Charlotte,
That is a great post and thank you for sharing!! I have a sister who has come back and is now quoting the Pope. It is important we do not hide our faith but be tactful and open and ever present to others. I think as well, for the small numbers of those defending their faith, that we call on our Blessed Mother Mary to magnify our prayers and works for the Gospel.
I was on Newsvine for awhile and took on the two big atheists…I spoke in a loving, fraternal way with them. It came out that what they find most difficult are the American Fundamentalists…so many times the people who were most anti religion were damaged by sects while growing up. I encouraged both of them to read Summa Theologica, the erudite more their style. One in particular was somewhat defending me with the more crude online, and I ended up genuinely liking him – with reserve.
Of course there is reference to the priest sex scandal in the church…I came to the defense of the vast majority of good priests, but then others would bring up the deal about all the church’s ‘money’. I explained to the best of my ability the nature and mission of the church, and later read posts enlightened by that.
It was difficult defending Pope Benedict and his statement that condems were not the answer. It was difficult stating why living a sexually liberal life was not good, the value of the traditional role of women, that sex is the instrument that brings children into the world…so handle with care and reserve. The hard line pool would not back off and I found them more difficult than the two main atheists.
But it was most difficult to explain pastorally when it came to the 9 year old girl who was excommunicated in Brazil along with her mother and doctor for having an abortion of her twins, fathered by her incestuous stepfather.
Charlotte, I think your experience reveals what alot of people suspect is that we have a highly vocal, aggressive and combative Far Left Mouthspeak that dominates everything and everywhere, but it doesn’t mean people are following them. It is best to go under the radar and reach out to people, praying and studying the best way to reach people. My sister told me there are those who will come back as she did, as you say.
I would like to invite the atheists on Newsvine to come here.