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And thumbs up to you kitty. U2 rocks my world!
And thumbs up to you kitty. U2 rocks my world!
Yes.Is there a Church source for this? Tim
I think it depends on what kind of self mutilation your talking about. If someone has a cutting problem, like I did for years, I donāt consider it a sin. I was going through a hard time, and I didnāt know what to do with my hurt and anger, so I cutt myself. It was a medical problem, so it cannot be considered a sin.Yes.
Refer to this link
web.archive.org/web/20020305105633/www.catholicparents.org/oxcart/examination.html
and under #5 of mortal sin, are listed
and under #8 in the venial sins/imperfections section is
- Self mutilation
- Excessive tattoos
- Complaining, whining or attention seeking.
You should try P.O.D. They rock! I listen to a local radio station called āthe effectā and they play christian alternative. I loves it, although itās protestant, so you kind of have to tune out the sermonette breaks LOLAnyone that is into the music here (early era Cure-type, goth/alternative type, you knowā¦) have any Christian music they can recommend?
Iād like to support these artists, but most of the Christian music I sample sounds very country or rock-close-to-the-border-of-country. Any Christian music that could be like āshoe-gazerā Christian?![]()
I do not think the way we dress is ALWAYS for attention or a 'message" to others,regardless if one classifies it Punk, Conservative,etc. IT can be simply that we have found our own personal style and like it. Sure, many times Punk is to give an impression of rebel,etc. And āYuppieā dressing for the impression I am well to do and together. But it can be that it is just what one likes. I think the moral issue is only about making sure one is not provacative. You can debate forever on the right and wrong of dressā¦but culturaly over the centuries humans have dressed very differently and accepted oddities too. SO, once again I think it is oneās intention and morality that is way more important then the ālookā, If we all were the same that would be boring. And a thought that just came to meā¦St.Francis and John the Baptist and alike all were dressed weird in their times!Fascinating thread! IMO, people who are so clothes conscious are not out to impress God. I doubt he is impressed by fishnets, fingenail polish, studs or piercings, designer jeans or stiletto heels. I might suggest you try to figure out exactly who you are trying to impress by challenging you to one day go out in really simple clothes, just enough to be modest and keep you warm, and āsensibleā shoes to top off the outfit. Study your feelings and maybe you will begin to understand yourself. Why are you putting all this time, effort, and money into - WHAT? Perhaps you could put your time and resources to better use?
In the final analysis what we all seek is someone who will accept and love us without our masks and costumes, with our bare faces hanging out, just are we are. Thatās how God loves us and, if we are not afraid to be unadorned we might be fortunate enough to find a human who will love us that way, too.
So, adorn your soul, put on the armor of God, etc., etc. God loves you and so do I.
God isnāt impressed by a sharp suit or the traditional Sunday finest either, considering how many saints and prophets dressed in rags ā so why not have some fun with fashion?Fascinating thread! IMO, people who are so clothes conscious are not out to impress God. I doubt he is impressed by fishnets, fingenail polish, studs or piercings, designer jeans or stiletto heels.
I know Iāll get tired of it one day, maybe sooner than later. In a few years time Iāll hopefully be wearing scrubbs most of the time (I want to be a doctor). Iām the kind of person that i donāt go by only one style. I like my punk look, but that doesnāt stop me from wearing what my mom calls my hippie look every now and then. I donāt let society tell me how I should look or dress. If i followed society Iād most likely look like a street walker, like most girls my age do.I wouldnāt worry too much. If you are practising your faith, then it sounds mostly harmless.
Besides, statistically speaking, you are going to out grow your Goth-like interests as you get older anyway.
Itās nice to see others I can relate to on this site.Gah, I think you were my twin in a former life.What kinda doc do you want to be? Iām gonna be a pediatricion myself, and iād like to look into neonatology
Not to meItās nice to see others I can relate to on this site.
Iām not sure what kind of doctor I want to be yet. I know I want to work with children and I also want to do missionary work part of the time.
Iāve had multiple health issues sinse birth, so hospitals are like a second home to me. It freaks alot of people out when i say this, but i actually like hospitals. Very strange I know.