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So, using the Word of the Lord (the Bible), which cannot be wrong, & comparing it to church tradition (which ‘can’ be wrong), the most correct understanding of Jesus’ ‘brothers & sisters’ in Matthew 13:54-57 is that they were his LITERAL half-brothers & sisters. Therefore, Joseph kept Mary a virgin UNTIL she gave birth to Jesus (Matthew 1:24-25), & then had at least 6 children together (4 sons & at least 2 ‘unnamed’ daughters).
Hi BornAgainRN,
In Semetic usage the terms “brother” and “sister” are applied not only to children of the same parents but to nephews, nieces, cousins, half-brothers, and half-sisters. (cf Gn 14:16; 29:15; Lv 10:4) While one cannot suppose that the meaning of a Greek word should be sought in the first place from Semitic usage, the Septuagint often translates the Hebrew ‘ah by the Greek word adelphos, “brother”, as in the cited passages. For ex. there is no doubt that in Mk 6:17 “brother” is used of Philip, who was actually the half-brother of Herod Antipas.
Brothers of the Lord: Persons who formed part of Jesus’ entourage. Among them are James, Joseph, Jude and Simon. They are “relatives” of Jesus. For Greek-speaking Semites used the terms adelphos and adelphe not only in the ordinary sense of blood brother and sister but also for close relatives as stated above. (Notes from NAB).
I have studied and read the Bible as well and here is what I have “found”:
James (the Less) and Joses/Joseph are the sons of Mary, the “sister” of Holy mother Mary. This is a relative of Mary’s, not a sister by the same parent. (i.e. a cousin, or aunt). This “Mary” is wed to Clopas. see John 19:25, Lk 24:10, Mk 15:47, Mk 16:1, Matt 27:55,56
Salome and Zebedee are the parents of James and John. These are the “***Sons of ***Thunder”. This John is the Aposte “whom Jesus loved” and gave His mother Mary into John’s care. SALOME is traditionally recognized as the mother of James and John – (The “Sons of Thunder” – Mk 3:17) and would thus be the wife of Zebedee. Compare Matt 27:55, 56 and Mk 15:40
There is another Mary in the N.T. who is the mother of John Mark.
Acts 12:12 RSVA
When he realized this, he went to the house of Mary, the mother of John whose other name was Mark, where many were gathered together and were praying. This is, if I recall correctly, the Mark who was the scribe of Peter (for the Gospel of Mark). . This Mark was a cousin – ie: “brother” in the Aramaic language-- of Barnabas: Col 4:10, and accompanied Barnabas and Paul on a missionary journey. See Acts 12:25; 13:3; 15:36-39)
Holy mother Mary’s sister MARY, mother of JAMES (the less) and JOSEPH (also spelled JOSES)
There is more than one name given to the same person in the Bible in many instances.
Simon = Peter.
Saul = Paul.
Joseph = Joses.
Matthew = Levi
Clopas/Cleopas = Alphaeus, which is the Aramaic rendering of the Greek name Clopas) Acts 1:13
James is also called “the younger James” (Mk 15:40) or “James the Less”. This James became the leader of the Church in Jerusalem. Also called the “brother of Jesus” – Matt 13:55. (Acts 12:17; see Acts chapters 15 and 21). Mary is the wife of Clopas/Cleopas. (Jn 19:25)
MARY OF MAGDALA/MAGDALENE was healed by Jesus, from whom seven demons were cast out. (Lk 8:2). She is often erroneously depicted as a prostitute and shown as such in most movies. Nowhere in the Bible, or in Church tradition has she been mentioned as such.
SALOME is traditionally recognized as the mother of James and John – (The “Sons of Thunder” – Mk 3:17) and would thus be the wife of Zebedee. Compare Matt 27:55, 56 and Mk 15:40
So, there it is straight from Scripture.
No actual brothers and sisters of Jesus born of Mary. Mary remained ever Virgin.
P.S. NOTE: If, indeed, Mary had other sons, by “Law”, those sons would have been required to care for their mother, Mary. If they didn’t they would have been ostracized by the community and the High Priests and forbidden Temple rites. Since, by traditional teachings, Mary remained a virgin, and Jesus was her only child, she had no other children of her own to care for her. Thus, Jesus, with His dying breath, ensured His mother would be cared for by John, the son of Zebedee and Salome. - Jn 19:26, 27