I think I can relate to what the poster said about regretting their choice to go to NO masses.
Take our local church for example. It’s closer than the TLM and I have had to go to it a few times in the last few years to attend mass.
Honestly, I would have been better off staying at home watching the mass for shutins and got more out of it. When you come to church before mass to say some prayers and have folks talking very loudly like they are at a ball game, coming in dressed like their going to go play ball or weed the garden, kids running up and down the aisles, dropping food and drink all over the pews, being passed back and forth over the pews to mom and grandma, etc., the “music ministry” composed of electric guitars and drums which they don’t play very well, etc. Add to that they are playing the “christian rock” tunes.
That is church and a holy sacrifice? I just cannot get into a religious state of mind with this nonsence going on. Add to that the fact that come time to shake hands people are sucking face and the altar servers are to run up and down the aisles to shake as many hands as possible. Give me a break. Some guy hacking his head off and then he wants to shake my hand??? Not. Then they stand all through communion and afterwards, talking of course not preparing to receive Jesus. Drop a host, no problem, just pick it up and off you go. Folding hands? What is that. It’s grap a host and go, hands in your pocket or arms swinging back and forth. Oye. Enough already.
**So do I regret going, yes and no. No because I need to attend mass, yes because this fluff is not mass, it is a social get together where people come to anything but pray. **
They have a new pastor now so things may change but I don’t even bother attending anymore. I just attend my TLM and everyone is happy.