Difficulties with Baptists.

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It’s no different. There are murderers in the CC. Such as Father Lavigne in Springfield Mass or Father Gerald Robinson or a multitude of others catholic murderers. I stand by what I said to bring up this violence is disengenous. I can show were Catholics have murdered others. People who are given to sin permiate all walks of life. ITs a bad premise to debate on.
What is it that you don’t understand? There have been many murders in the Protestant churches, do you even know this? I do not want to discuss this further.
 
What is it that you don’t understand? There have been many murders in the Protestant churches, do you even know this? I do not want to discuss this further.
You don’t want to discuss this because you know I’m right. There are many murders in Catholic churches. What don’t you understand? There certainly enough to go around. It’s just not a good argument that since there’s murders in Protestant churches there is assumed some sence of inadequacy of truth. The same could be said of Catholic churches. Whether sinful people unbalanced by their sin commit crimes is not an indicator of truth but a revelation into the condition of man and the sin that permeates him.
 
After reading through this thread I now understand why some of you have difficulties with Baptists. And my guess it is not just Baptists you have diffuculties with.
Jon:
That seems like a loaded statement. Please elaborate.
 
I certainly agree that my opinion of Purgatory fortified a certain point i was trying to make but was innacurate. However if you are purifying yourself from your sins in purgatory, is God’s power and mercy not apparent during that time? Therefore it can be seen as a reminder of his everlasting presence, mercy and power. But from what i now understand, this is only givin the fact that you already accept him and glorify him during you life on earth correct? otherwise you would skip purgatory and go straight to “hell”. correct?

This Baptist girl was actually my girlfriend of One and a half years. I was not personally shunned but had read stories and talked to people who claim they felt they had been. It never got too terribly bad between us although we did have our occasional arguments. But any type of defense of the Catholic faith or any mention of an apologetic topic would be immediately shot down and i would be ordered to end the conversation or else i would be asked to leave… so yea. that always broke my heart and made me feel really down… Instead of an explanation of my faith, they saw it as an attack against theirs and i came to my own conclusion that perhaps “closed-mindness” and ignorance may be playing a role. but who knows. thats why i brought up the topic here. I dont want to judge too harshly or quickly.
 
EDIT: I wouldnt necessarily say i was heart broken. but definitely upset at the apparent inability to openly listen to my opinion. whereas it would of been extremely rude for me to interrupt them when they were speaking ( my GF, her parents or friends or whoever) and they would of been very upset with me, no doubt about that, which is why i listened intently. however as soon as i mention anything catholic, they inform me its time to end the conversation. Believe me i know all Baptists are not like this, no need to elaborate on that point. perhaps even most Baptists are not this way, but this is the experience I personally had.
 
I am a former baptist and the main reasons I left that community was very simple:

They do not believe in “Infant Baptism” that contradicts Truth,

They do not believe in any form of sacramental system,

They do not accept the Nicene Creed of 325,

They do not accept the Authority role of the “Apostolic Church”,

The Crucifix is a folly to them as St Paul stated,

They do not accept the true and complete Holy Bible,

They allow divorce and re-marriage by the same pastor that married them the first time, and many of the pastors are divorced and remarried themselves.

I could go on and on. The assembly is not at fault and we must pray for their calling into the True Church. It is the semenaries the pastors recieve their doctrine from and the pastors that lead their communities.

In the early Church they were called heretics!
 
Others have made this point and it bears repeating. There is no standard set of beliefs required to call oneself a Baptist. I was raised in a Baptist church in a town that had more than a few churches that were nominally of the same denomination. We often heard remarks that some church nearby was wrong because they believed X while we believed Y. They, I would think, thought the same way about us.

It was not unusual and is not to this day to see Baptist churches on the same block as another in my home town. If they shared identical beliefs, it would seem they were spreading themselves pretty thin without a lot to show for it.

All seemed to share once saved always saved theology. There are differences in the need for baptism and when it should be done, how often to have communion, whether the divorced could remarry, who could be deacons, if alcohol use could be tolerated at all, if dancing was a sin, if there is predestination and so on. There were regular church splits that led to new congregations and many hurt feelings.
 
Others have made this point and it bears repeating. There is no standard set of beliefs required to call oneself a Baptist. I was raised in a Baptist church in a town that had more than a few churches that were nominally of the same denomination. We often heard remarks that some church nearby was wrong because they believed X while we believed Y. They, I would think, thought the same way about us.

It was not unusual and is not to this day to see Baptist churches on the same block as another in my home town. If they shared identical beliefs, it would seem they were spreading themselves pretty thin without a lot to show for it.

