Dressing for Mass?

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Certainly here in Australia, slacks are quite acceptable at any venue and we have formal type slacks/outfits as well as casual slacks right thru to jeans. However, pre V2, a Catholic girl or woman would never ever be seen in slacks of any kind whatsoever and still have a good reputation.

I think it is cultural whatever one’s culture actually is. I can’t see the problem with slacks, jeans etc. since one is well covered and ideally never so tight as to indeed be immodest - also, one can comfortably assume any position within reason and not be embarrassed.
Becca3 lives in Florida, USA. I am sure she has seen pants on women before July 1st. In fact, I am pretty sure she has seen pants in church.

So why was she shocked? And why does she think there is a problem with pants in church??
 
Certainly here in Australia, slacks are quite acceptable at any venue and we have formal type slacks/outfits as well as casual slacks right thru to jeans. However, pre V2, a Catholic girl or woman would never ever be seen in slacks of any kind whatsoever and still have a good reputation.

I think it is cultural whatever one’s culture actually is. I can’t see the problem with slacks, jeans etc. since one is well covered and ideally never so tight as to indeed be immodest - also, one can comfortably assume any position within reason and not be embarrassed.
Are you speaking of a pre V2 female’s attire in Church or in general? Or just in Australia?

Here’s a photo of Saint Gianna Beretta Molla taken before Vatican 2 and look what’s she’s wearing:

tomperna.org/2012/04/

Not only pants in one picture, but a top with sleeves above the elbow in the other!
 
It saddens me to know that jesus is actually in our church and people fail to dress properly while in other religions who don’t have the physical presence of jesus do dress.what…?,
 
Ok, for those of you who were trying to reach me, I am here now. It is not that I am shocked about seeing women wearing pants, I am shocked that not just women but men dont’ dress up for Church. I am came from a background where you have to wear dresses and the men had to wear a suit for Church. I don’t have a problem seeing women wear slacks. I personally prefer seeing that over short-shorts. The bottom-line here is that it doesn’t bother me whatever you wear as long as it is not too distracting from the main purpose of being in Mass, and that is to worship our Lord and God too.
 
I asked about that on page 2. Still no response. 😦
If I may speak on her behalf, she wrote that she is a recent convert from a very conservative Protestant church where the ladies all wore dresses. It was a cultural shock to see women in slacks at Mass. So, she asked if we think this is all right–not, I think to stir up any animosity, but because she really wants to know what we think about it. If you read a few posts back to her last couple of posts you’ll see that while it’s not for her, she can see how others might feel fine dressing in slacks or other clothes but wishes people would dress according to the reverence of the occasion. That’s what I got from our most recent exchanges, anyway. 🙂

I see you just responded Becca3. Hope I didn’t misrepresent you here.
 
If I may speak on her behalf, she wrote that she is a recent convert from a very conservative Protestant church where the ladies all wore dresses. It was a cultural shock to see women in slacks at Mass. So, she asked if we think this is all right–not, I think to stir up any animosity, but because she really wants to know what we think about it. If you read a few posts back to her last couple of posts you’ll see that while it’s not for her, she can see how others might feel fine dressing in slacks or other clothes but wishes people would dress according to the reverence of the occasion. That’s what I got from our most recent exchanges, anyway. 🙂

I see you just responded Becca3. Hope I didn’t misrepresent you here.
Nope, you didn’t. And thank you for your kind defense of my honor. You are right. I have come from that background and been exposed to something I am not used to and having some cultural shock.
 
Nope, you didn’t. And thank you for your kind defense of my honor. You are right. I have come from that background and been exposed to something I am not used to and having some cultural shock.
:tiphat: No problem. This topic has been discussed quite a bit on CAF and it hasn’t always been friendly nor profitable. I didn’t want to see it happen again–not that anyone who has posted in this thread has had bad intentions. 🙂
 
:tiphat: No problem. This topic has been discussed quite a bit on CAF and it hasn’t always been friendly nor profitable. I didn’t want to see it happen again–not that anyone who has posted in this thread has had bad intentions. 🙂
I think only the newbies would post the same topics over again. We didn’t know any better! :eek: 😃
 
I think only the newbies would post the same topics over again. We didn’t know any better! :eek: 😃
Yeah, and many aren’t savvy about how the forum works, either. There’s a search function that can help people find threads on the topics they want to discuss–to see if they need to start a new one. But many don’t even know it’s there. 🤷
 
Yeah, and many aren’t savvy about how the forum works, either. There’s a search function that can help people find threads on the topics they want to discuss–to see if they need to start a new one. But many don’t even know it’s there. 🤷
Right. So true. So, what is this Tiber Swim Team you were a part of?? I am curious since I know that the Tiber River is in Rome right??
 
