Was Disney “the most wholesome” thing for children? I think we sometimes forget that homosexuality is not the only sin the Church condemns. There was a lot of very damaging blatant racism in some of the earlier Disney films. While modern society’s stance on gay relationships and abortion are deplorable, pre-1960s America wasn’t exactly a Christian Utopian paradise either…
I think that some people think that the kind of racism a film could show, essentially by showing blacks and other minorities only as domestic servants or in other stereotypical roles, is no big deal compared to the eeevils of showing that gay people
gasp exist.
I know “Song of the South” has been semi-banned for perpetuating racial stereotypes, but I have also read, on CAF, people defending the film, and stating their kids know better than to think real black people all live on a plantation and fawn over the children of their white neighbors.
On the other hand, it seems many CAFers want their children to be sheltered from the whole concept of homosexuality for as long as possible, and so they don’t want any gay characters to ever show up in films marketed to children. While I understand this to some extent, I do think many are being unrealistic in assuming their children are not going to see actual real gay people until, say, age 10 or 11, an age many think is “appropriate” for a discussion about the issue.
I have always been a bit bothered by that myself. But perhaps we shouldn’t go there. Even as a child I didn’t like that story and never have since.
So did you also dislike the Princess and the Frog story? That was also eventually turned into a Disney movie, but very loosely based on it, instead it was more of a kiddie version of “Coming to America” with an African prince finding his princess in Disneyfied-Louisiana.
But interestingly, both that adaptation and the animated B+B made it obvious from the first that the frog is an enchanted prince, and the beast is an enchanted prince, too. As opposed to the original versions, when that is meant to be a surprise at the end of the tale. Maybe they were trying to avoid charges of “beast-iality”?
I actually recall some people questioning the appropriateness of the original B+B story for kids, not because of “beastiality” since B+B don’t actually marry until the Beast’s curse is lifted, but because it involves two people who are in love living together, but not actually being married until the very end.

(After all, isn’t that a near occasion of sin? Fetch me my vapors!

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Indeed, I do recall reading that the idea of the servants being enchanted into household goods, was actually a way to make sure the story was G-rated by providing B+B with many chaperones; the servants also exist in the original story, but are made invisible, and the Beauty doesn’t actually know they exist until the curse is lifted.
I still find it distasteful for the director to include a “gay moment” just for the sake of touting his gay-friendly credentials. But I realize that “hey, gay people exist” is far from being the only problematic film content that parents should be watching out for.
(And BTW assuming the new LeFou as is just as much of a fanboy sycophant as the old LeFou, I doubt most gay people would even want to count him as a member, if he’s gay then he’s a very stereotypical one. He also doesn’t actually act on his sexuality, he meekly goes along with Gaston’s attempts to court Belle. Many gay people actually critiqued JKR for the “Dumbledore is gay” reveal, too, that they saw it as pandering to their demographic, but not really relevant in the story since he’s never shown to act on it, and the only time he apparently DID act on it in the past with Grindelwald, it ended in disaster.)