Tommy, my son-in-law and family are Hispanic. If it helps, the majority of people who are Latin American do not believe that Mary is superior to God, acting like God, to be preferred to God, etc. any more than any “Anglo’ Catholic etc.
The Catholic heritage is so strong and the understanding is so clear that (and I know this from my Protestant best friend) that the real difficulty is not with Tia Maria or Tio Jose going to the Virgin, or San Antonio, or whomever.
The understanding is so clear that God is working through His saints (kind of like your ultimate CEO working through his managers) that there is a sort of “Catholic shorthand understanding”. It is so basic to our understanding that all graces, all actions come from God as the ultimate ‘source’ and go through our ‘neighbors’ and ourselves that we don’t even have to articulate it. God is all, but in His infinite goodness He allows us to help assist Him.
Here on earth there are thousands of saint who are God’s arms and legs, if you will, bringing Him to each other. My own prayers come from me but only because God has called me into being, given me my body and soul to use for Him.
Similarly His saints, who once on earth brought Him to others, because He willed them into being and gave them the opportunity to do HIS will, can do the same in heaven. Again, all originates in GOD, no one can do anything without him.
It is understood that praying to St. Anthony to help find something is not expecting that St. Anthony, sitting around in heaven with nothing much to do, is going to, of his volition, go around and get his own little posse of people worshipping Him and getting things from him instead of God, or that we are bypassing God. We aren’t.