What about
Luke 11:27-28 … also … Matthew 12: 46-50
Why would Jesus not allow the woman to give her praise in Luke, and why would Jesus not acknowledge her in Matthew?
But she WAS allowed to. That’s why the quote appears in scripture - with his response to it.
AND if one looks closely - she is praising Christ much more directly than His mother.
and why would Jesus not acknowledge her in Matthew? He does “acknowledge her” – but He seizes a moment and teaches his listeners something “deeper and more spiritual” than the “human things” His listeners bring up.
Were Jesus’ words: A
Contradiction? Or a
Redirection (from the physical to the spiritual)? Or an
ADDED EMPHASIS embellishment?
A Contradiction? - Must this be interpreted in THAT manner? When people cry “Hosanna to the son of David!” He doesn’t whirl about on the donkey and do a take down on David. And certainly He does not “DIShonor His mother” in violation of the commandment.
Per Mary, the other two persons of the Trinity (and He Himself) are elsewhere in this very Gospel (Luke) seen to be honoring her in ways unequalled before or since.
The Father sends an Angel who praises her as “full of (God’s) grace” or “highly favored” and announces the greatest news mankind had ever received up to that time.
The Spirit comes upon her and she conceives the Son of Man.
The Word of God becomes the Son of God, and the Son of Man within this same womb that the woman in Luke 11:27 blessed in her praise.
The Spirit then reveals to Elizabeth the truth about Mary and her unborn child in Luke Chapter 1. FILLED with the** Spirit **Elizabeth cries out in a loud voice
Luke 1:41 When Elizabeth heard Mary’s greeting, the infant leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth, filled with the holy Spirit,
42 cried out in a loud voice and said, "Most blessed are you among women, and blessed is the
fruit of your womb.
43 And how does this happen to me, that the
mother of my Lord 14 should come to me?
44 For at the moment the sound of your greeting reached my ears, the infant in my womb leaped for joy.
45 Blessed are you
who believed that what was spoken to you by the Lord would be fulfilled."
Place Luke 1:45 (here) NEXT to Luke 11:28 and Jesus’ redirection and embellishment of the woman’s (true but rather earthbound insight) becomes more clear. Mary is seen to BE not merely a chosen vessel who was lucky in having an intimate relationship with Jesus fall into her lap (womb) and the joy of nursing the Son of God at her breasts … no … she WAS (more importantly than his listeners would suspect) a perfect example of: hearing, believing and obeying.
This is not a “warning off” from Mary - but “on the contrary”

some additional information
about his mother that is even MORE important to His listeners there. They CAN have a similarly fulfilling intimacy with Him by DOING what Mary did! Hearing the word of God, (believing it and) obeying it.
The woman’s words are also less of an absurd “Hey everybody, if you think HE’S great - you should get a load of His mother!” or even a more plausible by still Mary directed “What a fine job your mother did in raising a fine boy like you!” sentiment that might give HER more credit than Jesus for the (wonderful) way He turned out!
Was it MORE like: “What a marvelous person you are! Your mother must feel so proud of you. And privileged to have been so close to you. How I’d like to have been that woman, so intimately close to you!” A bit of a “Hosanna” to Jesus, and because she is a woman, she “raises her voice” (a bit like the holy spirit filled Elizabeth in Luke 1:42) and speaks the word “blessed” about Mary and her womb (of which Jesus is the fruit). She does not equate Mary to Jesus, nor does Elizabeth.
And the same sort of thing holds for Matthew 12:46 -50.
It was not bad that Mary and his relatives sought to see Him. Nor was the well meaning person who gave the info to Jesus that they were present – doing something wrong. He probably thought he was being polite. And that Jesus would want to know.
He may have interrupted Jesus’ speaking to the people with this “news” however.
And Jesus used the moment to amaze the crowd by NOT uprooting those who had drawn close to Him in favor of his blood relatives … but again emphasizing His desire that THEY, his listeners could draw close to Him and (again) in “doing (God’s) will” they would be as close to Him as His brothers, sisters, mother. He was lifting UP His “hearers” not chastising His mother. Who after all was here once more “seeking” Him as we Christians are all to do.
He did not dishonor her. At this point in His ministry He had left home, and while He was (and IS) still her Son … He was now about His Father’s business, the work of salvation and drawing all people to Himself.
Interestingly Mary’s interceding at the miracle at Cana marked the
resumption of His
public ministry – which she had inadvertently “delayed” at the Temple when He was 12 by desiring Him to come home.