can you imaging going through life like that as a gay person? Having to constantly let people know the discussion is going down an irrelevant path because they are gay?
No need for that. Why would it be necessary to let people know that? But I do take your point. It is much more frustrating to live in a culture where one is always opposite the “norm”.
If I say that I like mafia movies, am I making others view me through just that lens?
Not at all. But then, you don’t put this forward as the main lens through which you identify yourself or through which others should identify you. Although, I have to say that there are some Star Trek fans who may be in this state.
The fact is that people stereotype people who call themselves “gay”. That’s the problem of the people doing the stereotyping, not the people who use the word.
I think it is both. The victims of stereotyping suffer as much or more than the perpetrators.
Is it wise, spiritually, to use the word? That’s an important question for the individual to answer.
Yes. And since this is not part of the teaching of Christ, one should use great caution.
 
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QwertyGirl:
I work in a liberal environment and what I see is that the LGBTQ movement has made the workplace more accepting of everyone, not just LGBTQ.
Really? I think there’s some of this, but there is also the fact that anyone who opposes liberal orthodoxies has to be afraid of being called a bigot or a hater.

BAD! 🤣
We have several people at my work who oppose “liberal ideas”; they actively believe one of my colleagues shouldn’t be allowed to marry her partner, believe another is an abomination because she was assigned a different sex at birth, and believe most of us are deviants. They’ve never been called haters. Our group largely just seem disappointed that they’re so caught up in wanting other folks not to have the same rights as them. They don’t seem like happy people.
 
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