All seemed to share once saved always saved theology. There are differences in the need for baptism and when it should be done, how often to have communion, whether the divorced could remarry, who could be deacons, if alcohol use could be tolerated at all, if dancing was a sin, if there is predestination and so on. There were regular church splits that led to new congregations and many hurt feelings.
Protestants’ lack of a teaching authority (Catholics have the Magisterium) results to different and oftentimes conflicting doctrinal teachings. This should be a big concern for their followers and apparently it is. Having about 30,000 different Protestant denominations could not be a good source to find Truth. We as Catholics are called to engage them in an ecumenical dialogue following what Jesus himself said in John. 17: 20-22 "I pray not only for them, but also for those who will believe in me through their word, so that they may all be one, as you, Father, are in me and I in you, that they also may be in us, that the world may believe that you sent me. And I have given them the glory you gave me, so that they may be one, as we are one.”🙂
God bless.
 
Why are the opinions of our ultimate destiny after death so varied? I recently had a relationship with a Baptist girl and from what i’ve learned they believe that the Heaven and Hell argument is very cut and dry and that there is a thin line seperating the two. Why? They believe you either except the Bible as the only source of truth and accept Jesus Christ as you only ultimate savior or you will suffer an eternal death. That doing anything at all outside of that will guarantee you an eternal death and suffering. They believe there is no other way. Well there are too many people out there that have not had the opportunity to know Christ and there is just an enormouse percentage of people who have no relationship with Christ for a huge variety of reasons that are not necessarily selfish or negative and according to what honestly seems like most baptists i come across, these people are doomed. Us Catholics believe in purgatory which I personally see as an opportunity to accept God even after death. I believe that God will present himself to us in this life or the next but that he ultimately will not just give up on and shun you into hell because you failed accept certain things throughout your life on Earth. I dont understand why people see the need to just openly shun non-believers or those who are having problems with faith. The closed-mindness makes me so angry its almost intolerable.
I have the same problem with Catholics.
 
One thing I’ve learned from Baptists. What I believe and do as a Catholic is wrong. It just is. Because I’m a Catholic. Wrong, wrong, wrong.

Also, if I want to have a relationship with Jesus, I need to pray the Sinner’s Prayer. That’s all that I need to do. Anything more than faith in Jesus is works righteousness, which is wrong. And you get a personal relationship with Jesus just by sincerely praying the prayer. You can act like a heathen jackass for the rest of your life, but your ticket is punched and you are assured a seat on the glory train – assurance of salvation works even when you live like the demon’s spawn. Oh yeah, and I need to leave the Catholic Church. Right away – it’s wrong. And I need to be baptized (again – my first baptism was wrong) and attend a Baptist church. Methodist, Lutheran, Episcopal, Presbyterian, Pentecostal – all wrong. Attend a Baptist church. Oh, and tithe your income (before taxes). And read the bible – just the bible. And witness to your family, friends, and co-workers, even the guy in the street. And pray, but don’t meditate or contemplate. That’s wrong. That’s all you need to do. Faith, not works. Works are wrong.

Did I get anything wrong? Yeah, probably…
 
One thing I’ve learned from Baptists. What I believe and do as a Catholic is wrong. It just is. Because I’m a Catholic. Wrong, wrong, wrong.

Also, if I want to have a relationship with Jesus, I need to pray the Sinner’s Prayer. That’s all that I need to do. Anything more than faith in Jesus is works righteousness, which is wrong. And you get a personal relationship with Jesus just by sincerely praying the prayer. You can act like a heathen jackass for the rest of your life, but your ticket is punched and you are assured a seat on the glory train – assurance of salvation works even when you live like the demon’s spawn. Oh yeah, and I need to leave the Catholic Church. Right away – it’s wrong. And I need to be baptized (again – my first baptism was wrong) and attend a Baptist church. Methodist, Lutheran, Episcopal, Presbyterian, Pentecostal – all wrong. Attend a Baptist church. Oh, and tithe your income (before taxes). And read the bible – just the bible. And witness to your family, friends, and co-workers, even the guy in the street. And pray, but don’t meditate or contemplate. That’s wrong. That’s all you need to do. Faith, not works. Works are wrong.

Did I get anything wrong? Yeah, probably…
Yeh but the Sinner’s prayer is not in the bible and won’t save you. It is a false doctrine that developed from Calvinism and was first produced less than fifty years ago.
 
