I grew up in Greenwich Village NYC in the 50s and 60s and have known, as a result, many homosexuals (male). My personal opinion is that in any group there are “volunteers” for their own reasons and then there are legitimate sufferers. I don’t think of homosexuality as a “disorder” per se that can be “cured”. I think it is a hormonal/genetic mistake/accident/in utero, perhaps even inherited. Mentally ill people cannot help being mentally ill and I think the great majority of experienced and educated psychiatrists (not your street corner MD) realize these things are quite complex. Adrenal gland function, thyroid, brain chemistry (and even interaction of neurons in the brain), ad nauseam, are “to blame” for all mental illness and, I think, for those situations where people are gender confused and even find themselves totally unattracted to the opposite sex. This is NOT a choice. NO ONE chooses to be schizophrenic, biolar, have a personality disorder, suffer from ADHD, dyslexia, high anxiety, social anxiety, agoraphobia, etc. NO ONE. Neither do those for whom same sex attraction is the “only” attraction CHOOSE IT.
I don’t care what any of those so-called professionals say. I’m not impressed by educational credentials (and remember that 50% of every graduating group from a simple Baccalaureate program through the M.D. Ph.D., etc. graduates in the last half of the class). It is experience, compassion, and great intuition, coupled with the ability to use one’s acquired knowledge (academic and experiential) that makes a great “doctor”. And they are few and not easy to find.
I think anyone who finds him/herself in a situation that is contrary to the “norm”, that is directly impeding the healthy progress of life, and that is so overpowering it cannot be denied, is a person who requires serious prayer and compassion. Jesus came to such as these. The people who flocked to Him (to the point where He had no rest and had to try to find a place to go in order to even sleep!) were questioning, hungry for something, hurting, disappointed, diseased, possessed, unloved, cast aside by society. He ate at their tables. He embraced them with great joy (yes, joy). He took great abuse and slander because of this! He died because of this! He rose because of this!
Pray for those who are in trouble in any way. Ask His Mother to intercede for these people who are lost, suffering, or compromising themselves out of confusion, fear, misdirection. Do not judge.