Your entire post is a very good take on demonic infestation. I would say that parts are enlightening. Thanks for posting.
I think that you are correct in the progression from infestation to oppression/obsession. This progression is hard to pin down. It lacks concreteness. The victim might end up with many different kinds of struggles but cannot assign a diabolic cause.
Often times an infestation pushes a person to a closer relationship with God and the Church. I am wondering why a demon will take a chance at sending someone towards Christ??? He can remain subtle and cause chaos and temptations. Instead, he chooses to manifest in obvious ways.
My current best thoughts are that the demons cannot help themselves. They are egotistical and prideful things. I think that they are having fun. They are sometimes known to demonstrate a sense of humor, albeit sarcastic and blasphemous. It is also an outward way for them to control a person. A simple example is, if they make an object disappear, they cause the person to look for it. They can also promote a sense of wonderment or astonishment in their prey, thereby making themselves seem powerful.
The demons will hide itself as long as possible for their greatest trick in the world is to make people believe they do not exist. They do not want to manifest themselves. Instead, they are weakened by the person’s prayers and faithful life that they have obliged to manifest itself. This applies only to people who are already possess and do not know it until the demon manifests itself which is often the case. I’m not saying you shouldn’t improve on your spiritual life. In fact you should because getting rid of the demon’s influence will set you free.
In fact the weaker a person’s spiritual life is to sin the stronger the demon is and is able to hide itself within the person. Contrarily, the stronger a person’s spiritual life is the weaker the demon and eventually cannot “hide” itself as will manifest itself. There are a few exceptions however.
Think of it this way, the demon will never want to manifest itself or make the person aware of their existence because it will lead to their exorcism. The process of exorcising a demon out of a person hurts so much for them that they would rather “go to hell” than suffer this exorcism says Fr. Gabriele Amorth. They will within all their strength to remain in that person’s body but the process of unlatching, or exorcising the demon, hurts them so much that they pretty much submit to this rather than suffering this humility.
If it can get away with manifesting itself and have the person still remain in sin it will do so accordingly. Man is made in the image and likeness of God and they will inflict as much pain within their rights. If it wasn’t for God’s protection through our Guardian Angels, we’d be all dead.
The demon is like a corrupt lawyer seeking to find every opportunity to persecute a human being (see Book of Job). God made some rules and regulations that the demon is obliged to comply with. Demons are obsessed to work with rules and regulations and are allowed certain manifestations and power over man if they are in a certain state of sin or declaration.
It becomes really “unfair” (which demons are) that a person can just play with occult mediums without their full knowledge that they are committing a sin and then the demon says “Oh, see that God? He disobeyed the laws. I have a right to oppress and possess him now.”
The demons cannot help themselves indeed. With every opportunity to cause damage to man they will take. Remember that God is love and that Satan is the complete opposite (not equal) of that since he is so far from God. It’s important to mention that God and Satan aren’t even close to equals, it’s not a good vs evil thing. God is a lot more powerful and there are more angels in heaven than in hell (3:1).
Satan and his (fallen) angels are fueled with the hate for God and that’s how what their hierarchy is based on. Think of it as energy levels that makes up their whole spiritual nature. With God being pure love, like a candlelight of fire while the demons are without that fire of love being completely cold and hateful.
Literally if you aren’t in God’s graces you will be full of hate and anguish. People in hell as mentioned from the visionaries of Medjugorje and among a couple of other visionaries who describe hell as a state with complete hate for God. People will burn and suffocate with intense feeling for eternity while cursing and blaspheming God’s name.