I assume the God which would require the sacrifice of His own Son for our redemption would respect our decision.
I see your point. I think we might each be talking about a different God. Personally, I would hope that your God**
wouldn’t** respect my decision and would grant me mercy…
God respects our decision. It would be pointless to create us free and then just override our free will. Christ’s life, death and resurrection and everything else he has taught then becomes rather pointless.
Christ died for us when we were still sinners so here you already have God’s mercy in abundance.
But it is equally true that we can refuse that mercy.
God does not damn us, we damn ourselves. But God till the very end does not cease to offer us the grace to turn back to Him.
The tricky thing is how to reconcile Grace and Free Will.
The two major schools of thought on this subject are the Thomist and Molinist.
Below is an extract of my post on the topic of predestination, grace and free will on another thread.
Definitions:
efficacious (irresistible) grace is a special gif of God by which a soul incapable by its own natural resources to perform an act conducive to eternal salvation, is given supernatural powers to freely perform said act.
Prevenient grace is divine grace which precedes human decision.(wikipedia)
The issue:
The question for both the Molinist and the Thomist is how to reconcile the efficacy of grace and the infallibility of its effect with the freedom of the human will because they seem to be mutually exclusive.
When does the infallible effect of efficacious grace come into effect without impairing the freedom of the will?
The differences:
Thomists: start from the point of efficacious grace
Molinists: proceed from a clear concept of freedom.
Thomist: maintains that God gives the grace only to those He has chosen (the elect)
Molinist: believes that God bestows the grace on everyone.
Thomist: Grace is intrinsically efficacious
Molinist: Grace extrinsically efficacious
Thomis: The will moves from potency into act by will of God
Molinist: The will freely consents to prevenient grace and this consent renders the completely sufficient grace efficacious.
My comments:
It seems to me that the Thomist position is almost similar to the Calvinist (which the Church rejects), because it says that the will is moved to a free act by grace. To my thinking, if grace is efficacious such that it’s effect is infallible, the response from the will is no longer free.
I think the Molinist view is more reconcilable with a God who is Love. If we take the Thomist view, then damnation becomes the sole act of God and not contingent at all upon our response to grace. Since God is the creator and has infallible foreknowledge, the Thomist view paints a God that creates man for the sole reason of damning them.
The expressed view of the Church is that God created us for himself.
Unless I have misunderstood Thomism, its thesis could only be reconciled with a loving God who made us for Himself, if we posit that though there is a Hell, it is highly unlikely that anyone will end up there since grace is efficacious and God loves everyone equally.
I think however that grace is not always efficacious but always sufficient.
I think in discussing predestinatio,n God’s Infinite Love should be the main premise from which all other (grace and free will) proceed.
Thomism’s objection to Molinism is that, due to its over-emphasis on man’s freedom of will, it diminishes the supremacy of God over His Creation.
However, I personally think that this objection is without basis because it can be argued that it is still God who wills that this is the way that grace and free will should play out. God is still the one who decided to effect salvation in this manner; that in pulling us out of the ravine, He would require us to place our hands on His, even though He could quite easily have yanked us out without our cooperation.
The Thomist and Molinist view I think can be reconciled if we situate the former as operative during our last moment, and the latter during our lifetime.
The way I see it, the action of grace on the will in the Molinist view can be somewhat compared to building muscles. The more you exercise a particular muscle the more you increase the muscle mass and the easier the exercise becomes.
To apply to the Molinist view, sufficient grace is given so that the will can respond with a yes, and if the response is a yes, then the infallible conclusion to goodness ensues and so it goes during our lifetime. Sufficient grace is always given to elicit a yes from us. But not being efficacious, it is therefore fallible. Our assent to grace however effects a change in the soul such that the merely sufficient grace becomes efficacious. The more we say yes to God the easier it is to say yes.
Such that at the end of our lives, saying yes is the only way we could have responded to God.