I do not mean this the way I am sure it is about to come over … but why do you even care what Baptists teach? Now I am not trying to be cold, really. I do not get into agruments or debates. The Church is right. Others are right only so long as they agree or are willing to learn from us. If they are obstanate I smile & go on.
 
I work in the largest Baptist church in America. Every day I witness Catholics leaving the Church due to baptist convincing them they are not saved due to infant baptism and convincing them there are no needs for the sacraments especially confessing sins to a priest. This is heresy. This is my cross that I carry every day and I thank God for it. Come with me to a baptist church and witness the heresies and then tell me if you still hold to what you stated. If you do not believe me what I have posted I challenge you to contact a local baptist church and ask him if what I am stating is true. You will find in his own church half of his own members are fallin’ away Catholics. Does this sit O.K. with you? it does not sit well for me. Please let us stop the “American let us be politically correct buisness” St Paul would have never allowed a Catholic Church to accept this behavior and if I can not convince you read his 1st letter to the Corinthians carefully and you will notice I am in harmony with his emotions and conscerns.

Peace of Jesus Christ be with you
 
I work in the largest Baptist church in America. Every day I witness Catholics leaving the Church due to baptist convincing them they are not saved due to infant baptism and convincing them there are no needs for the sacraments especially confessing sins to a priest. This is heresy. This is my cross that I carry every day and I thank God for it. Come with me to a baptist church and witness the heresies and then tell me if you still hold to what you stated. If you do not believe me what I have posted I challenge you to contact a local baptist church and ask him if what I am stating is true. You will find in his own church half of his own members are fallin’ away Catholics. Does this sit O.K. with you? it does not sit well for me. Please let us stop the “American let us be politically correct buisness” St Paul would have never allowed a Catholic Church to accept this behavior and if I can not convince you read his 1st letter to the Corinthians carefully and you will notice I am in harmony with his emotions and conscerns.

Peace of Jesus Christ be with you
It might be interesting to go to a Protestant forum and set up an anonymous survey question such as “Do you believe that Catholics are going to hell?” just to see the results. Coming from a Baptist family here in LA (Lower Alabama) I would expect the results to be a majority in the affirmative.
 
One thing I’ve learned from Baptists. What I believe and do as a Catholic is wrong. It just is. Because I’m a Catholic. Wrong, wrong, wrong.

Also, if I want to have a relationship with Jesus, I need to pray the Sinner’s Prayer. That’s all that I need to do. Anything more than faith in Jesus is works righteousness, which is wrong. And you get a personal relationship with Jesus just by sincerely praying the prayer. You can act like a heathen jackass for the rest of your life, but your ticket is punched and you are assured a seat on the glory train – assurance of salvation works even when you live like the demon’s spawn. Oh yeah, and I need to leave the Catholic Church. Right away – it’s wrong. And I need to be baptized (again – my first baptism was wrong) and attend a Baptist church. Methodist, Lutheran, Episcopal, Presbyterian, Pentecostal – all wrong. Attend a Baptist church. Oh, and tithe your income (before taxes). And read the bible – just the bible. And witness to your family, friends, and co-workers, even the guy in the street. And pray, but don’t meditate or contemplate. That’s wrong. That’s all you need to do. Faith, not works. Works are wrong.

Did I get anything wrong? Yeah, probably…
I’m Baptist and while I don’t know about your experiences in particular, you’re misrepresenting what we believe. You can’t just “pray the prayer.” Without faith and repentance there is no salvation. Here’s a quote from the Baptist Faith and Message, which is the doctrinal statement of the Southern Baptist Convention:
Salvation involves the redemption of the whole man, and is offered freely to all who accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Saviour, who by His own blood obtained eternal redemption for the believer. In its broadest sense salvation includes regeneration, justification, sanctification, and glorification. There is no salvation apart from personal faith in Jesus Christ as Lord.
A. Regeneration, or the new birth, is a work of God’s grace whereby believers become new creatures in Christ Jesus. It is a change of heart wrought by the Holy Spirit through conviction of sin, to which the sinner responds in repentance toward God and faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. Repentance and faith are inseparable experiences of grace.
Repentance is a genuine turning from sin toward God. Faith is the acceptance of Jesus Christ and commitment of the entire personality to Him as Lord and Saviour.
B. Justification is God’s gracious and full acquittal upon principles of His righteousness of all sinners who repent and believe in Christ. Justification brings the believer unto a relationship of peace and favor with God.
C. Sanctification is the experience, beginning in regeneration, by which the believer is set apart to God’s purposes, and is enabled to progress toward moral and spiritual maturity through the presence and power of the Holy Spirit dwelling in him. Growth in grace should continue throughout the regenerate person’s life.
D. Glorification is the culmination of salvation and is the final blessed and abiding state of the redeemed.
sbc.net/bfm/bfm2000.asp

In response to your “act[ing] like a heathen jackass for the rest of your life” comment, read section C above and the second paragraph of Article V in the linked document. A person who is truly regenerate will continue to believe and repent and will be kept by the power of God from falling away from the faith.

