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Me too! That’s the kind of thing you learn on your own, especially in the days before the internet. I learned what little I could know in the public library on Saturdays, reading the Catholic encyclopedia.Exactly! I was Roman Catholic for over 38 years, and never one time was the existence of the Eastern Church mentioned by the clergy or people.
My mother (God rest her soul) was terrified for me, until a priest friend of the family told her it was OK.When I finally moved to the Ruthenian Catholics, the Latins could not understand what I had done. I even experienced some prejudice!
It took a long time before I could convince her to attend “Mass” with me, still she was pretty uptight, but when she saw the ‘babushkas’ pull out their rosaries, she pulled out hers and was right at home!
I was a greeter at the parish, and sometimes that was like a docent. We had groups of visiting Latin Catholics come to the parish after the radio show took off and we could show them around, explain the icons, the architecture, the spirituality and answer questions.
Of course, the information would come out that I was a Latin Catholic before joining the EC parish. I have seen a few people actually come to tears upon learning ‘I had abandoned the Faith of my fathers’… ‘How could it come to this?’
My best friend at the time (also Polish like me, also Catholic) was told on several occasions that I had become a Byzantine Catholic (and joined the choirs, joined the evangelization committee, discerned a call to the diaconate, etc.) and I invited him many times to come visit the parish, at least if for no other reason then to hear me sing. I made it very clear more than once (or so I thought) that we were “under the Pope” and fully Catholic, with a big picture of Pope John Paul II in our vestibule. Puzzlingly, he never took me up on it.
Much later, when after great consternation and agonizing soul searching I had decided to become Orthodox, I felt that I should tell him. He said “but I thought you already were Orthodox”!
Some people just don’t get it.