FWIW I am a celibate bisexual and all my other LGBT friends are livid because LeFou is a joke who is complicit in Gaston’s attempt at a forced marriage/rape because of his crush. This is not the kind of representation they or I want. Disney is pleasing nobody here.
Also, this whole idea that “man-crush” = “gay” is needlessly reductive.
The Simpsons’ *Smithers had a “man-crush” on his boss for decades before he was canonically outed as gay, but while I’m sure many interpreted the character as gay anyway, his actions made sense even before his gayness was confirmed.
Then there’s
Harry Potter’s Peter Pettigrew, who “hero-worshipped” James Potter and is even the subject of a mildly homophobic taunt from Sirius in one of the books. He’s oohing and aahing over James’s skill with catching a “snitch” (ball enchanted to fly away) and Sirius tells James to put the snitch away “before Wormtail wets himself” and I don’t think he was referring to urine.
However, the author (who has been happy to clarify the sexual nature of both the Dumbledore → Grindelwald and Bellatrix → Voldemort relationships) has never stated Pettigrew was actually gay.
JKR also portrays strong male-male friendships (Harry-Ron and James-Sirius among them) that have no gay connotations at all.
And Judge Harry had a “man-crush” on Mel Torme that was played for laughs many times on the
Night Court TV show, but that didn’t make him gay.
I even recall a running gag on the “Mike and Mike” sports radio talk show about Mike Greenberg’s “man-crush” on Chad Pennington, back when Pennington was QB of the Jets football team. They would play a clip from the song “I Will Always Love You” every time he mentioned Pennington.
There’s also been a long-standing friendly “conflict” between Mike Greenberg’s “metrosexuality” as compared to Mike Golic’s “dumb grunting jock” shtick, but I doubt anyone would actually get the impression that Greenberg is actually gay. Even if he didn’t mention his wife frequently.