The way to have assurance of salvation is to continue to place your faith in the Lord Jesus Christ. While we do believe that all truly regenerate people will be kept by the power of God unto the end; it is possible for there to be “false believers” that, not being truly saved in the first place, will fall away (1 John 2:19).

Also, we believe that works are very important in the Christian life (see also the book of James.)

If you want to disagree with Baptist theology, that’s fine; but please disagree with we actually believe.
 
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If you want to disagree with Baptist theology, that’s fine; but please disagree with we actually believe.
That’s a good point Paul. However, Baptists don’t all fall under the SBC. What about Free Will Baptists (the saved CAN fall away) , or Landmarker Baptists (Calvanists - double predestination)?
 
That’s a good point Paul. However, Baptists don’t all fall under the SBC. What about Free Will Baptists (the saved CAN fall away) , or Landmarker Baptists (Calvanists - double predestination)?
In regards to Free Will Baptists, it’s important to note that they don’t believe that a single act of sin, however major, can cut one off from grace, but rather a willful apostasy or repudiation of Christ. My main point in my last post is that no Baptists believe that praying the sinner’s prayer until you get the “warm fuzzies” will save you.

About the Calvinists: Although only about 30% or so of SBC is full-fledged Calvinist (not many of whom believe in double predestination), our doctrine of perseverance is fundamentally a Calvinist doctrine so my last post applies.
 
In regards to Free Will Baptists, it’s important to note that they don’t believe that a single act of sin, however major, can cut one off from grace, but rather a willful apostasy or repudiation of Christ. My main point in my last post is that no Baptists believe that praying the sinner’s prayer until you get the “warm fuzzies” will save you.

About the Calvinists: Although only about 30% or so of SBC is full-fledged Calvinist (not many of whom believe in double predestination), our doctrine of perseverance is fundamentally a Calvinist doctrine so my last post applies.
So, you are saying that Baptists (Southern, Freewill, Landmarker, Primitive, Reformed, Charismatic, et. al) hold to the same theology as codified by the SBC?
 
I work in the largest Baptist church in America. Every day I witness Catholics leaving the Church due to baptist convincing them they are not saved due to infant baptism and convincing them there are no needs for the sacraments especially confessing sins to a priest. This is heresy. This is my cross that I carry every day and I thank God for it. Come with me to a baptist church and witness the heresies and then tell me if you still hold to what you stated. If you do not believe me what I have posted I challenge you to contact a local baptist church and ask him if what I am stating is true. You will find in his own church half of his own members are fallin’ away Catholics. Does this sit O.K. with you? it does not sit well for me. Please let us stop the “American let us be politically correct buisness” St Paul would have never allowed a Catholic Church to accept this behavior and if I can not convince you read his 1st letter to the Corinthians carefully and you will notice I am in harmony with his emotions and conscerns.
I’ve attended Baptist churches (and so-called community churches pastored by Baptists) for years, since my wife is not a Catholic – until recently, I attended both a Protestant church and a Catholic church. I’ve even taught in such churches. I am well aware that in many rapidly growing evangelical churches, often 30-40% or more of “converts” are former Catholics. For the most part, they are lapsed Catholics or lack basic knowledge of Catholic doctrine and history, but admittedly some simply want a different, more vibrant style of worship or more bible teaching. Catholic teaching is usually grossly misrepresented, and most evangelism is targeted at Christians from other denominations, especailly Catholics, rather than at the unchurched. Others who have responded to my post (admittedly an angry one) have said that it is not Baptist doctrine that “all you need to do is pray the Sinner’s Prayer”. In practice, that is precisely what is preached and practiced day in and day out in most evangelical churches with which I am acquainted. Once you join the church, you find out that more is expected of you (I listed some of those things), but I can guarantee you, those additional things are not taught in evangelism courses. “If you want to know that you’ll go to heaven, walk down to the altar and pray the prayer.” I think that modern evangelical churches, including Baptist churches, do not understand the scriptures properly and are highly selective about what the teach. I listened to hundreds of sermons, had face to face talks with lots of pastors, read the leading books and attended lots of classes in such churches. I think I got this one right, even though my approach was too angry, for which I apologize.
 
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