Hi everybody,
Sorry for being late to the party. We’re experiencing seasonal storms here right now, so my internet connection is not terribly reliable and has been down for the past five hours or so.
First, I feel a need to remind everyone that it was Kouyate42 who brought up the hurt feelings of Muslims in response to another poster’s mention of the current case in Pakistan with the mentally handicapped girl who might be murdered under that country’s blasphemy laws. My subsequent posts were meant to expand upon that idea and why I find it particularly heinous, not to demonize Muslims because they are Muslims or anything like that (indeed, Christians have strong feelings about similar topics, too, but as I wrote to Bakmoon, they are not a good guide, either). Perhaps this seems off topic because it’s not strict apologetics, but it can be relevant to the context and quality of our discussions (as it is hard to have good conversation if you cannot be honest for fear of inflaming your interlocutor’s sensibilities, which may be shaped by a cultural environment in which honest criticism of Islam, the Qur’an, or certain segments of the Muslim community are unthinkable or unacceptable, especially from a non-believer).
If our friend AdamPeter were to pick up the book I recommended, he would see that since the very beginning of Islam we have been engaging with Muslims on the issues he has asked about. There have been no breakthroughs on a consistent basis, and any success on the individual level is not generalizable. So we have stereotypes of and ready made answers for one another’s arguments, without getting at the real underlying issues that make us want understanding in the first place. It’s not for its own sake, after all, but for the conversion of the other, or at the very least, a cessation of perceived or actual hostilities which are, again, rooted in different ideas of how to serve God.
To look at it otherwise, we’d have to adopt the Muslim mindset whereby the Book take the place of the Word. This is why dialogue is fruitless unless it proceeds from that fundamental difference in understanding – that we are not dealing with principles/abstract properties of God (on which we might in a great many individual aspects agree: God is one, merciful, etc.), but with GOD Himself. Jesus Christ is God Himself, but of course to a Muslim, that is the height of blasphemy. Fine; so be it. But then don’t tell me that I should stick “engaging Muslim ideas” when it’s our different ideas in the first place that make dialogue basically impossible.
With that out of the way, regarding the OP, as Bakmoon has requested that we stick only to that, I will put it like this:
The only way to engage Muslims in any sort of worthwhile dialogue is to affirm the truth of your own faith, not over or against what they themselves believe, but as something operating outside of the bounds of Islamic theology and epistemology. Every single Muslim I have ever known who has come to embrace Christianity (and they are not many, sadly) has done so not by trying to reach it by reasoning from what Islam says (which is, of course, not possible, as the two religions make mutually exclusive claims), but by coming to see Christianity as true on its own merits. That we have the true God that they do not have. Put simply, you can’t get to Christianity from Islam as Islam is not merely Christianity with a few essential points disclaimed that you, the apologist, then have to prove. It requires a transfiguration of the mind of the believer that you will not get from all the Trinitarian analogies in the world. No amount of clovers will budge a man who is committed to “lam yalid wa lam yulad”.
In my experience, it is best to answer their questions when they have them, with gentleness and sure knowledge and confidence in your own faith, but not to introduce anything on your own accord. A Muslim (Hindu, Pagan, whatever) who is ready to listen to the Holy Spirit confirm the truth of Christ will have plenty of questions that can be answered in due time. You can your part by encouraging what is encouragible (“oh, you read the Bible? How did you find it?”), but anything more than that is hazardous. A potential convert is a potential burn out, one discussion removed. We have had several here on CAF that flirted with Christianity, saw that it didn’t make “sense” as Islam does (to which I say thank God), and so went back to Islam. Realistically, they were not ours to convert in the first place, as they had not been open to the Spirit who does the real work of changing a man.
Getting together simply for comparative religion discussions is something else, and in that case I really don’t even understand the point. It might be fun or interesting in an academic way, but doesn’t seem like it would require any kind of deep commitment or produce any good fruits.