Right. So true. So, what is this Tiber Swim Team you were a part of?? I am curious since I know that the Tiber River is in Rome right??
It’s just a little inside joke amongst us converts. By “crossing the Tiber” we left behind Protestantism to become Catholic. Most of us had to “swim” over rather than cross by some easier means like a ferry or bridge, you see. 😉
 
It’s just a little inside joke amongst us converts. By “crossing the Tiber” we left behind Protestantism to become Catholic. Most of us had to “swim” over rather than cross by some easier means like a ferry or bridge, you see. 😉
Oh ok. lol. I get it… 😃
 
Wow, made it to July without someone asking asking about shorts at Mass 🍿 Shorts at Mass are the norm here in the MW during the summer months (no offense to the OP, there were alot of heated threads last Summer at shorts and Mass. Welcome to the Church!)

For the record, in the office I work in, every day is “jeans Friday” and if I could, I would wear shorts to work just like I do for Mass.
Same here in Brooklyn. I was shocked at the number of people wearing shorts last Sunday at Mass. I’m on the fence as to whether or not it is appropriate, though I would personally never do it. I did, however, wear shorts when going into the church last Saturday for confession, but I view that a little differently.
 
Hi folks. I have been going to Mass for the past two Sundays and still love it even tho I am still new to the rituals and what have you. Now, I used to be such a tomboy and didn’t like wearing dresses but since I got older, I love dressing up. Also, I come from another denomination where you have to dress up to pay your respects to God. Now the new ones who didn’t know would come in there wearing jeans and a t-shirt. That was the environment I was in.

Now, these past two weeks going to Mass, it was such a shock to me to see people come in with slacks and some were wearing shorts. I am not judging or condemning anyone, I just felt uncomfortable seeing that. I feel like that was a sign of disrespect to God in the chapel. I would like to hear your thoughts on this.
People tend to be very casual at my parish, and it is a tough line to walk. I actually sometimes would prefer to wear a suit and tie to church; however, I would stand out so much at my parish on a regular Sunday (especially in the summer), that I don’t do it because I also figure that it is not reverent to draw attention to myself. I don’t wear shorts and a t-shirt, but in the summer it is usually a short sleeve polo shirt with no logo and dress slacks.
 
People tend to be very casual at my parish, and it is a tough line to walk. I actually sometimes would prefer to wear a suit and tie to church; however, I would stand out so much at my parish on a regular Sunday (especially in the summer), that I don’t do it because I also figure that it is not reverent to draw attention to myself. I don’t wear shorts and a t-shirt, but in the summer it is usually a short sleeve polo shirt with no logo and dress slacks.
That is why I buy light summer dresses for the summer and still be respectable for Mass.
 
I , personally , have opinion : “You are catholic always and on every place”. Because of that, during summer , I wear short with t shirt and jeans . But often I saw girls , in dresses that are almost transparent … white dresses mostly … I think that is inappropriate .
 
That is why I buy light summer dresses for the summer and still be respectable for Mass.
I see now you come from a background of sola skirtura. If you choose to wear to a dress or skirt, that’s fine, but even in this post, you have once again implied that it’s not respectable for women to wear pants at Church. Even the Vatican itself doesn’t have a problem with it, as evidenced by this sign, which is posted outside each Church in Vatican City:

forums.catholic-questions.org/showpost.php?p=9025288&postcount=91
 
I always felt like you should try to look a little more dressed up when you go to church but I don’t think it’s disrespectful if you don’t. Daisy duke shorts, micro minis, lots of cleavage, mmmm, could be distracting for the other parishioners who are there. I wouldn’t want to deter someone from their prayerful time but I’m a middle aged woman so there’s not much danger of that happening. I like sundresses and capris.
 
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